Obediently Yours (19 page)

I had a wonderful weekend and cannot wait until I see you again. Hopefully we can talk tonight.

Hugs,

Daddy

BABY
GIRL
SIOBHAN
’
S
RULES

1. I will respect, obey, and submit to Daddy at all times. I will obey Daddy’s instructions and follow all of Daddy’s rules. I will always refer to Daddy as Daddy or Sir.

2. I will answer all of Daddy’s questions honestly and without hesitation and will not lie or withhold information.

3. I will make my health and safety my highest priority. I will keep Daddy informed about my health at all times. I will attend all doctor appointments and will submit to all required medical tests. I will tell Daddy immediately when I do not feel well, when I am sick or injured. I will take all prescribed medication and only take over-the-counter medication under Daddy’s direction.

4. I will ask Daddy for permission to go potty when we are home. I will follow my potty schedule when I am not in Daddy’s presence: I may go potty every two hours on the even hour. If I cannot wait and follow my potty schedule, I must inform Daddy.

5. I will adhere to my curfew and get adequate sleep—in bed by 10:30 pm and lights out at 11:00 pm unless Daddy specifies otherwise.

6. I will drink a minimum of two bottles of water per day. I will consume no more than two cups of caffeine per day. I will not drink alcohol without Daddy’s permission.

7. I will shave my pussy lips smooth and bare every Sunday night.

8. I will not masturbate or orgasm without Daddy’s permission.

9. I will show Daddy what I will wear to work and receive his approval. On weekends and days off, Daddy will decide what I will wear. Daddy will choose my panties each week. They will be lined up in sequence in my panty drawer. I will never purchase panties without Daddy’s permission.

10. I will not use foul language or talk back to Daddy. I will not make negative, berating, or disparaging remarks about myself.

11. I will tell Daddy where I am going, how long I will be gone, and my anticipated return time home. I will inform Daddy if my schedule changes so he always knows where I am and what I am doing.

12. I will email/text Daddy at least one time each workday to check in. I will sign the email/text “Obediently and Submissively Yours, Your Baby Girl.”

13. I will maintain my training journal and complete all assignments per Daddy’s instructions. I will submit my journal to Daddy every Friday evening and whenever he asks for it. I will meet all of the goals Daddy sets for me by Friday each week, unless Daddy instructs otherwise.

14. I will be punished when I am naughty or do not obey Daddy. I will accept and cooperate during all punishment and discipline that Daddy gives me. I will thank Daddy after a punishment session. I will document all punishments in the Infractions and Punishments section of my journal.

FROM
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B
ABY GIRL

SUBJECT
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R
EACTION:
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Y
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ODIFIED
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ULES

Dear Daddy,

I also had a wonderful weekend and am so happy to see your email in my inbox. I feel like my life is a fairy tale. I cannot wait to see you again.

In response to your email about my rules being modified, I am including below my reactions and comments as you requested. Please note my compliance with Rule #12 at the close of this email.

Obediently and Submissively Yours,

Your Baby Girl

BABY
GIRL
SIOBHAN
’
S
RULES

1. I will respect, obey and submit to Daddy at all times. I will obey Daddy’s instructions and follow all of Daddy’s rules. I will always refer to Daddy as Daddy or Sir.

Well, this rule is not much different from before. It expands to include the expectation
to submit to you, my Daddy, which is something that I am more than fine with and truly
want. I will call you only Daddy or Sir unless you tell me otherwise.

2. I will answer all of Daddy’s questions honestly and without hesitation and will not lie or withhold information.

Daddy, you made it very clear that, in order for our relationship to work, it requires total
honesty and that you will not tolerate lies or withholding information. I completely
understand what you are asking of me. Please understand, though, that this might be a
struggle for me because I have essentially held myself in tight for the last forty years. Even
through childhood, I kept a part of myself inside deep where no one could know me. It was a
coping mechanism that exists within me today. I will have to work hard to meet your
expectation. I hope that you will be patient with me.

3. I will make my health and safety my highest priority. I will keep Daddy informed about my health at all times. I will attend all doctor appointments and will submit to all required medical tests. I will tell Daddy immediately when I do not feel well, when I am sick or injured. I will take all prescribed medication and only take over-the-counter medication under Daddy’s direction.

We spent a lot of time talking about this rule already. Without a doubt, you consider my health
and safety to be the most important rule for me to follow. Given that I have always been lax
about my health and less than concerned about my safety, I would anticipate this is an area
that will require me to learn a few lessons by your hand before it sinks in completely. I cannot
help but sort of look forward to those lessons, Daddy.

4. I will ask Daddy for permission to go potty when we are home. I will follow my potty schedule when I am not in Daddy’s presence: I may go potty every two hours on the even hour. If I cannot wait and follow my potty schedule, I must inform Daddy.

Well, this really does add a dimension to this rule. There is nothing as primal as one’s ability to
use the bathroom on his/her own. By making a timing requirement, it will force me to think
about it more and, therefore, keep my submission to you in the forefront of my mind.

5. I will adhere to my curfew and get adequate sleep—in bed by 10:30 pm and lights out at 11:00 pm unless Daddy specifies otherwise.

I hate this rule. Pure and simple. I’m a night owl by nature and an insomniac. But, I will agree to
obey you, Daddy, because it is something you want and I want to please you.

6. I will drink a minimum of two bottles of water per day. I will consume no more than two cups of caffeine per day. I will not drink alcohol without Daddy’s permission.

I really hate this rule. First off, I hate water, so being forced to drink two bottles of water a day is
really hard for me. Then, to have no more than two cups of caffeine—this includes all drinks whether it be coffee, tea, or soda. It will be impossible for me to follow this rule. I’m guessing it means a very sore bottom in my future.

7. I will shave my pussy lips smooth and bare every Sunday night.

This was a rule that was always in effect and I understand the symbolism of it. I am happy to say, this is one rule that I will not find hard to continue.

8. I will not masturbate or orgasm without Daddy’s permission.

Okay, can we talk about how hard this one is going to be? Especially since you and I will be
talking every night to review my day and how well I followed my rules. Talking about it will
make me horny. Very horny. And I am not allowed to masturbate without your permission?
This is just mean. I know it is a pretty standard rule in the BDSM world, but man, this is
going to be so hard. Just the thought of you makes me want to touch myself.

9. I will show Daddy what I will wear to work and receive his approval. On weekends and days off, Daddy will decide what I will wear. Daddy will choose my panties each week. They will be lined up in sequence in my panty drawer. I will never purchase panties without Daddy’s permission.

I can see that this is yet another way for you to exert your control and authority over me, and it will be very effective. I never thought much about what I wear. This will force me to not only think about it, but to also seek your approval beforehand. It will require me to plan more.

10. I will not use foul language or talk back to Daddy. I will not make negative, berating, or disparaging remarks about myself.

If I had to choose an area of my life that I would like to improve on, it would be my desire to stop swearing. It is a bad habit and one that really is un-ladylike.

11. I will tell Daddy where I am going, how long I will be gone, and my anticipated return time home. I will inform Daddy if my schedule changes so he always knows where I am and what I am doing.

Understanding your need to know that I am safe, I can see that this is one way that you can ensure it by knowing where I am and when I am expected to be home. I don’t mind following this rule and, in fact, it is kind of nice that you care so much. I’m not at all used to having someone else care about me in that way, Daddy.

12. I will email/text Daddy at least one time each workday to check in. I will sign the email/text “Obediently and Submissively Yours, Your Baby Girl.”

So we change from, “Respectfully Yours” to “Obediently and Submissively Yours.” Considering our real-life relationship and our roles as Dominant and submissive, this makes perfect sense to me.

13. I will maintain my training journal and complete all assignments per Daddy’s instructions. I will submit my journal to Daddy every Friday evening and whenever he asks for it. I will meet all of the goals Daddy sets for me by Friday each week, unless Daddy instructs otherwise.

I cannot wait for Friday nights so I can see you. I love when you give me assignments because it forces me to really think about things and reveal where I am challenged or having problems submitting. Given this is my first time in this type of relationship, I imagine it will be normal for me to be confused and need your guidance. Continuing my journal will help with this, I am sure.

14. I will be punished when I am naughty or do not obey Daddy. I will accept and cooperate during all punishment and discipline that Daddy gives me. I will thank Daddy after a punishment session. I will document all punishments in the Infractions and Punishments section of my journal.

Daddy, you made it very clear that you use a wide variety of punishment methods including spankings and other types of physical punishments. We also talked about using humiliation techniques, loss of privileges, and increased rules. I trust you and I want to give you total control over me, which will hold me accountable. I think that is one of the reasons why this type of relationship is so appealing to me—you have the authority and the sole discretion to hold me accountable for my actions or inactions.

Overall, I have to say I am thoroughly pumped up with all of these rules. I am someone who thrives on structure and organization, so all of this is right up my alley. While I know that some rules will be much more difficult for me to follow than others, I do want to please you, Daddy. I will try very hard to learn and grow in my submission to you.

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No sooner do I finish and send off my email to Daddy when my phone rings.

“Hi,” I say shyly.

“Hi there yourself, little one,” he responds.

“I just finished sending you an email, Daddy.”

“Great, I look forward to reading it. I hope you don’t mind my calling. I just wanted to hear your voice.”

“I’m glad you did call,” I respond with a smile on my face. “I miss you so much already.”