Authors: Kristin Elizabeth Clark
illusion's enough.
The thought that it
might not always be is   Â
a n o t h e r
more radical issue entirely.
I cross my legs
tuck myself under
love how I look when I'm alone.
The crowning touch,
under a plain T-shirt,
came from Victoria's   Â
S e c r e t
.
A Forbidden Jewel
in a shimmering gift box,
it sat at the back of my closet
for over a week
and images of Bugs Bunny
ran through my head.
When he wore a coconut bra
it didn't make him female.
Padded green satin
won't make me a girl either,
but I wanted
to see myself.
Tonight Mom and
Claude the Interloper
are safely off with their
New Year's Eveâconcert audience.
Courtney, worn out
from jumping
on the trampoline,
is safely off to sleep
after I read her four books.
I unwrapped
the package
containing this
symbol
emblem
bra
inside my chest
a furnace.
Excitement
battling
fear.
You know Pandora.                Her box?
Nothing on me.                    And mine.
I fumbled,
caught up
straps too short
cups too high.
I knew I
looked stupidâ
turned my back
on the mirror
until satiny material
slid through plastic clips
longer, longer
just right,
struggled to fasten the back clasp
shoved away a rogue memory
of helping Vanessa get dressed.
I pulled on a shirt
looked down,
saw a feminine
shape and
                    I was home.
My soul
had found
a shell.
Relief from
the gray sadness
of what I'm not,
a rising flood.
I imagined moving
through the world
alive and at home
in this, my body.
Physical form
matching my spirit
matching me.
But Cinderella Perfection Can't Last
The grandfather clock bongs midnight and snapshots of
freaked Vanessa
shocked Mother
raging Claude
scared Courtney
etch my brain.
Pretending gets hard
remembering that everyone,
straight or gay,
would be
creeped out by this.
Creeped out by me.
I peel off my shirt
shed the bra
like snakeskin
              ball it up
          and stuff it onto
          the top shelf of
            my closet.
It's repulsive.
I'm repulsive.
If anyone ever saw
the real me
they'd know that.
(Angel)
Because of Frankie
I tried to stay in the area
even after leaving TÃa Rosa's.
Not too close thoughâ
La Jolla doesn't roll out the red carpet
for the homeless,
but San Diego's near enough.
There was a whole bunch of girls.
Trans like me
with no place to stay.
We shared clothes,
food when we had it,
tips on safe places to sleep,
advice on which gas stations
would let you wash up in their
bathrooms
without giving you too much shit.
Watchin' out for each other
and ourselves
'cause no one else was.
Well, except for
Renée.
I'd been on my own for two weeks.
Hungry, tired.
She caught me Dumpster diving,
took me back to her place.
Let me clean up,
bought me Taco Bell,
told me how easy it was
to make enough to eat,
buy new clothes,
makeup,
hormones.
All I had to do was ⦠you guessed it.
Ohâand give her a little cash
now and then
if I was gonna do it on her block.
Only Friend I Still Have
from that time is
my roommate Denai.
We don't talk
too much about
what it was like for us
three years ago.
But every once in a while
we'll be at a table in Starbucks
or at home on the couch
and our eyes will meet.
I see in hers what I
know is in mineâ
incredible gratitude that
we're still here,
that we got the life
we've got now.
That so far,
we've escaped
the
ugly
the
fatal
statistic.
Praise be to God.
(BRENDAN)
Tonight the House Is Quiet.
That word is loud.
Back against headboard
laptop on knees,
I “research”
bathed in
the dim light of
of my computer.
It's hard to see me
in snatches of statistics,
old words, new phrases
gnaw at my skull.
“Gender dysphoria” churns my stomach
with its science-fiction sound
and what does it mean
that I love Vanessa
mind soul body?
“Gender identity”
and
“gender attraction”â
two different things.
I snap the screen closed.
Not being gay doesn't make me not trans.
No Hope in Hell of Normal
If someone asked,
would I have
enough humor
left in me to say,
“I think I'm a lesbian”?
Vanessa used
to say
I was
a funny guy.
I think she's right,
but it's easier to laugh
when you're not
terrified.
A Simple Solution
And for the next few days
I just fake a sore throat.
It's better that way.
Better to lean back
in the desk chair
playing Warcraft.
I've signed on
with the Horde.
Built my Blood Elf avatar.
No more “research.”
My shame stays in the closet and
I've found a way
to escape from me.
Virtual me has long legs,
blue hair,
a killer body.
It's as close as I can get
to being a girl.
I'm Larissa.
I'm Larissa and
I kick ass and
I can lose myself
in the anonymous world
of online gaming.
I start to think
it's all I want to do,
that Larissa is all I want to be.
The last weekend of Christmas break
is the perfect time to laze at home
pretending to be sick,
not stirring.
It's just better this way.
Except that
                                I miss Vanessa.
Final Day of Winter Recess
I leave the house,
drop an envelope in the mail,
show up to practice
tell everyone I got better,
promise Vanessa
we'll hang.
But during conditioning
that word gets loud and
something twists in me.
I duck out of the gym
catch a bus for home
stand under the showerhead,
let guy stink
go
down
the
drain.
She has to be pissed
I didn't tell her goodbye.
I just don't know
what to say to her.
Of course I love you.
Sorry I'm distant.
No, I'm not mad
just don't feel well.
Not sorry we made love.
Can't go out tonight.
Family dinner.
And that will be it.
There's no explaining
some things.
Others just have a sucky explanation.
(Angel)
Gorgeous Sunday
and I'm singin' at church like
music brings me closer to God.
When I was little,
Mama always took us to Mass.
The Sperm Donor
wasn't big on worship,
so he stayed home.
Sometimes if Frankie fussed
she'd take him
into the cry room
at the back of the chapel,
leave me alone in the hard pew
with wintergreen Life Savers.
I spent my time looking
at the stained glass window
of the Three Kings,
wishing I could wear
their dresses,
the colors were
so gorgeous,
so rich.
Later on,
I really
started listening
and realized that
even if
I liked church,
with its soaring music
and beautiful art,
church didn't like people like me.
After Mama's funeral
we just stopped going and
I sure as hell didn't miss it
until â¦
Three Years Ago
after a sadistic-pervert john
landed me in the hospital
Social Services got in touch
with the Sperm Donor.
He wouldn't take me back.
(I wouldn't of gone with him anyways.)
Got a social worker named Pat
who placed me with my foster mom.
Praise be to Jesus.
Girl, Veronica was homely.
Fashion? Forget about it!
It didn't matter, though.
Her heart was beautiful
and big enough
to take in kids like me.
She cleaned me up
brought tea, protein shakes
while my jaw was
still wired shut.
Big Macs when it healed.
She read books out loud
when the headaches
were too bad for me
to keep my eyes open.
Told me how smart I was,
how beautiful.
How valuable
my life to God.
I lived with her almost two years,
kids came and went,
bouncing around in the system.
          (And I know now
          how blessed I truly was
          after hearing stories
          from the ones who didn't get
          a Veronica in their life
          soon enough.)
But I didn't have
anywhere to bounce
and she said me and her
were a good fit.
When I healed enough
to get around
she invited me to her church,
said it was up to me though.
So I waited
and then waited
some more.
        (Till I was bored out of my brain.
        And we were used to each other.
        And I was feeling bad 'cause
        I stayed out late one night.
        And didn't call
        'cause it's hard
        to live with house rules
        when you been on your own.
        And she cried when I finally
        did get home 'cause she worried
        but she didn't tell Pat on me.
        Girl, did I feel guilty.)
Funny thing was,
when finally I did go with her?
Church was a serious party!
Singin', swaying, witnessing
to the loving power of God.
Christ Church Unified.
LGBTQ friendly.
They welcomed me
embraced me.
Now that's what I call Christian.
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