“It’s my pleasure,” Alison said. “Are you sad that he’s gone for eight weeks?”
“I’m happy because I know that at last, maybe for the first time I’ve made him happy. And anyway, I’ve got the rest of my life to enjoy with him,” Catherine said, smiling fondly. “Besides, I enjoy spending a sunrise with you, it’s becoming a regular thing.”
“Did you ever think we’d be like this again?” Alison said. “Friends, I mean?”
Catherine shook her head. “No,” she said. “No, I never dreamt that we would be friends again, but now that we are I can’t imagine a time when we won’t be.”
“And to think now our daughters are friends like we once were. Do you remember how we used to talk about that, how we said we’d always be together for all of our lives, how our children would be friends and we’d always have each other?”
“We were almost right,” Catherine said with a smile. “In the great scheme of things it hasn’t been that long that we’ve been apart. And now that the girls have found each other I suppose we’ll be together a lot more.” She turned and smiled at Alison. “It’s good to have you back, Alison.”
“You don’t know how glad that makes me feel, hearing you say that,” Alison said, her voice catching a little as she turned her face away from Catherine.
They sat in silence for a few minutes longer and then Catherine put her arm around Alison.
“Are you going to be okay?” Catherine asked her friend.
Alison looked into the rising sun so that the light drenched her face and she smiled.
“I’m going to be,” she said. “I’ve got a funny feeling that I’m going to be.”
Acknowledgments
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ore than anything this book is about female friendship and how important it is in a woman’s life. So in that spirit I’d like to thank the incredible and brilliant women who are so crucial to my writing career. Lizzy Kremer, Kate Elton, Georgina Hawtrey-Woore, Jenny Matthews, Rosie Wooley, Sarah Darby, Catherine Carter, Kirstie Seaman, Margi Harris, Catherine Ashley, and finally an especially grateful and heartfelt thanks to Maggie Crawford, my editor and friend at Simon & Schuster. Maggie, thank you for being so wonderfully supportive and such an inspiration to work with.
Readers Club Guide
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or Alison James, moving with her family from London to her hometown of Farmington presents more than just a simple case of relocation jitters. The last time she saw Farmington, fifteen years ago, she was fleeing it—eloping with her best friend’s boyfriend. Now, blessed with three children, but uneasy in her marriage, she wonders whether the decisions of her past have led her away from the life she was meant to lead.
Catherine Ashley, nearly divorced and a mother of two, can’t help but wonder herself. Although she’s contented with her children, and friendly with her almost-ex, she finds herself returning again and again to those few weeks fifteen years ago, in which she fell deeply in love, only to be betrayed and abandoned by her most trusted friend.
When the two women find themselves once more living in the same town, they must come to terms with the choices made and damage done in the past—in the process, healing the present and clearing the way for the right futures for both of them.
1. Marc is first seen in the car, impatiently waiting for Alison. What is your first impression of him as a husband? What do you think are his real motivations for returning to Farmington?
2. When Alison returns to Farmington, she observes the changes the town has undergone, noting that it has evolved from “maiden aunt” to “trophy wife.” How does the change in the town mirror the changes in Marc and Alison’s lifestyle? Do you think any of Alison’s observations are distorted, filtered through her own perspective? Do you think Catherine would describe the town the same way?
3. Both Marc and Alison acknowledge that she had a large hand in making him into the man he is today. Do you think she deserves credit for his outward success? Why? Is she then also to blame for the darker side of his personality?
4. Alison worries that Amy’s anxiety comes from her own unhappiness at the time of Amy’s conception. Do you think that children’s personalities develop from the energy they pick up from their parents? Why do you think Gemma and Ellie gravitate to each other so quickly?
5. How much of Alison’s decision to make a play for Marc was due to her attraction to him? How much of her motivation came from jealousy toward Cathy? Why do you think Alison was so threatened by the change in the social order of her
friendship with Cathy? Does hearing Alison’s side of the story make you more sympathetic to her, or less?
6. Why do you think it makes such a difference to Alison to know that Marc had slept with Cathy? Why did she tolerate so much in her marriage to Marc prior to learning this? What did Alison gain from protecting her marriage?
7. Alison says that all along she’s felt like a pretend adult, while Catherine feels the opposite, mature and grounded. Why do you think Alison feels stunted? What does it take for her to grow up? Does Catherine ultimately benefit from being a little less responsible and mature?
8. Describe Kirsty—how is her outlook on life different from those of the other characters? Why do you think she becomes such an effective bridge between Catherine and Alison?
9. Both Marc and Jimmy cheated on their wives. How are the situations different? Is Jimmy’s cheating less of a betrayal? Why is he redeemed in the end, and not Marc?
10. Alison is continually drawn to the idea that she opted for the wrong life, stealing Catherine’s instead of following her own path. What do you think constitutes the “right” life? What do you think the lives of the characters would be like today if Alison had never slept with Marc? What if Marc and Catherine had never met?
Feeling nostalgic? Bring in photos and share stories of your hometown with the group. How different is the town today?
Are you still in touch with your childhood best friend? What would you want to ask her if you saw her today? Write a letter— share it with the group or send it off!
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1. I particularly enjoyed the parent-child interactions in
Another Mother’s Life
. How do you write them so realistically?
I don’t have a great memory, except for interesting conversations I’ve either had or heard. I have a six-year-old daughter and many small nephews and nieces as well as many friends with children of all ages. Conversations between parents and their children are often the most entertaining and I draw a lot from overhearing them!
2. How was this novel’s process different from your other novels? Do you approach your adult novels differently from your books for teens?
With all my books I start from a central idea, then build the characters and finally plot it. Plot is crucial, of course, but for me believable characters that readers really care about are the most important element.
Another Mother’s Life
differs from my other novels in that it is far more personal than almost any other book I’ve written. The only difference between the way I write books for adults and teens is really the length. Teen readers are just as sophisticated and demanding as my adult readers and deserve exactly the same kind of commitment and care from me. I do make adjustments in content and language, though. I think a lot about what I would want my daughter to read when she is older!
3. You center your story around a sharply drawn picture of childhood friendship. Was anything inspired by your own friendships or experiences as a teen?
The central friendship between Alison and Catherine is based on a friendship I had as a child and young adult, set in a version of the town I grew up in. There are elements of their relationship with Marc that did happen to me, the main one being that my best friend did run away with my boyfriend when we were seventeen.
4. You write from a number of different perspectives in
Another Mother’s Life
. Was there a character you particularly identified with or enjoyed voicing?
I can honestly say that I really loved writing all the characters in this book, even Marc! There is a part of me in each of them, which is half the fun of writing—you get to disguise yourself in a multitude of costumes and characters. I loved writing Catherine’s journey from hibernation back to life, and Alison’s realization that her flawed life would never be fixable became really compelling. The character that was the most fun to write and the one that made me laugh out loud was Kirsty. One day I will give Kirsty her own book, or at least a short story—I think she deserves one!
5. You have a very entertaining web presence. What drew you to blogging and the online community?
I started blogging as a way to connect to my readers. It’s always great to hear from them, to hear their thoughts and opinions. And I find it an awful lot of fun, although I am so busy writing books that I don’t have time to blog as much as I’d like to.
6. Having begun your career on the publishing side, what inspired you to become a writer?
I always wanted to be a writer, but I didn’t think it would ever happen, so I tried the next best thing and worked in bookselling and then publishing for several years. This just confirmed my belief that becoming a published writer was really, really difficult! But I kept on writing for pleasure, taking a master’s degree in writing in my spare time, and one day I sent a story to a writing competition in a women’s magazine. A few weeks later I discovered that I had won! Winning that prize opened a lot of doors for me, and within six months I had signed my first contract. It sounds corny, but I do believe that you have to keep dreaming for dreams to come true.
7. Who are some authors who have influenced your work?
I don’t think that other writers “influence” my work as such, but I certainly am inspired by and enjoy the work of many writers. The Brontës, Austen, Dickens, and George Eliot are my classic heroes, and of contemporary writers I enjoy Sophie Kinsella, Marian Keyes, Kathy Reichs, Anne Tyler, Maya Angelou, Philippa Gregory, and about a million more!