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Authors: Dale McGowan
Being Good without a Belief in God
Chucking Stalin and the Inquisition — and getting serious about morality
Being good without God — a quick history
Digging Up the Natural Roots of Morality
Clarifying “survival of the fittest”
Being afraid — and getting over it
Framing the question right — why do people (mostly) behave so well?
Recognizing the changing nature of morality
Grasping ethical incentives — carrots and sticks
Recognizing different levels of morality
Keeping two moral ideas in view
Chapter 16 : Seeing the World Naturally
Accepting Responsibility and Accountability
Setting Aside Bronze-Age Ideas
Thinking about virtues and vices
Gaping in New Wonder at Reality
Considering whether an atheist can be spiritual
Grasping the implications of evolution
Discovering and Defining Life’s Meaning
Raising Children to Think Independently
Chapter 17: Being an Atheist in a Religious World
Living in a Mostly Religious Culture
Choosing battles, knowing rules
Grappling with church-state issues in public school and in the public square
Deciding how to interact with religion and the religious
Understanding why religious literacy matters (for everyone)
Doing religious literacy the wrong way
Doing religious literacy the right way
Living as an Atheist in a Religious Extended Family
Drawing out family religious diversity
Creating a safe space for doubt and difference
Chapter 18: Getting the Best of Religion . . . and Leaving the Rest
Realizing Why People (Really) Go to Church
Creating Communities without Church (. . . or at Least without God)
Experimenting with humanist community
Counseling and Support without Religion
Kicking bad habits without a “higher power”
Asking Whether Anything is Sacred
Chapter 19: Ten Surprising Things about Atheists and Other Nonbelievers
They Know an Awful Lot about Religion
They Tend to Behave Themselves
They Have a Lot in Common with Everyone Else
They Can Be Nice, Normal, and Funny
They Don’t Usually Raise Their Kids to Be Atheists
They’re Not More Worried about Death than the Religious
They Often Seek to Coexist and Cooperate with Religious People
Chapter 20: Ten (Plus One) Famous People You May Not Know are Nonbelievers
The Guy Who Wrote Slaughterhouse-Five
The First Female Prime Minister of Australia
The First Atheist Over the Rainbow
The First Woman on US Currency
An A-List Actor and Philanthropist
The World’s Coolest Astronomer
One of the World’s Richest (and Most Generous) People
An Actress, Activist of the First Rank, and another Harry Potter Alum
Chapter 21: Ten Fun and Easy Ways to Explore Atheism
Be Touched by His Noodly Appendage
Watch Other Movies That Challenge Beliefs or Explore a Natural Worldview
Introduction
A
friend who heard I was writing
Atheism For Dummies
said it would be the skinniest book on the shelf. “Just one sentence long,” he said. “‘Atheists are people who don’t believe in God.’”
I replied by suggesting a book on the Grand Canyon: “The Grand Canyon is a big hole in Arizona.” Of course that sentence would miss most of what’s really worth knowing about the Grand Canyon — its geology and geography, how it came to be, its wildlife and formations, and its significance among other formations on the planet.
Likewise, a book on atheism that stops at the definition of the word would miss what’s really interesting about the startling idea that (despite what your mother and your hunches may tell you) God doesn’t actually exist. It’d be just as incomplete as saying, “Religious people believe in God,” and leaving it at that. There’s a bit more to say.
People who’ve entertained the possibility that God doesn’t exist, and sometimes even said it out loud, make up a seldom-explored thread of human history that intersects with the biggest questions in human life:
How did everything get here?
What is the meaning and purpose of life?
How can you (and more importantly, that guy over there) be a good and moral person?
What happens when you die?
Seriously, is somebody steering this thing?
The idea that an unseen power created and runs the universe is surely as old as the human mind. From the first time one
Homo habilis
saw his neighbor fall down and never get up again, the curious human neo-cortex would have demanded an explanation. Lacking any good way of figuring out what happened, that same neo-cortex would have provided an answer that
seemed
true.
But every guess in human history that “seemed right” has almost certainly been doubted by somebody in the room. When the guess is “God,” and the doubt rises to the level of strong conviction, you have yourself an atheist.
Atheist.
If that word makes you flinch, you’re not alone. People are conditioned to flinch at certain words. When my son came home in seventh grade and said, “You know what? I think I’m a communist,” I nearly flinched down a flight of stairs. He’d learned about systems of government, you see, and the one where everybody shared what they had sounded good to him. But I grew up in the 1970s, and before I could actually
learn
anything about communism, I’d heard it hissed so many times that I couldn’t think about it at all. All I could do was flinch.
The same is true of atheism; however, it’s much less flinch-worthy than you may think. And one purpose of this book is to bring that flinch down to a mild tic.
About This Book
This is a book about atheism written by an atheist. I’m also an agnostic and a humanist, which makes more sense when you finish
Chapter 2
.
If
you finish
Chapter 2
, I should say, because this book is written for dipping and diving. Skip
Chapter 2
completely if you want.
This book isn’t the first one about atheism written by an atheist, but it’s different from most. It’s an overview, an intro for people who are interested in finding out more about the topic. It does include some of the reasons atheists are atheists, but it’s not written to convince you to become one. If that’s what you’re after, other books can serve you better. And though it includes some of the complaints atheists have about religion — because hey, that’s part of the picture — it’s not a broadside against religious belief either. In fact, I spend a good deal of ink talking about the good things religion has to offer and the things believers and nonbelievers have in common. Chapters
17
and
18
are bursting with that sort of thing, which is one of the likely surprises for readers of
Atheism For Dummies.
Although a lot of atheists spend a lot of time (and rightly so) fighting against the bad things religion does, just as many of atheists are interested in co-existing with religion and religious people. And sometimes the same person goes back and forth, depending on the issue. If the idea of atheism freaks you out a bit, my hope is that this book can help you relax. Atheists are mostly perfectly normal folks, and everyone will be better off if they’re less fearful of each other.
On a personal note: You’ll see a lot of personal notes in this book. It’s one of the most striking differences between
Atheism For Dummies
and, say,
Catholicism For Dummies.
There’s no atheist Vatican, no catechism, no scripture, so I can’t point to a central, defining authority to tell you who atheists are or what they believe. I end up relying on surveys, on the reports of organizations, on research, on histories, on anecdotal evidence from the thousands of atheists and humanists I’ve met during my years in the freethought movement, and on my own personal experience as an atheist and humanist. (To keep myself honest, Dr. Ed Buckner, one of the true giants of the American freethought movement, is the book’s technical editor to catch my errors. If any got through, blame Ed.)
The lack of an atheist Vatican is a good thing. Just as not all Catholics believe what the Vatican defines as “Catholic belief,” so any central atheist authority would instantly fail to represent the true diversity of belief among those who claim one of the many labels under that great big umbrella.
So as you flip through this book, instead of a single grand procession through history, you can see religious disbelief as it really is — a collection of millions of individual voices, millions of separate stories, millions of individual human beings asking questions, questioning answers, and finally arriving at the conclusion that God, for better and worse, is all in our heads.
Finally, no one should expect a complete reckoning of the wonderful world of atheism. It’s not possible, it’s not desirable, and it’s not the purpose of this book. Instead, I try to stick to the things that are most interesting and relevant to the past and present of atheism, then give you tips for finding out more if you want to.
Conventions Used in This Book
I use the following conventions throughout the text to make things consistent and easy to understand:
All Web addresses appear inmonofont.
However, I don’t give a lot of URLs. There’s nothing as tedious as copying out a long web address from a book. So I often give an organization name, for example, and let you search for it online.
New terms appear in
italics
and are closely followed by an easy-to-understand definition.
Though a lot of nonbelievers capitalize Atheist and Humanist, many others don’t. For reasons I explain in
Chapter 2
, I’m with the lower-casers. I follow the convention of capitalizing the names of religions, and I capitalize God when used as a proper name (“she believes in God”), just like I capitalize Steve (“she believes in Steve”). But when it’s a generic god or gods (“they worship a big blue god”), no cap. I plan to be pretty inconsistent on this one.