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Authors: Diane Warner

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Messianic Jew-Christian
This is the marriage of a Jew who believes in Yeshua (Jesus) and a gentile Christian. These ceremonies usually incorporate all the traditional Jewish marriage rituals and are conducted by a rabbi; they differ from the Orthodox, Conservative or Reformed Jewish marriage ceremonies, however, because of the couple's belief that Yeshua, Jesus of Nazareth, is the Messiah and the King of the Jews.
Up Close and Personal
I am acquainted with such a couple, Andrew and Karen Goldberg, members of the Ahavat Zion Messianic Synagogue in Beverly Hills, California, who were married on June 25, 1995 at The Chateau Bradbury in Duarte, California by their rabbi, Rabbi Stuart Dauermann. Many Messianic Jewish Synagogues throughout the United States conduct their services on the Sabbath, according to Jewish tradition.
Andrew and Karen have a fascinating love story: They first met over the campus computer bulletin board when they both attended the University of Southern California. They communicated via their computers for two years before finally meeting in person. Karen is now an instructional designer for Crane Morley and Andrew plans to teach, having just graduated from California State University, Long Beach, in December 1995 with a degree in math.
They have kindly provided me with a copy of their rabbi's notes for the wedding sermon, as well as the details of their service, including the wording for the exchange of their rings and vows and the Seven Blessings that were read in both Hebrew and English.
 
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Rabbi Dauermann (to Andrew): "Andrew Neil, son of Karl and Patricia Goldberg, may your house and the household of G-d increase. Do you attest, that after prayer and due consideration to know the will of G-d for your life, that the G-d of Israel, Blessed be He, has moved you to take this woman at your side to be your bride?"
Andrew: "I do."
Rabbi Dauermann: "Do you promise to uphold her, devoting yourself to her welfare and nurture, encouraging her in her walk with G-d, conscious that by her service to G-d, He would have her submit herself to you as her husband in love and faith?"
Andrew: "I do."
Rabbi Dauermann: "What token do you offer as a sign or symbol of your love for her in the sight of G-d? Place the ring on her finger and repeat after me:
'Harei at mikudeshet li'               'With this ring'
'B'taba'aat zu'                              'you are consecrated to me'

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