A Song for Mary (49 page)

8. Dennis’ relationship with his mother is the central theme of the memoir. Which scenes are the most representative of her guidance? What does the ring symbolize? What does the song “Rose of Tralee” symbolize for Dennis and his mother? How did her purchase of the aviator jacket make you feel? What do you think that meant to Dennis? Why was she so adamant about not telling anyone they were poor? How do you think she felt when she saw Dennis spiraling into crime as a teenager? When her husband went to the hospital?

9.Dennis’ life changes when he gets in a street brawl and is ordered to join the Air Force. What do you think would have happened to him had he not gotten into the fight? Would he have turned his life around eventually? What other things in his life would have helped to turn him around?

10. When Dennis joins the fire department, he has a moment to reflect on what has brought him to Engine Co. 82. What lesson was the most important that he learned? Who helped bring him to that point in his life? Share a moment in your own life when you knew you could achieve your dream, no matter what transpired before then.