Gravity (24 page)

“That’s not what I mean. I want someone to say, ‘I think I know someone who’d be perfect for you.’ I’d like to meet that person and talk to them until I know if they are my
b’shert
.”

“And if they are?”

“Then I’d hold their hand.”

“You’re a nut.”

“No, I’m not.” I pull a chestnut leaf off the tree, carefully tear it along its threads.

Neshama tips her head. “What Ima said is about men.”

“Not necessarily.”

“Ellie, gimme a break.”

“So it’s a little unconventional. You never know.”

“You’re practical and yet
such
a dreamer.” Neshama stands up.

“I want everything.”

“And you think you can have it?”

“I think I can.”

Neshama smiles and shakes her head.

I want a nice girl in a long purple dress, who likes trees and who knows all the
Shabbos
blessings. I want a girl with hair and legs like Lindsay, someone as smart as Neshama and with as wicked a tongue as Bubbie. And we’ll live by the sea.

THE LAST DAY
of school dawns sticky and hot. “I’m never wearing this uniform again!” Neshama twirls across the kitchen, her skirt fanning out. She rolls it over at the waist until her knees show.

“I have a surprise for you,” I say.

“Uh-huh.” Neshama digs into a grapefruit.

“Just you wait.”

“Sure.” Neshama bounces in her chair.

“I have a question you’re going to like for Q and A.”

“Really?” She puts down her spoon. “You’re not going to ask—”

“Maybe.”

“Tell me.”

I smile and turn away.

“Ellie.” She stands up and grabs my waist, starts tickling me.

“Okay, okay, stop. It’s about the land, the land.”

“You mean why it’s only for us?”

“No.”

“What then?”

“You’ll have to wait.” I stick out my tongue.

We file into the
beit hamidrash
after lunch, our voices louder than usual. Since we don’t have classes during the summer, Rabbi Lowenstein always tries to talk about
T’sha B’Av
, the day of mourning for the fall of the Temple on the last day of the school. No one can muster the proper mourning attitude because of the holidays.

“Are there any questions?” Rabbi Lowenstein scans the rows of girls. The back of my skirt sticks to my thighs, the vinyl seat hot and sweaty. The fans above swirl the humid air. Traffic noise wafts through the open windows. Rabbi Lowenstein’s eyes rest briefly on Neshama. I hesitate before raising my hand. All eyes turn to me. “Ellisheva, a question? Good.” He smiles and beckons for me to come up to the podium.
I take out my
Chumash
and get my notes out of my skirt. I rest my shaking hands on the flat wooden surface. Neshama watches me, her hands tucked under her knees, her blue eyes intent. I smile at her, take a deep breath and spread my notes in front of me.

“I want to ask about what the Torah has to say,” I pause, clearing my throat, “about the land, about how we are polluting our air, water and land. I’ve been trying to find some answers in my
Chumash
. At first glance, I don’t think the Torah is very concerned with how we treat the land at all, just that as Jews we claim it as a people as our own. I know people weren’t worried about the environment back then, they were nomadic, but I did come up with some helpful passages.”

I glance at Reb Lowenstein. He nods for me to continue.

“For example, if you’ll turn to
Shofetim
20:2, you’ll see it outlines rules for protecting trees during times of warfare.”

I look up at Neshama. She beams back at me.

IN THE EVENING
, the fading sun slants across the folding chairs at Ima’s synagogue. A warm breeze blows through open windows. We stand for the prayers, Ima on my left and Neshama on my right. Ima sings, “
Havou le donai.
” Praise the Lord
,
and Neshama’s voice rises with hers. I turn to stare at her, listening to her voice low and sweet, climbing around the notes. I join in too. Ima’s smile stretches wide, her eyes sparkling. Neshama winks at me, and turns to show me her fingers tightly crossed behind her back. Abba’s head looms just over the screen, bearded and flushed with the heat.
I hear his voice loud and gruff with ours,
“Mizmor le David
,” Sing the song of David
.

Rows ahead I notice a girl, her brown shoulders exposed in a tank top. Springy black curls tumble down a lithe neck and brush against muscular arms. She turns around, catching my eye. She has sparkly brown eyes, dark skin and full cheeks. Heat climbs up my face, my arm hairs rising. I don’t look away.

Glossary

Abba
—father

Amidah
—set of eighteen prayers recited daily by observant Jews

Ba’al T’shuva
—literally “one who has returned.” A formerly non-observant Jew who returns to the traditional ways of Judaism (also means reborn Jews).

Barchu
—a Jewish prayer

Baruch Hashem
—“Praised be God”

B’shert
—a person destined to be your soul mate

Beit HaMidrash
—a study hall

Benchers
—a small book containing the Prayer After Meals and other songs sang on the Sabbath or other joyous occasions

Bochel
—a fat tummy

Brucha
—blessing

Chachkas
—knickknacks

Challah (challot)
—braided bread(s) eaten on the Sabbath

Cholent
—a bean and meat stew traditionally eaten on the Sabbath. It is prepared before the Sabbath to avoid having to cook on the day of rest.

Chumash
—the five books of the Pentateuch, often referred to as the five books of Moses. The word “chumash” is from the Hebrew word meaning “five.”

Chuppah
—a wedding canopy under which a marriage ceremony is conducted

Chutzpadik
—nerve or gall

Daf Yomi
—a daily regiment to study a page of Talmud. With this regimen the entire Talmud would be studied in seven and a half years.

Daven
—to pray

Drash
—an interpretation of a biblical text

D’var Torah
—a talk on topics relating to a section of the Torah

Eishet Chayil
—literally “A woman of valor.” This poem is frequently sung to a wife by her husband on the Friday night of the Sabbath.

Frum
—religious or observant

Goyische
—a derogatory word for a non-Jew

Gregors
—noisemakers used on the Jewish festival of Purim

Halacha
—Jewish law

Hamentaschen
—a three-cornered cookie filled with prunes or poppy seeds that is traditionally eaten on the holiday of Purim

Hanukah
—the annual Jewish festival, also known as the Festival of Lights, celebrated over eight successive days. Hanukah commemorates the rededication of the Temple of Jerusalem by Judas Maccabee in 165
BC
.

Has va’halila
—“Heaven Forbid,” an expression of horror

Hashem
—God

Havdalah
—a ceremony marking the end of Sabbath using candles, wine and sweet spices

Ima
—mother

Kallah v’chatan
—bride and groom

Kippah
—religious head covering worn traditionally only by men

Knishes
—a pastry stuffed with potato or other savory filling

Kol Isha
—literally “the voice of a woman.” This refers to the Jewish law that forbids a woman from leading prayers for men, or for a woman performing for men.

Kosher
—Jewish dietary laws

Kotel
—part of the massive remaining stone walls of the Second Temple. The Kotel is also called the Wailing or Western Wall and is the most sacred site in Judaism.

Kugel
—a noodle casserole

Latkas
—potato pancakes, traditionally eaten at Hanukah

Mazel Tov
—“Congratulations”

Mezuzah
—a parchment inscribed with a religious text and attached in a case to the door posts of Jewish homes as a sign of faith

Mincha
—the afternoon prayers

Mishnah
—the oral tradition of Jewish law. The Mishnah was the first important work of rabbinic Judaism.

Minyan
—ten men (or in some synagogues, ten men or women) needed for public worship

Mikvah
—a ritual bath used for purification

Mishigas
—nonsense

Moschiach
—the Messiah

Parsha
—a portion of the Hebrew bible

Pogrom
—an organized massacre directed against a particular group

Purim
—a joyous Jewish holiday that commemorates the deliverance of Persian Jews from the plot of the evil Haman to exterminate them. This story is recorded in the biblical Book of Esther.

Rosh Hashanah
—the Jewish New Year

Rugelach
—a sweet pastry filled with chocolate, nuts or jam

Shabbat/Sabbath
—the day of rest and worship. For Jews this is Saturday.

Shabbat Shalom
—a greeting meaning happy or peaceful Sabbath

Shalom Aleichem
—a song or greeting meaning “Peace Be Upon You”

Shiksa
—derogatory term for a non-Jewish woman

Shivah
—a period of seven days of mourning after the death of close relative. A family is said to be “sitting shivah.”

Shma
—the most important prayer in Judaism. It contains a passage from Deuteronomy and proclaims there is only one God.

Shonda
—a disgrace or shame

Shul
—a Yiddish word for synagogue or temple

Shulchan Aruch
—literally “The Set Table.” This is a book of Jewish law composed by Rabbi Yosef Karo in the sixteenth century.

Shvitz
—to sweat

Siddur
—a prayer book

Sitra Achra
—literally the “other side”—refers to the forces of evil which underlie all of reality

Talmud
—a record of rabbinic discussions pertaining to Jewish law, ethics, customs and history

T’sha B’Av
—the ninth day of the Hebrew month of Av. This is a day of mourning for the fall of the temple and other atrocities in Jewish history. It is traditional to fast on this day.

T’fillah Ha’Derech
—the prayer for safe travel

Toevah
—an abomination

Torah
—the law of God as revealed to Moses and recorded in the first five books of the Hebrew Scriptures. This is the first part of the Hebrew Bible.

Trafe
—unkosher food

Tsur Mishelo
—a song sung on the Sabbath thanking God for the food eaten on the Sabbath

Vayeshev
—the ninth weekly Torah portion in the annual Jewish cycle of Torah reading

Yedid Nefesh
—a psalm sung to welcome the Sabbath. It means “Beloved of the Soul.”

Yeshiva Bucher
—a yeshiva or seminary student

Yom Kippur
—the Day of Atonement. Jews fast and ask for forgiveness from God and other people.

Yontif
—means good day or holiday

Zai Gazunt
—literally “Go in health”—the Yiddish way of saying “be well.”

Zemirot
—songs sung on the Sabbath