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Sweat and heat: The memory of it keeps me from getting to the sad part of the story. In the summer of 1982 a steamy Rio Grande opened the pores of the city and released aromas of mesquite, pine, and cedar. The heat made it easier for me to find those places on José Luis’s body that were oblivious to the war. After we
made love, I often smelled bougainvillea near the place where his heart beat like wings against the bars of a cage. And I came to understand why José Luis and others like him risked everything—even if they were too young to remember life without war, their bodies remembered; their very cells concealed the scent of a healed El Salvador. The days the temperature climbed to dizzying heights I believed in God. I believed He devised the sense of smell so that people would struggle not for abstract ideas but for memory—the scent of the land and wind before men invented war.

September 14, 1982

Mija

Of course I’ll teach you about the old remedios. You can start by going to the co-op and buying what I’ve listed below, remedios from my childhood and from my guidebook. How times change. The gringos don’t laugh at us anymore when we boil up our little plants
.
They’re reading “the studies” about how good all this is for you. For once science is on our side. And now I can thank God you’re interested, if not in politics, then at least in the old ways. (My godmothering has not been in vain.) To start your medicine cabinet, go get:

  • Garlic and onions (eat them all the time, you should also place sliced onions on windowsills to kill cold germs)
  • Ajenjibre (for hangovers)
  • Albacar (for cramps)
  • Cascara Sagrada (for regularity)
  • Damiana (to raise your spirits) (it also acts as a stimulant in another way, but we won’t talk about that)
  • Jojoba oil (for beautiful skin)
  • Manzanilla (for insomnia)
  • Oshá (tastes like strong celery, causes you to break into a sweat when you chew it which gets cold and flu poisons out of you) (also said to ward off evil, in the old, superstitious days, they used to sew
    it into hems of skirts to scare away rattlesnakes)
  • Yerba buena (for all of the above)
  • Good supply of Laredo, Texas, miracle candles, not to practice magic but to concentrate the mind on the healing powers of Our Lord

This will be a good start. Now remember, food is the best medicine. All this depression going around—it’s because we’ve gotten too far away from the foods of our ancestors. And our cells never forget. Beans, rice, avocado, cilantro, etc. We must make every effort to eat what our elders ate, eat with the seasons, and eat what is grown nearby. All these new-fangled drugs aggravate illness but hide the symptoms. No wonder we’re all crazy
.

Now I know you wear that crystal around your neck. If you ask me, some of that New Age Santa Fe stuff can be as bad as drugs. People start out trying to cure a cold and next
thing you know, instead of taking garlic and lemon water, they’ve hired someone to “channel” the voice of a Visigoth. Before you go knocking on heaven’s door, it’s best to look for cures a little closer to home. Roots, seeds, bark, oils, flowers, etc. It says somewhere in the Bible that the earth is our cure, or something like that
.

I confess I believe in reincarnation (purgatory isn’t a place but a coming back again and again until we learn all our lessons). But just because you believe in past lives doesn’t mean you should dabble in them. Your ancestors were Jews (before the Inquisition) in the Old World and Christians and medicine men in this one. I guess that covers your bases as good as anything. Respect your current “incarnation.” I’m off on this tangent because even here in Arizona, of all places, people are getting into “channeling.” Only here it doesn’t cost so much. If you want my opinion, I don’t see much difference between all that and what my grandma did
,
praying in tongues at the Spanish Assemblies of God. Except it was free and anyone could do it
.

I tell you all this because you can’t study herbs without a sense of the ins and outs of the spiritual life. It all works together. You can see why I hate doctors (except our Socialist friend who helps refugees for free). And since I
am
your godmother, I want to keep you on the straight and narrow, what with all that New Age out there. Beware of fundamentalists, even the ones with crystals, hippie sandals, and trust funds. Now that’s not to disrespect true spiritual seekers. After all, some of those Santa Feans have Free Tibet bumper stickers on their vans. So if turning inward helps them turn outward to do something useful in this vale of tears, then maybe God works even in the New Age. But I know you’re not into politics (yet, ha ha)
.

Now be good. Or at least be careful
.

Love & Prayers,
Soledad

One day—was it late September or early October?—Soledad returned. And she knew by the play of shadow and light on my face and in my voice that it was done: José Luis and I were lovers. She was my godmother, my mentor. She knew better than to quell the Spirit, the spirit of light that is love and the spirit of recklessness that is something else altogether. In her life, with her husbands, divorces, her breaking the rules of the church, in all these experiences and more, Soledad had seen the two faces of God. So she was not about to tell me not to live dangerously. She might offer advice to ease the blows, but she would never say, do not love him. She was a healer precisely because she had suffered and savored the faces of God, the dark and the light. And every remedio, she said, has elements of both, of the sickness and its cure. I am thirty-nine now, eleven years younger than Soledad was the summer José Luis and I were
lovers, and I am just beginning to fathom what she meant.

“Mijita, be careful, when I was your age I gave my heart away, and it took me years to find it again. Mijita, my Carlos was a good man but the war made him loco sometimes, and he would leave home for days. No, no, the only way to take the war out of a man is to end the war, all wars. What do you mean, the power of positive thought? You’ve been reading too many of those Eastern mystical books. You can’t even hear yourself think in El Salvador. I know, I’ve been there, it’s spooky as all get out. You know, the best thing you can do is to be his friend. Now I sound exactly like my mother. And you know what? I never did a damn thing she said until I was over 40.…”

I wish I had written down whatever it was that Soledad told me. All I can do now is imagine her words, but it’s not hard because I can see her: tobacco-colored hair, old jeans and a “Boycott General Electric” T-shirt, light brown skin prematurely creased because she
loved life too much to care about the latest creams for peeling away wrinkles. In my memory, she is always chopping cilantro or heating corn tortillas on the blue flame of her gas stove. Before she quit smoking, her evening ritual consisted of holding a cigarette to the flame, sucking in a deep breath, then turning on the radio. She kept a shortwave on her windowsill next to a bottle of green dish soap. After a smoke she washed dishes, then listened to news of El Salvador tearing apart like bread. She never spoke much about the man she had married, then divorced, to keep him from being deported. At first even I was fooled; I thought she had married for love. And in a sense, she had. Having no children of her own, she adopted El Salvador. She knew its provinces, its disappearances. Every day she scanned Mexican and U.S. newspapers for news of deaths, crops, army movements, culling moments in history as carefully as she picked pebbles from beans before putting them to soak. One day she had me proofread a letter she was about to take to the
post office. Dear Senator Marciando, My friends and relatives are being killed, she wrote, words short and fiery as fuses. By nature, Soledad tended away from anger. But she could pull it out and wave it like a knife when she heard of yet another death threat in the country she’d come to love.

Here is a recipe Soledad wrote out on a three-by-five card and taped to her refrigerator.

POSOLE

12:45 Wash corn (8 lbs.) several times

1:15 Put corn to boil

1:30 Corn begins to boil. Cook two hours. In separate pan put cut-up pork (7 lbs.) to boil plus ¾ whole onion plus 1 or 2 cloves garlic.

3:30 Put meat in with corn. If corn water is getting low, add some pork broth. Add salt & oregano. Cook about ½ to 1 hour more.

Have fun!

—————

“Mijita, your mother was right, you need to have some hobbies or sure enough, you’ll develop melancolía. You’d be amazed at how learning to cook takes your mind off men—if you do it for your own pleasure. Why do you think I’m such a good cook? I was your age once, don’t forget that. I know how it feels, to feel so in love that the sun and the moon trade places, it’s so crazy. But be careful. No, no, I’m not saying I don’t want it to work out, I do. But every woman should have a special place inside where she can think, where no man is allowed, a place that will, you know, endure. Why do you think I took up letter writing? No man is worth falling apart over. Take it from me. Now come on, let’s go take a walk.”

One day, Soledad’s heart gave out. She had given so much to everyone but herself. When I went to the mortuary to view her body, I started to grieve all over again. Someone had cleaned her hands, wiped away the film of newsprint that had
always marked them. That night at San Rafael Church, I said good-bye to her one last time before the open coffin. And pretending to touch her hand in a gesture of grief, I slipped the first few paragraphs of an Associated Press article under her palm. Two days before her death, Salvadoran guerrillas and government leaders signed an accord, shook hands all around, and proclaimed “cautious optimism” to a disbelieving world. I had cut out the article and taped it to my refrigerator next to a prayer for peace. Maybe Soledad was ready to go. Maybe she knew she had succeeded in teaching me to love a broken world.

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