Against Our Will: Men, Women, and Rape (89 page)

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  1. Pornography has been so thickly glossed over with the patina of chic these days in the name of verbal freedom and sophistication that important distinctions between freedom of political expression (a democratic necessity ), honest sex education for children ( a societal good ) and ugly smut ( the deliberate devaluation of the role of women through obscene, distorted depictions) have been hopelessly confused. Part of the problem is that those who tradi tionally have been the most vigorous opponents of porn are often those same people who shudder at the explicit mention of any sexual subject. Under their watchful, vigilante eyes, frank and free dissemination of educational materials relating to abortion, contra ception, the act of birth, and female biology in general is also dangerous, subversive and dirty. ( I am not unmindful that a frank and free discussion of rape, "the unspeakable crime," might well

    give these righteous vigilantes further cause to shudder. ) Because the battle lines were falsely drawn a long time ago, before there was a vocal women's movement, the anti-pornography forces ap pear to be, for the most part, religious, Southern, conservative and right-wing, while the pro-porn forces are identified as Eastern, atheistic and liberal.

    But a woman's perspective demands a totally new alignment, or at least a fresh appraisal. The majority report of the President's Commission on Obscenity and Pornography (
    1970),
    a report that argued strongly for the removal of all legal restrictions on pornog raphy, sof t and hard, made plain that
    90
    percent of all porno graphic material is geared to the male heterosexual market ( the other
    10
    percent is geared to the male homosexual taste), that buyers of porn are "predominantly white, middle-class, middle aged married males" and that the graphic depictions, the meat and potatoes of porn, are of the naked female body and of the multi plicity of acts done to that body.

    Discussing the content of stag films, "a familiar and firmly established part of the American scene," the commission report dutifully, if foggily, explained, "Because pornography historically has been thought to be primarily a masculine interest, the empha sis in stag films seems to represent the preferences of the middle class American male. Thus male homosexuality and bestiality are relatively rare, while lesbianism is rather common."

    The commissioners in this instance had merely verified what purveyors of porn have always known: hard-core pornography is not a celebration of sexual freedom; it is a cynical exploitation of female sexual activity through the device of making all such activ ity, and consequently all females, "dirty." Heterosexual male con sumers of pornography are frankly turned on by watching lesbians in action ( although never in the final scenes, but always as a curtain raiser ) ; they are turned off with the sudden swif tness of a water faucet by watching naked men act upon each other. One study quoted in the commission report came to the unastounding conclusion that "seeing a stag film in the presence of male peers bolsters masculine esteem." Indeed. The men in groups who watch the films, it is important to note, are not naked.

    When male response to pornography is compared to female response, a pronounced difference in attitude emerges. According to the commission, "Males report being more highly aroused by

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    depictions of nude females, and show more interest in depictions of nude females than [do] females." Quoting the figures of Alfred Kinsey, the commission noted that a majority of males ( 77 per cent ) were "aroused" by visual depictions of explicit sex while a majority of females ( 68 percent ) were not aroused. Further, "females more often than males reported 'disgust' and 'offense.' " From whence comes this female disgust and offense? Are females sexually backward or more conservative by nature? The gut distaste that a majority of women feel when we look at pornog raphy, a distaste that, incredibly, it is no longer fashionable to admit, comes, I think, from the gut knowledge that we and our bodies are being stripped, exposed and contorted for the purpose of ridicule to bolster that "masculine esteem" which gets its kick and sense of power from viewing females as anonymous, panting play things, adult toys, dehumanized objects to be used, abused, broken

    and discarded.

    This, of course, is also the philosophy of rape.
    It
    is no accident (for what else could be its purpose? ) that females in the porno graphic genre are depicted in two cleanly delineated roles: as vir gins who are caught and "banged" or as nymphomaniacs who are never sated. The most popular and prevalent pornographic fantasy combines the two: an innocent, untutored female is raped and "subjected to unnatural practices" that turn her into a raving, slobbering nymphomaniac, a dependent sexual slave who can never get enough of the big, male cock.

    There can be no "equality" in porn, no female equivalent, no turning of the tables in the name of bawdy fun. Pornography, like rape, is a male invention, designed to dehumanize women, to reduce the female to an object of sexual access, not to free sensual ity from moralistic or parental inhibition. The staple of porn will always be the naked female body, breasts and genitals exposed, because as man devised it, her naked body is the female's "shame," her private parts the private property of man, while his are the ancient, holy, universal, patriarchal instrument of his power, his rule by force over her.

    Pornography is the undiluted essence of anti-female propa ganda. Yet the very same liberals who were so quick to understand the method and purpose behind the mighty propaganda machine of Hitler's Third Reich, the consciously spewed-out anti-Semitic caricatures and obscenities that gave an ideological base to the

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    Holocaust and the Final Solution, the very same liberals who, en lightened by blacks, searched their own conscience and came to understand that their tolerance of "nigger" jokes and portrayals of shuffiing, rolling-eyed servants in movies perpetuated the degrad ing myths of black inferiority and gave an ideological base to the continuation of black oppression-these very same liberals now fervidly maintain that the hatred and contempt for women that find expression in four-letter words used as expletives and in what are quaintly called "adult" or "erotic" books and movies are a valid extension of freedom of speech that must be preserved as a Consti tutional right.

    To defend the right of a lone, crazed American Nazi to grind out propaganda calling for the extermination of all Jews, as the ACLU has done in the name of free speech, is, af ter all, a self righteous and not particularly courageous stand, for American Jewry is not currently threatened by storm troopers, concentration camps and imminent extermination, but I wonder if the ACLU's position might change if, come tomorrow morning, the bookstores and movie theaters lining Forty-second Street in New York City were devoted not to the humiliation of women by rape and torture, as they currently are, but to a systematized, commercially success ful propaganda machine depicting the sadistic. pleasures of gassing Jews or lynching blacks?

    Is this analogy extreme? Not if you are a woman who is conscious of the ever-present threat of rape and the proliferation of a cultural ideology that makes it sound like "liberated" fun. The majority report of the President's Commission on Obscenity and Pornography tried to pooh-pooh the opinion of law enforcement agencies around the country that claimed their own concrete ex perience with offenders who were caught with the stuff led them to conclude that pornographic material is a causative factor in crimes of sexual violence. The commission maintained that it was not possible at this time to scientifically prove or disprove such a connection.

    But does one need scientific methodology in order to conclude that the anti-female propaganda that permeates our nation's cul tural output promotes a climate in which acts of sexual hostility directed against women are not only tolerated but ideologically encouraged? A similar debate has raged for many years over whether or not the extensive glorification of violence ( the gangster

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    as hero; the loving treatment accorded bloody shoot-'ern-ups in movies, books and on TV) has a causal effect, a direct relationship to the rising rate of crime, particularly among youth. Interestingly enough, in this area-nonsexual and not specifically related to abuses against women-public opinion seems to be swinging to the position that explicit violence in the entertainment media does have a deleterious effect; it makes violence commonplace, numb ingly routine and no longer morally shocking.

    More to the point, those who call for a curtailment of scenes of violence in movies and on television in the name of sensitivity, good taste and what's best for our children are not accused of being pro-censorship or against freedom of speech. Similarly, minority group organizations, black, Hispanic, Japanese, Italian, Jewish, or American Indian, that campaign against ethnic slurs and demean ing portrayals in movies, on television shows and in commercials are perceived as waging a just political fight, for if a minority group claims to be offended by a specific portrayal, be it Little Black Sambo or the Frito Bandido, and relates it to a history of ridicule and oppression, few liberals would dare to trot out a Constitutional argument in theoretical opposition, not if they wish to maintain their liberal credentials. Yet when it comes to the treatment of women, the liberal consciousness remains fiercely obdurate, refus ing to be budged, for the sin of appearing square or prissy in the age of the so-called sexual revolution has become the worst offense of all.

    A law that reflects the female reality and a social system that no longer shuts women out of its enforcement and does not pro mote a masculine ideology of rape will go a long way toward the elimination of crimes of sexual violence, but the last line of defense shall always be our female bodies and our female minds. In making rape a speakable crime, not a matter of shame, the women's move ment has already fired the first retaliatory shots in a war as ancient as civilization. When, just a few years ago, we began to hold our speak-outs on rape, our conferences, borrowing a church meeting hall for an afternoon, renting a high-school auditorium and some classrooms for a weekend of workshops and discussion, the world out there, the world outside of radical feminism, thought it was all very funny.

    "You're talking about rape? Incredible! A
    political
    crime against women? How is a sex crime political? You're actually

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