How to Give a Man Oral Sex Like a Pro

How to Give a Man Oral Sex Like a Pro

The Hottest Handjob & Blowjob Tips Ever!

By: Desiree M. Dean

First Kindle Original Edition, August 2012

Copyright © 2012 by Desiree M. Dean 

This book is intended for entertainment. The author is not a licensed professional and the advice given in this book is not to be used as a substitute for professional sexual therapy or instruction.

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Table of Contents

Introduction

Chapter One – Back to the Basics: Handjobs 101

Chapter Two – Back to the Basics: Blowjobs 101

Chapter Three – How to Give a Handjob like a Pro

Chapter Four – How to Give a Blowjob like a Pornstar

Chapter Five – The Blended Stimulation Orgasm

Chapter Six - The Do NEVER Do’s and the Do ALWAYS Do’s

Chapter Seven – How to Master the Art of the Deep Throat

Chapter Eight  - The Not Quite End: How to Finish Him Off Right

Conclusion

About the Author

Introduction

Hey there, I hope you’re ready for some more fun to change that shy attitude and to transform you from the girl next door to the girl next door who can make a man come so hard, it forces him into an orgasmic coma of ecstasy to the point where he can’t even remember his own name. You’ll still have that sweet exterior and that “bring her home to mom” appearance, but once you get him alone – the gloves are off. You’ll be a lady in the streets but a freak in the sheets kind of woman. (I think that was a lyric in a Ludacris song at some point. Don’t judge me.)

This time, our journey is all about learning how to please your man with just your two hands and your mouth. That’s right. Forget about learning how to squeeze in those PC muscles during sex and how to apply pressure on his lower back at the right moment or how to squeeze his big toe right when he’s at the point of climax, yadda yadda, mumbo jumbo, bologna sandwich etc. (Although I do think that toe tip is true but don’t quote me on it. I think I read it in a certain magazine at some point…) Maybe we will get there at some point down the road with another guide. Hint hint. Wink wink. While sex is fun and there are endless positions and possibilities that you can create when the two of you connect coitus wise, pleasing your man doesn’t always just have to be about sex. There are so many other ways that you can give a man pleasure and guaranteed, there are things that you are going to eventually do to him that he never even thought possible. I say eventually but I really mean by the end of this book because sister, you’re going to learn everything you can in this short yet to-the-point guide that in only a day, you’ll go from being afraid of deep throating to mastering it. You’ll go from giving him an ordinary handjob to being able to make him come in a matter of seconds all just by using your hands and your mouth. Sound impossible? Allow me to change your mind.

Although handjobs and blowjobs may seem juvenile when there are so many other sex acts out there that far surpass them, they are still tricky topics to not only talk about, but to also perform in the right manner. No matter how comfortable you are chatting with your girls about your sex life, you might still have questions or be unsure about many topics and the last thing you want to do is start asking questions when your friends might end up judging you for your lack of knowledge. It can be a tricky place to be put in when everyone else is talking about sex acts or tips and tricks that they often do when you are left looking like a deer in headlights because you are still stuck on a few things. Fear not, shy one, this is perfectly normal and it is healthy. We all go on our own sexual journeys and no two women are alike, which makes individuals and us all unique. Maybe it took you a while to have your first kiss and took you even longer to have sex for the first time. Maybe you are still discovering your own sense of pleasure and you have to work on that before you are even going to dare touching your man or someone else. These instances are all fine if you are going through them. Sexuality is a form of discovery and you aren’t going to learn everything right from the get go. It’s your own journey – take your time and never feel pressured to do something that you’re not comfortable with.

However, that’s where I come in. Think of me as being that brutally honest friend that you wish you had but at the same time, you know you are going to fear. I promise to be as gentle as possible but to still give you the kick in the pants you might need to help push you along but more importantly, guide you in the right direction to get you out of that bubble of comfort and to push you to your sexual limits. I’m going to make you blush, I’m going to make you cringe but I’m also going to help you to become more comfortable with your sexuality and with your man’s sexuality. I’m going to help you to understand his body and what you need to do if you want to give him pleasure that is out of this world. I’m like your sexual fairy godmother, except I’m dressed in leather and latex and I’m teaching you how to deep throat. Mother Goose and Walt Disney, watch out.

Let’s face it – sex can be a nerve-wracking thing. You don’t want to mess up and you don’t want your man to believe that you have no idea what you are doing in the bedroom. We all want to be able to swoon our partner in bed and to be the best that they have ever had. We don’t want to be compared to last lovers but it’s a harsh reality that we will be. However, you don’t have to be compared and lose in that battle. You can win and you can be the best that he has ever had – you just may need a little help on the way.

The biggest obstacle that you may face in this journey is yourself. You are going to have to fight the urge to stay in your bubble of comfort and to allow yourself to go on a journey that is a bit unfamiliar. It might feel safe being the good girl and staying in that frame of mind that you know so well, but if you have yet to experience the dangerous side of life, then how do you know which you prefer?

Before we begin on our journey of mastering the penis and learning all about how to stroke it, lick it, suck it and so on and so forth, you are going to have to learn how to keep that mind of yours open. Something brought you here in the first place and stick with it. You’ll be happy that you did and your man will especially be happy that you did. If you know what I mean… bow chicka wah wah.

So, if you’re ready, let’s do it; let’s learn all about handjobs, blowjob and everything in between. Get ready, because your penis playing abilities and knowledge are about to change drastically.

Let the fun begin.

Handjobs and blowjobs for everyone!

(Just kidding.)

Chapter One

Back to Basics: Handjobs 101

Remember back in middle school or high school, depending upon when you were brave enough to stick your hands down your boyfriend-at-the-time’s jeans, and how weird it felt to grip a penis for the first time? Remember how strange it was to give a handjob but how cool it all felt at the same time? Well, the tricks that worked on your young boyfriend when you were a kid worked for him at that age and although some of those tricks might still work to this day, you are going to want to amp up your arsenal a bit to really blow your man’s mind now.

For those women who are still coming into their own or for the young women who might just be blossoming as we speak (Please be at least over 18! Fingers crossed!), you may need a bit more of a lesson on exactly what a handjob is. That’s what I’m here for! A handjob is basically just as it sounds – you use your hand to stimulate the penis and your hand alone. A massive misunderstanding is that handjobs are used by women with lesser experience or for the women who are either intimidated or grossed out by oral sex. However, that is not the case, nor has it ever been. In terms of sex trends and what is hot and what is not, handjobs are making a “comeback”. No pun intended, or maybe just a little. In a world where we are often forced or pressured to sensationalize things or to try and get to the next level, sometimes its nice to go back to the simpler things in life. When our sex lives are supposed to be akin to something out of a romance novel and we are being told to purchase a sex swing in our bedrooms and if we don’t have one, well then we are doing it wrong, having bad sex and that our lives are going to fail miserably. Don’t go run out and by a sex swing. You don’t need one and they are an accident waiting to happen. Your sex life is fine! It’s time that we stopped giving into all of these pressures that are put on us and that we did our own thing. If you want to bring it back to your man old school style, be able to caress him to orgasm and connect with him flesh on flesh, then you should be able to do just that. Your sex life is your control and what you do with it is up to you. Girl power.

Touching is something that us as couples, probably don’t do anymore. Taking the time to really enjoy caressing your partner’s body and feeling them do the same to you feels like a pastime and it shouldn’t. Even though life is busy and sometimes we can’t control what comes our way, we should all take the time to just “be”. Put away the kama sutra book for once, hide all of the toys and just lie naked with your man and allow your hands to do all of the work. Let your hands glide all over his body, feeling every nook and cranny that he has to offer. Really take your time with it and give him attention in every place possible. Then, when he is just about to burst, let your hands do all of the work and let him feel the skin of your fingers working to pump him up so hard, he has no choice but to release.

A handjob can be particularly sexy and a great way to reconnect with your man. We all know about “happy endings” when it comes to massage parlors and how they might even exist to this day. A happy ending refers to how some massage parlors would “allow” their male customers to receive a handjob at the end of their massage. Of course, you know that your man isn’t going to go to a parlor and receive something like this, but it is a nice little fantasy for you to reenact at home. The possibilities are endless when it comes to pleasing your man with just your hand and it should be remembered.

Of course, you are graduated from the days of when a handjob was the best sex tool in your arsenal and now, you are looking for the next big thing that will really blow your man’s mind in the bedroom and you are about to go on a journey that will give you all of the knowledge that brain of yours can handle. You will be able to take your handjob skills from something elementary to something extraordinary. You will be able to give your man pleasure that is out of this world and more intense than any woman could do with her whole body before. Sounds amazing, right? Then join me on this journey of everything you can do and so much more with just your two paws.