Authors: Pat Conroy
My Losing Season (45 page)
The metaphors of basketball have carried over into my world of fiction, the novels that are the great joys of my life. When I receive a bad review, I smile my enigmatic point guard smile and I shoot a bird to the press box as I mutter to myself, “Mel Thompson. They're all Mel Thompsons.” I have seen bad reviews stop writing careers dead in their tracks, but I learned how to handle Mel Thompson early in my life, and I learned how not to listen to the malignant sounds of negativityâbut to listen to the black sounds of my own heart instead. When I get a sneering review, I ask myself, “Could this writer bring it upcourt against Florida State? Would I rather have this bad review in my hands or would I rather report to my first sergeant's room after mess tonight? This review or running the suicide drill for Mel Thompson after practice?” The answer is always the same: No critic can bring it upcourt against Florida State. All of them whine in the press box while you prance and posture and direct the flow of the game at center court with everyone in the field house watching.
Does the point guard help me with other writers and their books? When I read an overreaching, fully oxygenated, lightning-struck novel by a novelist like John Updike or William Styron or A. S. Byatt or Terry Kay or John Irving or Anne Rivers Siddons or Jonathan Carroll or a hundred other novels that are works of art in the rich golden age of fiction in which I have been lucky to be aliveâI say when I finish these life-altering books, “Ah! A Johnny Moates. A masterpiece. They wrote me a Johnny Moates.”
My surprise is that my losing season still haunts me and resides within me, a time of shadows now, but a time still endowed with a mysterious power to both hurt and enlarge me. I did not know I could carry the year with me always, a dromedary hump of pain and recognition. The frustration of being mediocre at what I loved best in the world lingers through the years, not as a wound but as an acknowledgment of a truth I would rather not know. Though I possessed a great and driving will, I could not overcome the twin handicaps of my smallness and lack of talent when it came to those games of impartial judgment on the basketball courts of my youth. I wanted to be one of the great point guards of my time, and I could not even make myself into a memorable one.
So I found my team again, and they were in bad shape. I brought them together and I apologized to all of them. Not one of them knew how much I had loved and respected them when I was a young man disguised as the would-be captain of their team. They did not know how highly I held their skills and how I marveled at their talent. They did not believe me when I said I consider it a great honor to have taken to the court with them. Few accept my declaration that I filled up with pride whenever I dressed out with them and led them into the blazing lights of strange arenas with the name of our college blazoned on our jerseys.
Many of my teammates wish that year had never happened. I consider it one of the great years of my life, if not the greatest. If I could change history, if I could change everything that happened that year, if I could bring us a national championship, I would not do it. I would choose again the same teammates I had in 1966â67. I would take to the court with them forever, these same guys. It was the year I learned to accept loss as part of natural law. My team taught me there could be courage and dignity and humanity in loss. They taught me how to pull myself up, to hold my head high, and to soldier on. I got dizzy from loving that team, and I never told them.
But my team taught me most importantly to accept my fate with valor and resoluteness, and I say this to all of you and believe it with every fiber of my humanity: I came to the right college, to play ball with the right players, and I was born to be coached by Mel Thompson and to learn everything about loss and life and everything in between as we struggled and limped and staggered toward March, brothers of loss and, so much more, bound forever by our losing season.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
The essential, life-sharing family and friends: Anne Rivers and Heyward Siddons; Doug, Melinda, and Jackson Marlette; Greg and Mary Wilson Smith; Cliff, Cynthia, Norman, and Rachel Graubart; Terry and Tommye Kay; Jane, Stan, Leah, and Michael Lefco; Zoe and Alex Sanders; Suzanne, Peter, Pete, Christopher, Charles, and Caroline Pollack; John and Barbara Warley; Scott and Susan Graber; Dr. Marion O'Neill; J. Eugene Norris; Bill Dufford; Harriet and Richard Anderson; T. Nugent Courvoisie; Tim Belk; Sylvia Peto; Irene, Ryan, and Patrick Jurzyk; Colonel Joe and Jean Jones; Morgan and Julia Randel; Bert, Julie, Randy, and Julia Legrone; Skip Wharton; Nan and Gay Talese; Julian Bach; Carolyn and Babe Krupp; Anne Torrago; Jeff and Kathleen Kellogg; Marly Rusoff and Mihai Radulescu; Linda Andrews and Michael Melton; Bill and Loretta Cobb; Tom and Carol Harris; Kerry Payne and the SSGs; The Citadel tailgaters; the Fish House Gang; the staff of the Surrey Hotel; the women of T. T. Bones, my hangout on Fripp Island: Kathy Wise, Sylvia DeCost, Jackie Chrisman, Carolyn Summerall, Kazue Cottle, Beverly Edwards, Mary DeRosa, Georgeanna Mills, Ashley Schwartz; Barbara Conroy and Tom Pearce; Kathy, Bobby, and Willie Harvey; Mike and Jean Conroy; Mrs. Jean Shealey; Tim and Terrye Conroy; Jim, Janice, Rachel, and Michael Conroy; and Carol Conroy, poet extraordinaire; and to all of my mother's and father's far-flung families.
The girls and their families: Jessica and Elise; Melissa, Jay, and baby Joseph Wester Jones or Lila Blaine; Megan, Terry, Molly Jean, and Jack; Susannah, Gregory, and Emily.
My first cousin, Ed Conroy, a Citadel point guard in the eighties, now assistant coach at the University of Tennessee, and one of the hottest young basketball coaches in the country.
My college coaches who gave me their time and devotion when I was a young man: Mel Thompson, Ed Thompson, Paul Brandenberg, Bob Gilmore, and Chal Port.
My new Alabama family, though I will not say “Roll Tide!”: Tony King; Beckie, Reggie, Eric, Kyle, Matt, and Elliott Schuler; Jim, Nancy Jane, and Will Hare; Tyler and Michael Ray; and the you-know-what stepsons, Jim, Jason, and Jake Ray.
To Alex and Zoe Sanders; Zoe Caroline and Bill Nettles.
Lastly, Peter Olson of Random House who asked me if I would ever write a book specifically about sports.
Read an excerpt from
The Death of Santini
By Pat Conroy
Available from Doubleday
October 2013
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I
've been writing the story of my own life for over forty years. My own stormy autobiography has been my theme, my dilemma, my obsession, and the fly-by-night dread I bring to the art of fiction. Through the years, I've met many writers who tell me with great pride that they consider autobiographical fiction as occupying a lower house in the literary canon. They make sure I know that their imaginations soar into realms and fragments completely invented by them. No man or woman in their pantheon of family or acquaintances has ever taken a curtain call in their own well-wrought and shapely books. Only rarely have I drifted far from the bed where I was conceived. It is both the wound and foundation of my work. But I came into the world as the son of a Marine Corps fighter pilot as fierce as Achilles. He was a night fighter comfortable with machine-gun fire and napalm. He fought well and honorably in three wars and at one time was one of the most highly decorated Marine aviators in the corps. He was also meaner than a shit-house rat, and I remember hating him even when I was in diapers.
For a long time, I thought I was born into a mythology instead of a family. My father thundered out of the sky in black-winged fighter planes, every inch of him a god of war. My mother's role was goddess of light and harmonyâan Arcadian figure spinning through the grasses and wildflowers on long, hot summer days. Peg Peek and Don Conroy brought the mean South and hurt Ireland to each other's bloodstreams. Peg came from snake-handling fundamentalists in the mountains of Alabama, while Don brought the sensibility of rosary-mad Chicago into a family that would be raised on military bases through the South. But the myths of our lives had no stories to support them. I've no memory of my father sharing one story about his growing up in Chicago, while my mother would simply make up stories of her own privileged upbringing in Atlanta. There, she was the belle of the ball during the seasons of society when the Pinks and Gels crowded into the ballrooms of country clubs before World War II. This was fantasy and an untruth. My mother was dabbling in fiction long before I tried my hand at that slippery game. Mom was always writing a plot where she was a daughter of wealth and privilege. Her actual South was utterly unbeautiful, but we never knew it, because my mama wrote her own mythology, making it up as she went along. My childhood was storyless except I was being raised by an Irish god of fire and a Georgian goddess of the moon. Their marriage was composed of terror and great violence, storm-tossed and seasoned with all the terrible salts of pain.
Both of my parents were larger-than-life to me. Dad prepared me for the coldheartedness of tyrants, for the spirit of Nero contained in the soul of every man, for the Nazi with his booted foot on the Jew's throat, for the mass slaughters of the Tutsis by the Hutus, the collective roar of the ayatollahsâfor the necessity of understanding the limits of cruelty as well as the certain knowledge that there are no limits at all.
In the myth I'm sharing I know that I was born to be the recording angel of my parents' dangerous love. Their damaged children are past middle age now, but the residues of their fury still torture each of us. We talk about it every time we get together. Our parents lit us up like brandy in a skillet. They tormented us in their own flawed, wanton love of each other. This is the telling of my parents' love storyâI shall try to write the truth of it the best I can. I'd like to be rid of it forever, because it's hunted me down like some foul-breathed hyena since childhood.
My childhood taught me everything I needed to know about the dangers of love. Love came in many disguises, masquerades, rigged card tricks, and sleights of hand that could either overwhelm or tame you. It was a country bristling with fishhooks hung at eye level, mantraps, and poisoned baits. It could hurl toward you at breakneck speed or let you dangle over a web spun by a brown recluse spider. When love announced itself, I learned to duck to avoid the telegraphed backhand or the blown kiss from my mother's fragrant hand. Havoc took up residence in me at a young age. Violence became a whorl in my DNA. I was the oldest of seven children; five of us would try to kill ourselves before the age of forty. My brother Tom would succeed in a most spectacular fashion. Love came to us veiled in disturbanceâwe had to learn it the hard way, cutting away the spoilage like bruises on a pear.
It took a world war to arrange my parents' accidental meeting on Atlanta's Peachtree Street in 1943. Don Conroy was a hall-of-fame basketball player at St. Ambrose College in Iowa when he heard about the Japanese attack on Pearl Harbor. He left the gym that day, walked down to the recruiting office in Davenport, and joined the Marine Corps. He learned to fly at the Naval Air Station Great Lakes. After practicing a series of aerial acrobatics over Lake Michigan one day, he returned to his squadron and announced, “I was better than the Great Santini today.” It earned him his first and only nickname among these fighter pilots, who would compose his circle of fierce brotherhood. These pilots could kill you and do it fast. The original Great Santini had been a charismatic trapeze artist who performed in a circus act my father had seen as a boy. In his death-defying somersaults, the Great Santini had seemed fearless and all-powerfulâwith a touch of immortality in his uncanny flairâas he vaulted through the air on a hot Chicago night, always working without a net.
I hated my father long before I knew there was a word for hate. My mother would later claim that I refused to learn the word “Daddy” until after my first birthday. From the start he was a menacing, hovering presence, and I never felt safe for one moment that my father loomed over me. I don't think it occurred to him that loving his children might be part of his job description. He could have written a manual on the art of waging war against his wife and children. I can't remember a house I lived in as a child where he did not beat my mother or me or my brothers; nor do I believe that he would've noticed if both his daughters had run away from home. My mother raised me, the oldest child, to be the protector of her other kids, to rush them into secret hiding places we had scouted whenever we moved into a new house. We learned to hide our shame in the madness of our day-to-day lives so that the nuns and priests who ran our parishes everywhere we went considered us an exemplary Catholic family.
Sometimes on the long car trips we spent rotating between Southern air bases, my father would tell the romantic story of his chance encounter with Peggy Peek as she drifted out of Davison's department store on Peachtree Street. He said, “I was in Atlanta getting some extra training before they shipped me out to the Philippines. I asked a barber where I could hunt up some broads and he told me the best place was down on Peachtree, right in the middle of the city. So I hopped a bus and got off and started walking around, sort of scouting the place out. Then your mother came out of a store in a red dress, carrying some shopping bags. Man, what a package. What a figure. I mean, this was one fine-looking Southern girl. So I followed her across the street. She was walking with two other girls. They were sisters, but I didn't know that then. I started up a conversation with her. You know. Showed her some suave moves of a Chicago boy. Told her I was a pilotâgetting ready to go to war. Back then, it was always a sure pickup line with the broads. But I couldn't get your mother or her sisters to even talk to me. I mean, talk about three cold fish! But they'd never met a Chicago boy, especially one as charming as me. So I kept going, ratcheting up the pressure, throwing out my best lines. I told Peg I was heading off to war, would probably be dead in a month or two, but was willing to die for my country, and wanted to live long enough to bomb Tokyo. Then I saw a bus coming up to the stop and watched in panic as your mother and her sisters got on. No air-conditioning back then, so all the windows were raised. Jesus Christ, I was starting to panic. Your mother sat by the window. So I started begging, begging, which I'm not ashamed to admit. I begged her for an address, a telephone number, the name of her father, anything. We could go dancing, to a movie, maybe make out a little bit.
