Authors: Tana Reiff
The person
on the other end
told Abby
where and when
the next meeting
would be.
“They meet
every day
at the same place,”
he said.
“But you can’t
make him go,
you know.
He will have to go
on his own.
It has to be
when he is ready.”
Then he told Abby
about Al-Anon.
“Their meetings
are for you,”
he said.
“You can learn ways
to help
your loved one.
And yourself too.”
Biff made it to work
the next day.
But the boss
stopped him at the door.
“We need to talk,”
the boss said.
“You have
two choices,”
he began.
“You can
stop drinking.
Or you can
find another job.”
“I don’t have
a drinking problem,”
said Biff.
“It’s only
a stomach problem.”
The boss
did not believe Biff.
“When you show up,
you’re slow,”
he said.
“And when you
don’t show up,
you’re of no use at all
to the company.”
Biff was looking
at the floor.
“You think you have
a stomach problem?
Then you need to see
the company doctor.
Let him
check out
your stomach problem.
Go see the doctor.
Now.”
The doctor
looked Biff over.
Then he asked Biff
some key questions:
Is drinking giving you
any trouble at home?
Do you ever feel sorry
for the things you did
when you were drinking?
Do you have money problems
because of drinking?
Do you drink
to get away from
your problems?
Do you ever forget
what you did
when you were drinking?
Do you drink alone much?
Biff knew
the honest answer
to every question.
The honest answer
was “yes.”
When Biff got home,
he asked Abby
for a drink.
“Just a beer,”
he said.
“In fact,
make it
a light beer.”
“I learned something,”
said Abby.
“Light beer
can have as much alcohol
as any beer.”
Biff didn’t want
to hear Abby.
He got himself
a beer.
He drank
four cans
before dinner.
“You just drank
as much alcohol
as four mixed drinks,”
Abby said.
“What makes you
so smart
all of a sudden?”
Biff asked her.
“I went
to a meeting today,”
she said.
“It’s a group
for loved ones
of alcoholics.”
“Abby, I am not
an alcoholic,”
said Biff.
“I like to have
a few drinks,
that’s all.
I know
how to handle
my drinking.
I can stop
any time I want.”
“And I learned
something else,”
said Abby.
“I might have
an alcohol problem myself.”
“Don’t want to hear it,”
Biff snapped.
“And don’t make dinner.
I’m not hungry.”
“What’s wrong with you?
You won’t talk to me.
You never do anything
around the house.
You never make dinner.
And these days
you won’t even
eat
dinner.”
“I’ll be late
for driving class,”
said Biff.
“If I don’t go
they won’t let me
drive ever again.
And then I’m going
to the pub,”
he added.
“Why don’t you
meet me there?”
“No,” said Abby.
“I’m not drinking
with you anymore.
In fact,
I’m not drinking
at all anymore.”
Biff gave her
an empty look
and then he left.
Abby sat alone
at the dinner table.
She had
made up her mind.
She was finished
playing the game.
She would never again
do anything
to help Biff’s drinking.
He would have
to do his drinking
without her.
Biff went to work
the next morning.
But he was late.
The boss
called him in again.
“You’re fired, Biff,”
he said.
“Stop at the office
to close things up
on your way out.”
Biff was shocked.
He couldn’t believe
he had been fired.
On the way home
he stopped
at the pub.
He drank
the rest of the day.
At 6:00 p.m.
the bartender
called a cab
for Biff.
“You’ve put in
a full day,”
he said to Biff.
“Where’s dinner?”
Biff asked Abby
when he got home.
“I didn’t make
any dinner,”
she said.
“I ate your dinner
from last night.”
Then she sat down
next to Biff.
“What’s going on?
she asked.
“I got fired today,”
said Biff.
“They say
I have
a drinking problem.
But my real problem
is that job.
I hate it.
Or should I say,
I hated it.”
“What are you
going to do now?”
Abby asked.
Biff began to cry.
He dropped down
to the floor,
on his knees,
his head bent down.
At first,
he couldn’t talk.
Then he said,
“Abby, do you think
I have a drinking problem?”
“Do
you
think
you have
a drinking problem?”
she asked back.
“Yes, Baby,”
said Biff,
in a soft voice
that Abby
could hardly hear.
She said nothing.
“Maybe I could fix
the drinking,”
Biff went on.
“Then I could fix
the other problems.
But I don’t know
about AA.
I don’t know
if I buy
that 12-step thing.”
“Take what you want
and leave the rest,”
said Abby.
Then Biff said,
“I don’t know
if I want
to go to meetings.
AA is for bums.”
“That’s not true,”
said Abby.
“You might be shocked
to see who goes to AA.”
Biff headed
for his first meeting.
On the way,
he almost turned back.
But he kept going
until he got there.
The room
was full.
Biff looked around.
He saw
all kinds of people.
He spotted
a few faces
that he knew.
Back in the corner
was a doctor
he had gone to.
In the front
was a young woman.
She used to hang out
at the pub.
A man stood up.
“Let’s get started,”
he said.
“My name is Freddie
and I’m an alcoholic.”
Everyone got quiet.
Then Freddie
led the group
in a prayer.
Biff wasn’t so sure
he liked that.
But he went along
with the others.
Then a young woman
stood up.
“My name is Sarah
and I’m an alcoholic.”
She told
what had happened
the night before.
She had
almost taken a drink.
She had stopped herself.
“So I’ve been sober
for 30 days!”
she said proudly.
Everyone clapped
as Sarah picked up
her 30-days chip.
She knew
all about using chips
in card games.
The chips
at the AA meeting
had a whole new meaning.
Then Biff stood up.
He heard himself saying,
“I’m Biff
and I’m an alcoholic.”
Then he told his story.
Right out loud.
In front of everyone.
The last thing
he said was,
“I have
a drinking problem.
I want to change.
I don’t want to be
the way I have been.”
“We all know
how you feel,”
a man said.
“Just remember this.
You have no power
over alcohol.
It will hurt you
until it kills you.
You, my friend,
need a new way of life.”
That was all he said.
No one gave Biff
a long speech.
Biff sat down.
He smiled.
He got back up
and grabbed
a cup of coffee.
And then he listened
to other people’s stories.
As soon as Biff
left the meeting,
he wanted a drink.
He headed
straight to the pub.
He stepped
up to the door.
He reached
for the door handle.
And then
he stopped himself.
He turned around
and went home.
“Abby! Abby!”
he called out.
“I did it!”
He lifted her
off the floor.
He started
to swing her around.
“Did what?”
Abby laughed.
“Abby, I went
to a meeting,”
said Biff.
“It was okay.
It really was.
Then I went
to the pub.
But I didn’t go in!
I stopped myself.
Isn’t that great?”
“That’s
really
great,”
said Abby.
“That makes me
very happy.”
“Me, too,”
said Biff.
“But I’m scared.
I don’t know
if I can keep this up.”
“You can,”
said Abby.
“I know you can.”
“Every day
will be a big step,”
said Biff.
Abby and Biff
made dinner together.
They had not done that
for a long, long time.
After dinner
they washed dishes.
“We’re in this together,”
Biff said.
“Washing dishes
or no drinking?”
laughed Abby.
“Both,” said Biff.
“And, Baby,
I’m so glad
you and I
are together.”
“Tell me more,”
said Abby.
“I like you
like this.”
Biff went
to another meeting
the next day.
And the next.
And the next.
In a week
he got his 7-days chip.
“But it’s so hard,”
he told the group.
“I’m out of a job.
I’m afraid
that alcohol
will get me
before I can get
a new job.”
An older man
handed Biff
a little card.
It was the same
as the big sign
on the wall.
“Read this,”
said the man.
“Remember these lines
when you feel down.”
Biff read the card.
He burned every word
into his mind.
Just for today:
I will live
through this day only.
I will not tackle
all my problems at once.
Just for today:
I will be happy.
Just for today:
I will fit myself
to what is,
not to my own wishes.
I will take my luck
as it comes,
and fit myself to it.
Just for today:
I will make
my mind stronger.
I will study.
I will learn something useful.
Just for today:
I will make
my soul better.
I will do somebody
a good turn
and not get found out.
I will do
at least two things
I don’t want to do.
Just for today:
I will be and look
as well as I can.
I will not try
to work on
anybody but myself.
Just for today:
I will have a plan.
I may not follow it
just right,
but I will have it.
Just for today:
I will have
a quiet half hour
all by myself.
Just for today:
I will not be afraid.
Most of all,
I will not be afraid
to enjoy what is beautiful.
As I give
to the world,
so the world
will give to me.
Just for today:
those words
made Biff
feel so much better.
Just reading
those words
was good for his soul.
He tucked the card
in his wallet.
On the way out,
he stopped
the older man.
“Will you be
my sponsor?”
Biff asked him.
“I will,”
said the man.
“My name is Henry.
Here’s my card.
Call me anytime,
night or day.”
“Hey, thanks, man!”
said Biff.
He put the number