friendliness and feigned sincerity to win their marks' trust. A con man has to be a smooth liar and a convincing actor. Acting is a profession we have found to be related to high testosterone levels. There will be more about actors later in this chapter.
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Recently, few women have been successful players in big-time confidence games. Maurer found only one full-fledged con woman, Lilly the Roper, who was recognized by her male colleagues as a competent professional. There are women in the smaller con games, but the big cons have been run mostly by men. One old-timer said there once were many women in the business, and there are still "plenty of women today who would make good, too, but they haven't the chance because they don't know any good grifters." 17 To be successful, even in the underworld, beginners need mentors.
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Tough Women and Tough Work
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Like Lilly the Roper and Britain's "Iron Lady," Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher, a few women do well in occupations, legal and illegal, that are dominated by men. Blackfoot Indian men admired "manly-hearted women" because they were tough, hardworking, and sexy. Manly-hearted women wouldn't put up with abuse, though, and the men didn't like that. 18 Like the Blackfoot men, most men are at least a little ambivalent about tough women. That means that being tough helps women get jobs usually held by men, but sometimes being tough is not enough. Even allowing for the fact that there are not as many high-testosterone women as men, there are fewer women in such occupations than would be predicted by testosterone scores alone. The shortage exists partly because men want to keep the jobs for themselves. Sometimes a woman has to be really tough.
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Automobile racing, with its speed, action, grease, and carburetors, has been almost entirely a male domain, but a few really tough women have become successful racers. The "Queen of Drag Racing," Shirley Muldowney, told journalist Sam Moses, "I think the difference between me and the other guys is that a lot of them don't have, truly don't have, that kick-ass attitude." 19 Muldowney's "kick-ass attitude" survived a 250 mph crash that almost killed her in 1984. After five surgeries and eigh-
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