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Authors: Diane Warner

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"___________________, what a good marriage we have had for 25 years! Who would ever believe that after all these years we love each other even more than we did on our wedding day? In fact, our love has been a precious loveso beautiful and rare. You have been everything a wife / husband could ever hope for: a compassionate friend; a caring listener; a patient nurse; an exemplary mother / father; and an enthusiastic partner as we have pursued our dreams and goals. Thank you for making me so happy in every way; you are still my sweetheart and I gladly reaffirm my wedding vows this day."
"Fifty years...50 golden years! How I praise God for you, ______________. It was such a stroke of luck to have met you that day at the Canteen, and yet, was it really luck, or God's providence? I loved you from that first time I saw you as you stood there with those glorious auburn curls and those sparkling emerald eyes. Who would have believed you would ever give me a chance? But, you did...and now, over 50 years later, I still love you as much as I did that first time I saw you. When we married we promised to be faithful in good times and in bad, whether richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, and we have had our share of all of these, haven't we? But we have been faithful and our love has grown as we have overcome many obstacles over our 50 years of marriage. How can I thank you for the joy you have brought into my life, for your laughter, your hugs and your constant, unshakable love? I recommit myself to you this day, __________________, as your husband / wife, and I
 
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promise to love you always, just as I did 50 years ago, and just as I do today."
(Personalize these vows to include the way you met, the color of hair and eyes, etc.)
Up Close and Personal
This chapter wouldn't be complete without the story of a golden anniversary couple.
Erma Streeter and Loren Hosmer knew each other all their lives, but fell in love when they were teenagers in the 1940s. They realized their love had turned to marriage-type love, however, during the summer of 1945 when she was 17 and he was 20. It all began one Saturday in June when Erma and her sister, Fern, walked from their home to the Uptown Ballroom at 10th and G streets in Modesto, California where Loren asked Erma to dance. A week and a half later Loren showed up at Erma's home unannounced and asked her out on a date, "right in front of all of my family," as Erma writes. He took her to a carnival where he conveniently steered her over to the Fun House where her pleated skirt just happened to blow over her head as a gust of air suddenly spurted from beneath the floor boards. Embarrassed, Erma turned to Loren and asked, "Did you see anything?" With a smirk, he said no, but years later he told her it was "just a good thing you were wearing panties.''
They dated nearly every day after that and he proposed a few months later when he told her he loved her and wanted her to be the mother of his children. (He didn't tell her there would be
eight
of them!)
 
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Their parents weren't keen on them getting married, so Erma and Loren decided to elope. On December 30, 1945 they took off for Carson City, Nevada, where they were married in a Presbyterian parsonage. The minister's wife, daughter and grandson were their witnesses. They only had a one-night honeymoon in Reno before returning to their respective homes where they kept theft marriage a secret. When their parents found out about the wedding a month later, they "weren't all that happy" but, finally, three months after the wedding, Erma's family had a shower for them where they passed out wedding announcements to the guests in attendance.
Throughout theft 50 years of married life they struggled along, raising eight children, theft times very difficult at first as they lived with rationed tires, gasoline, sugar, meat and shoes, something many of you reading this chapter know all about. Loren held many positions through the years: school bus driver, carpenter, contractor and, most recently, as owner of the Capital Door Sales Company. Erma worked for the National Can Company, as well as the Census Bureau; she also helped in the family business as secretary and bookkeeper.
They lost one of their children, their dear daughter, Nancy Lea Smith, when she died in a single automobile accident in 1984, but their remaining seven children, plus their 21 grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren and other family members and friends honored them with a lovely 50th wedding anniversary celebration on December 30, 1995. There were 200 guests present to witness the reaffirmation of their vows. Five of their daughters and one granddaughter served as bridesmaids; two sons and two grandsons as groomsmen and the rest of their grandchildren, great-grandchildren and other family members served in many ways, as wellas flower girls, musicians, vocalists, readers, guest
 
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book attendant, "balloon engineers," disc jockey, and the myriad duties required to pull off such a glorious occasion. Loren and Erma have graciously allowed me to share the vow segment of their reaffirmation service with you.
Norma and Larry (Erma's sister and brother-in-law) delivered this reading that preceded their vows:
"The home is to provide the sweetest, most precious and endearing relationship on earth. The value can best be described by the words, 'Sweeter as the years go by.' Marriage is a lifelong contract. It is not entered into thoughtlessly or lightly. Loren and Erma have realized that mind, heart and soul have become one and they wish to renew their wedding vows to bind them the rest of their days. God has blessed this union as His word has been reverenced, loved and relied on. Obedience to Him is the prime of their responsibilities. Consequently, they wish to create a bond of lasting love and devotion to each other for the rest of their days."
Minister: "Please join hands and repeat after me:"
Loren (repeating after the minister): "I, Loren, promise to continue to love and cherish and protect Erma, whose hand I now hold, and provide for her in health and sickness, and be true to her, and cleave to her until death do us part. I renew my vow to take her for my lawful wedded wife."
Erma (repeating after the minister): "I, Erma, promise to continue to love and honor this man, Loren, whose hand I now hold, and be true and faithful to him and cleave to him until death do us part. I renew my vow to take him for my lawful wedded husband."

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