CHAPTER 2
GREGORY SCARPA SR., LOVING FAMILY MAN
My mother met my father in a bar in her Brooklyn neighborhood in the early 1960s when she was just a teenager. She was seventeen when she became his mistress. He was in his mid-thirtiesâand married. He told her he was involved with the Colombo crime family. Unlike other Mob guys, my father told her about everythingâthe burglaries, the numbers racket, the murdersâeverything.
I'll let her tell you about it.
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When I grew up in Brooklyn, I lived in an area where there were mostly made guys. All the guys used to go to my grandmother's houseâto the back roomâand have crap games and take numbers. In fact, my grandmother took the numbers. She used to pick up the numbers at church at six in the morning
and give them to me, and I used to hand them to all the guys in the back room.
I was probably eleven or twelve when I was first exposed to these guys.They were all really nice. If you needed anything, they were always there for you. If they were winning in the crap games or something, they would give you money.They were very generous. I knew they were gangsters, but with us, the people they knew, they were just great. I grew up with them, and I thought they were great.
I started dating a made guy from the Gambino crime family, Larry Pistone. We'd go to the Copacabana in ManhattanâI was at the Copa almost every nightâand the Latin Quarter club. We were always out for dinner. He gave me money for clothes, to get my hair done, whatever I wanted. But I also saw a bad side of him. One time we had to pick up money from someone. Larry knocked on the door; the guy's wife answered. Then I saw him pull the guy out and hit him. That was the first time I really saw a bad side of one of those guys.
I had been dating Larry for about a year and a half. One night when I wasn't going out with Larry, a friend of mine called and asked if I wanted to go to this new bar that had just opened at Seventy-Second Street and Thirteenth Avenue in Brooklyn called the Flamingo Lounge.
We went to the club and some of my father's friends were there. We were having a few drinks at the bar. At one point I turned around, and in walked this very handsome man with a big smile on his face. I didn't know at the time but he was Greg Scarpa.
He came over to the bar, took his jacket offâhe
was dressed real sharpâand looked at me. He knew one of my father's friends and asked him to introduce us. I thought,
Wow,
but I still didn't realize that he was a gangster yet. I just knew he was really unique.
After we were introduced, he stood next to me, bought me a drink and started talking to me.
“You know, you have the most beautiful black eyes. They're like olives, black olives. Do you work?”
I told him I had just gotten a job on Wall Street.
“Well, you know what I would love to do, Linda? I would love to air-condition that train that you ride on, and just do everything for you.”
“Oh, Greg, that's a new one.”
I had never heard that line before. That night, I knew there was something there. I could see it in him, too, because he came right over to be introduced to me. I was charmed by him, but I didn't even know he was a gangster. The smile on his faceâit was just a beautiful smile.
As we were talking, I said to him, “Come on. Do you dance?”
“Of course, I dance.”
“Well, come on, let's dance.”
So he took my hand and led me onto the dance floor. When it was time for me to leave, he asked for my number. But I was dating Larry at the time, so I told Greg I needed time to break up with Larry.
“Well, you know what, Greg? I'll call you.”
“Oh, you want to call me? You'll wait a week or two.”
“No. I promise you, I will call you.”
So he gave me his number. A few days went by and I still hadn't called him. But I did go out with
Larry and we continued going to the Copacabana. We were ready to leave one night when Larry's wife pulled up in front of the Copa. I didn't want any trouble so I got in a cab and went to the Flamingo Lounge, where Greg was.
I told Greg what had just happened and he wanted to know what I was doing with Larry. As we were talking, I heard a horn beeping outside the club. We were sitting by the window at the bar and I looked out and saw Larry. He knew I used to go to the Flamingo.
Greg and I went outside. Larry said, “Linda, get in the car.” I told him no.
“She's coming with me,” Greg said. Now I still didn't realize that Greg was a gangster, but I knew Larry was a gangster.
“Well, Greg, maybe I should go.”
“No, get in the car,” Greg said. His car was parked right in front.
I got in Greg's car and Larry pulled right up next to us.
“Linda, get in the car, come on.”
I told Greg I should probably just go with Larry. Then, all of a sudden, I see Greg bending down under his seat.
“No, don't do that, Greg. He's a gangster.”
Meanwhile, so was Greg.
“Let me just go with him. I'll talk to him and I'll tell him that it's over.”
I got out of Greg's car, and I went with Larry. I told Larry that I didn't want to see him anymore, especially after what had happened with his wife. I said I
didn't want to be bothered. Then I told him to take me home. He was apologizing like crazy, but I told him just to take me home.
A day or two later I went to the Flamingo and Greg was in the bar. He told me what had been happening.
“I have a sit-down.”
“What do you mean you have a âsit-down'?”
He told me it was a sit-down with Joe Colombo, Larry Pistone and somebody from the Gambino family that Larry was with. It was over me. At that point I knew Greg was a gangster in the Colombo family. So he went to this sit-down, and they were arguing back and forth.
Joe Colombo finally asked, “What does Linda want?”
Greg said, “She wants to be with me, and I want to be with her.”
Greg came out the winner. Larry wasn't supposed to go near me anymore. I was Greg's, and that was it. And that was how it ended with Larry, and I started seeing Greg.
After that I was with Greg every day, and every night. He used to send beautiful fruit baskets to my house every day. I lived with my father, and my father loved it. But he didn't know I was seeing a gangster. He wanted to know who was sending the fruit baskets. I told him it was this really nice guy named George I had just met.
That went on for a week or two. And then, all of a sudden, Greg started sending flowers instead. My father wanted to know why he was sending flowers.
He told me to tell him to send the fruit baskets again.
Greg bought me a car. He bought me a little dog, a French poodle. I told Greg I was going to give the dog to my father to keep him company. He said whatever I wanted to do was fine. It was all about meâwhatever made me happy is what he did.
As we got closer, he told me all about himself and his family. He was born in Brooklyn in 1928. He was the second of five kids born to Italian immigrants. He had one brother, Sal, and three sisters, Marie, Vincenza and Theresa, who wasn't well. His mother, Mary, used to take care of her.
At one point Theresa was in the hospital. One day while she was there, the family brought her food. They left her alone for a few minutes while she was eating. She choked on the food and died.
When Greg was really young, about seven, he had to work with his father, who used to deliver coal. Greg hated it and always wanted to live a better lifeâthe same type of life the local gangsters were living.
When we were dating, Greg used to take me to his mother's house in Brooklyn for dinner. She made the greatest homemade pasta. When I had Linda, she knitted beautiful outfits for her.
Greg was a family man. Everything was about his family. He just adored his family and the people close to him, and nobody could talk bad about them. Greg and I spent a lot of time with his sister Marie and her husband, Tony. When we bought our condo in Florida some years later, they bought one right next door to us. We were really close to Marie and her husband.
Greg and Sal used to always butt heads. He loved Sal, but Sal was a thickhead and never listened to Greg. When Sal got made, he wasn't in the Colombo family, but he became part of that family later on.
Sal got involved with the Mob first. By the time Greg was about seventeen, he was pretty street-smart. He caught the eye of local mobster Charlie LoCicero of the Profaci crime family, who recruited him into the life.
Greg told me about the ceremony when he was made in 1950. First, he said, he had to be accepted for membership by all the guys in the family. Then he was called to a meeting with the boss, the underboss, the consigliere, all of the captains and the member who proposed him for membership.
The boss then asked him if he was willing to kill and obey any orders given to him by his bosses. When Greg said yes, the boss who was running the ceremony asked if he was left-handed or right-handed. When he said he was right-handed, the boss pricked the trigger finger of that hand. A few drops of Greg's blood spilled onto a card bearing the image of a saint.
The card was set on fire and, Greg said, he had to pass the card quickly from hand to hand so he wouldn't get burned. While he was moving the card from one hand to the other, he took the oath of loyalty in Italian to the Mafia family: “With this oath I swear that if I ever violate this oath, may I burn as this paper.” During the ceremony Greg was specifically asked if he would participate in a killing. If he had said no, he wouldn't have been made.
When my father met Greg, I introduced him as
“George,” and Greg went right along with it. My father loved him. A couple days after they met, my father went to the club to play cards. Sonny, one of the guys at the club, told him I was going out with a big gangster named Greg Scarpa. He said I couldn't be going out with Greg Scarpa because I was seeing some man named George.
When my father got home, he had some questions for me.
“Linda, this guy, Sonny, just told me that you're going out with Greg Scarpa.”
“Well, yeah, Dad. But you've met him, and he's really a nice guy.”
“Greg Scarpa?” My father was in shock because Greg was a really big gangster.
I told Greg what had happenedâthat one of the guys from the clubâa guy he knew, tooâtold my father about us. And that guy got a few smacks for opening his mouth.
On the street I knew everyone feared Greg. To me, I couldn't understand it because he was a sweetheart. He did everything for me. People were afraid to go into the Flamingo Lounge because they were afraid to meet up with him. But I didn't know him like thatâto me, he was the best. He was always taking me to beautiful restaurants for dinner and drinks.
He had my birthday that first year at the Copacabana. I walked in with him and there was Joe Colombo and a whole bunch of goodfellas sitting at the table. I was getting all these beautiful gifts. It was great to have the respect. People who had never talked to me before would pass me on the street and ask how I was doing. When I was at the Flamingo,
I'd order Chinese food from a nearby Chinese restaurant. When they delivered it, the guy always told me I didn't have to pay. So I ordered Chinese food almost every night.
Greg and I spent as much time as we could together. He used to pick me up in the daytime, and we'd go to the park and walk around.Then we'd sit in the car just making out. He fell in love right away, and I could tell. He was a happy person, caring, giving to those he loved. But if you did him wrong, he would kill you.
If you hurt his family in any way or disrespected them, Greg wasn't the type of person who believed in just giving you a beating, because then you could go to the cops and talk. So either you didn't say anything or Greg would kill you. That's what he did. It was just part of the lifestyleâa lifestyle that he didn't hide from me.
One night he said, “Let's take a ride. I have to meet this guy. I have to get some coins and stamps he's selling.”
So I took a ride and I sat in the car across the street from the lot where the guy was parked. Greg went into the other guy's car. I saw him put his arm around the guy; then, all of a sudden, I heard
“boom, boom.”
He shot him in the head and just took the stamps and the coins. He wasn't paying for them. Then he came back to the car like nothing happened. He was all smiles. But that was Greg. I think his adrenaline went up when he killed somebody.
I was always with Greg. If he had to meet someone, I would be there. If people came to my house for a meeting or to talk to him, he never told me
to go into the other room. In fact, if I got up to leave, he'd say, “Sit down, sweetheart.” And I'd sit down. Everyone got used to it. It was like I was one of the boys.