Sex Position Sequences (10 page)

Lady on Top

Couples may think if the woman is on top she’s in complete charge of stoking the inferno, but in this series both partners are in a perfect position to bump up the passion. That’s because this sequence plays off basic missionary moves, but with plenty of swiveling, switching up, and side-to-side penetration. Woman on top offers the couple a hot collaboration; they both decide on pace, speed, and depth of entry. Communication, verbal and carnal, is important so one partner doesn’t switch positions before the other is ready to make the move. There’s no rush. What’s most compatible for the couple is revealed as the angle of V and shaft shifts from position to position. Otherwise, it’s ride ’em, cowgirl. She takes the reins and bucks his bronco until they ride off into the red-hot, exploding sunset.

Lapping It In

This is one of the best positions for deep penetration. It’s simple to get into, as the man sits with his legs crossed, his hands splayed and resting on the bed for balance. He draws his honey onto his lap and eases her down onto his hard shaft. She sits with her legs raised on his shoulders for balance and precise penetration. While she arches back, he grabs hold of her bottom but remains hard and steady. Instead of the standard up and down, the woman sways back and forth, with a gentle rubbing motion. The couple can try out different speeds to gain the utmost pleasure. Be aware that some women in this position find deep thrusting against their cervix uncomfortable (especially with well-endowed partners), while it can bring others to orgasm.

Sliding Side to Side

This posture allows for deep penetration with a twist. The woman lies on her side, while the man sits up, leaning back on his palms. The movement of the woman is left to right as the man is thrusting in and out. Side-by-side sex puts less pressure on his penis and slows down the approach to orgasm, which is useful for men with premature ejaculation. If a man has the opposite issue (not being able to ejaculate during sexual intercourse), it may be a better idea to avoid this position, since it produces even less stimulation than others. The position requires nonstop movement of the woman’s pelvis to avoid the loss of her man’s erection. Since the couple remains in communication, including sharing gazes, this position enhances intimacy, deepening the couple’s connection in more ways than one.

Locking Her In

Although the woman stays on top, in this position the man exerts his influence by locking his legs around her pelvis and limiting her range of motion, creating a hot bondage effect. She can still rotate her hips in a circular movement on his hard shaft, lean backward and forward, and move slowly. But she won’t be able to withdraw from his penis even if she wants to rub her vulva along its length. In this position, it’s the man who gets to thrust deeply, but he needs to do it gently and see how it goes down before pounding her into orgasmic submission. It won’t take too long before the couple is fully satisfied, and they’re both sweaty and spent, sitting on top of the world.

The man sits with his legs crossed. While he eases her down onto his hard shaft, she keeps her legs on his shoulders for balance and sways forward and backward, rubbing against his shaft.

She stays on his rod, but switches to sitting position to straddle his waist.

The woman lies on her side, while the man sits up, leaning back on his palms. The movement of the woman is left to right, requiring nonstop action of her pelvis to avoid the loss of her man’s erection.

She sits facing away from him while he pumps his hard shaft deep inside from back to front.

His lady remains on top while he exerts his influence by locking his legs around her pelvis and limiting her range of motion, creating a hot bondage effect that brings the couple to feel fully satisfied, sweaty, and spent.

Turn Around

For partners who like to go with the flow and get a heated rise by switching it around, and who enjoy the ins and outs of different entries (facing each other, turning away, connecting intimately, or releasing anonymously), this highly varied sequence is just right. From sitting to lying flat to kneeling, it is a whirlwind of possibility. In addition, the sequence promotes an especially high buildup of sexual tension in the genitals, which in turn pumps up the couple’s all-around body energy and leads them to an electrifying climactic finish. This dizzying sequence also guarantees partners a burst of orgasmic pleasure that lingers long after the initial release.

Holding the Connection

Sitting is an excellent position to enjoy the buildup of sexual energy as it flows in and throughout the body. Eye contact, breath connection, heart connection, and intimacy are all facilitated by facing partners. Partners maintain this highly charged superconnection, gazing, kissing, and sharing their silent communication until they feel the energy rising to such a height, there’s no holding back. It’s this moment that cues the couple to switch positions. Since exquisite timing is necessary, there’s a meditative quality to this tantric-influenced pose. The goal is to stay as still as possible, keeping legs wrapped in sitting position, with torsos, lips, tongues, and gazes touching, moving only slightly to keep his erection hard.

Digging In

There’s scientific research proving men are visual, and this position gives him a nice look at his lovely’s bottom while his shaft is penetrating her. Making sure her entry is well lubricated before the journey begins, he lies on his back, with his head and neck craned to fix his view, and immerses his rod in her backside. If the mood strikes him, he can smack that naughty girl lightly on her spread cheeks. While she sits facing away from him, straddling his hips, the rear entry can easily be adjusted so the angle and depth of his penetration will follow the way the couple moves. The woman can adapt the experience for herself, either moving up, down, or to the side while offering room to increase the pleasure for her partner.