The Bed Moved (6 page)

THE POT GROWER WAS BROKE.
I paid for everything. We went to a restaurant funded by someone else's pot money that served only the kind of food you'd eat when you had the munchies—hamburgers wrapped in mango, zucchini pop tarts. It was hard to date a grower without money. Something had happened to his crop, something dumb. It had to do with his ex-girlfriend, an older woman who threw eggs at his car while we were eating in the munchie restaurant. When we came out, the car said “Faggot” in ChapStick and he was like, “I'm surprised she would write that. She has so many gay friends.”

The car also said “Douche bag.”

I had never really dated anyone. Sometimes I wondered if a pot grower was the place to start. A lot of his sentences began, “When I had money,” and ended with guitars I'd never heard of. We drove back to his grow house with egg dripping off the side of the car, then fucked in an Aeron chair he'd bought when he had money.

Afterward he disappeared behind a duct-taped curtain to tend the plants that would make new guitars possible. I walked around his block, which looked like suburbia as imagined by stoners who had dropped out of college. It was. They had. The college was in the center of town and the dropouts thrived around it, growing richer than if they had finished. My dropout had become an exception to this rule. The growers grew vegetables, too—rhubarb, kale. I looked for the ex-girlfriend's house. She could be anywhere, seething with misplaced homophobia, cradling intact eggs.

The whole town smelled like pot. Why was he broke? There was weed in his freezer. There was weed in ceramic frogs on his desk. When I tried to smoke a bowl with even a tiny bit of ash in it, he would refill the bowl immediately.

“I want you to smoke fresh,” he said.

He propped up my neck with pillows when my neck hurt. He propped up my crotch with pillows to enter me at pillow-propped angles. He seemed neither faggot nor douche bag, but more like a man with a lot of pillows.

The ChapStick wouldn't come off the windshield. The grower scrubbed and scrubbed. We were taking a road trip to a naked hot spring, but he kept pulling over at gas stations and using the squeegee on “Faggot.” I blamed his Catholicism, his upbringing. Hippies always had parents.

“It's off, for Christ's sake,” I said. I hoped Christ would help. In my religion, he wasn't the son of God. “Just a man,” they told us. He was just a man.

“Roll me one,” said the grower.

“While you're driving?”

I wasn't from California, so a lot of this was new to me, the pot culture, the nudity without shame. I liked being stoned and naked with this man, but being sober and clothed was more challenging. We had met the previous summer, felt each other up during a sing-along, and decided through emoticon-heavy negotiations that I would fly across the country so we could spend a week together. I sent pictures of myself in a bikini, chaste for our era, but I had a thing about keeping my actual boobs a surprise. He sent pictures of himself playing mandolin in a new band, chubbier than I remembered, his hair in pigtail buns and braids, hair I was excited to overlook in order to like him.

“It doesn't have to be a big deal” was my mantra, or what my friends gave me as a mantra, or what the culture gave us as a mantra, the culture of managing your mantras.

“You can just have fun.”

“It can just be for fun.”

“It will be really fun.”

Was it fun? I learned a lot about his recent struggles as a bluegrass musician. I learned that the bluegrass community was not as big as it was years ago, when that movie with the bluegrass sound track came out.

“It was pretty influential,” he said. “Now everything is computers.”

Former bandmates had turned to electronica, left the area, died.

“After Dano had the accident, Rob sold all his instruments and headed to Hawaii,” he said, reviving a conversation we'd already had several times at his house. I thought of it as the “I'm mad at Dano for dying in a car crash and breaking up the band but I can't admit it so I'll resent Rob instead” loop. I guess he thought we'd try the conversation in the car. I still had no idea how to respond, except to say it was a shame to lose someone so young. Then he said his new band had stronger musicians anyway and put on their CD. The new band sounded just like the old band. All bluegrass sounded the same to me.

“None of us knew if Turkey Flower would stay together, but for Rob to just go…” The grower looked at the road, baked out of his mind, trying to understand.

I could have probed the Dano anger, but I didn't want to talk about Dano either. I had enough of my own grief. I couldn't make room for a twenty-four-year-old grower who had bashed his van into a traffic median. Dano had played everything I asked for at the sing-along. He had been cheating on his girlfriend, who was now his widow. Rob had gone to bed early the night we all sang together, resting up for his big betrayal.

“At least you have a fun job,” I said. “I just tutor dyslexic teens for standardized tests.”

“The way my business is, it's not going to last,” he said. “We're in a sweet spot right now with the medical permits.”

Cigarette companies were already buying up the land we were speeding past for the day pot became legal.

“To put the little guy out of business,” he said. “I guess I'm the little guy.”

He was a big guy, with a vengeful ex-girlfriend, in a hundred fifty dollars debt to me. The hot spring would cost twenty-five each for day use. But we had to do things. Otherwise, it wasn't an experience. It was just sitting in his house.

“I understand why Gretchen's mad,” he said, eyeing a vague smear on the windshield. “She's not a bad person. She could be really sweet.”

“I haven't had a chance to see that side of her,” I said.

I hadn't really dated anyone, but I had also not really dated everyone. Without a Gretchen of my own, I began to tell him about the other men. I made them seem like SAT words—this one had been impetuous, that one reclusive. My hope was to stir the pot grower to greater vocab scores.

“What a fool,” he offered. “That guy sounds like a jerk.”

“I don't know why I'm telling you about him. He was nothing. He's engaged.”

We pulled into a wooded lot and parked next a bulletin board that said “We Are a Clothing Optional Resort.” The springs steamed behind wet steps. Kiosk notices alerted us to internecine management conflicts, meditation workshops, the healing power of lithium. Women walked by with breasts that left you feeling conflicted. Testicles dangled. I had never even been to a hot spring with bathing suits. The grower went to the bathroom while I purchased day passes with my SAT earnings.

“It's explained in the guidebook, but these are holy waters,” said the guy at the front desk. He had a half-shaved head and a T-shirt that said “Question Male Privilege.” He handed me a guidebook as thick as a course packet. “So we prefer you not speak, eat, or engage in sexual congress. No passion in the pools.”

We undressed in the locker room. A man rocked a woman gently in the water. A sign reminded us to be silent at all times. Sexual activity was not permitted, but the attempts to hide it were worse.

The grower and I began communicating in hot spring sign language.

Over there. I'm going over there.

Okay. I'm staying here.

His hair was longer wet.

You look like Jesus,
I signed, pointing to his hair and making the sign of the cross.

He got it, smiled, gave me a wet hug. This was what it was for, dating. Wet hugs. Jesus jokes. I needed this. I would get high and have this.

I was paying for it. The weed he gave me started to even things out, but I estimated that we had only smoked a hot spring's day pass worth of weed so far.

Smoke?
I mimed. I lit an imaginary bubbler.

A woman put her finger to her lips, though we were not talking. Maybe the Original Mantra was “Shush.” I judged her breasts as revenge, but they weren't bad by naked hot spring standards. In the southern part of the state, bodies were tanned and injected to perfection, but here in the north, where we bathed, bodies relaxed and gave in to an idea of perfect acceptance. Signs advertised workshops to reclaim powers long forgotten. People banged drums in the parking lot, unlocked childhood trauma in sacral tissue, painted their penises with raspberries.

I checked out his penis—not hard. This was also what dating was for, to see the penis at rest. It rested out of politeness to the naked strangers, so as not to disturb their patented water massage techniques, or maybe it rested out of guilt. I didn't understand the mechanism of control behind the penis, though I respected it. I didn't understand the mechanism of control behind Catholicism either, or behind any of the Eastern religions represented in the hot spring course packet.

We found a clearing in the woods, known around here as the Garden of Peace. He produced a bubbler from its velveteen satchel. We smoked under a Navajo quote. “Thoughts are like arrows: once released, they strike their mark.”

“More like Garden of Cultural Appropriation,” I said. This was one of the phrases you got to keep if you had not dropped out of college.

“Cultural appropriation,” he said. He tasted it on his tongue, added it to his worldview. We were sitting on a rock naked. I felt like a tutor with a promising student at the beginning of time.

“A lot of those Native quotes are made up,” he said.

“Everything's made up,” I said.

He edged closer to me on the rock. This was my favorite kind of sex, sex based on being impressed. We kissed like we'd been kissing for days, like it was important, like something bad would happen if we stopped.

He lifted a condom out of the velveteen satchel. I checked the label to see if it was flavored. He'd bought a variety pack by accident and some of the condoms smelled like strawberries. Even high, I refused to accept a flavor in my vagina. A condom should be condom flavored, not try to appropriate fruit. Things should be what they were. But what were they?

“It's coconut.”

“That's not okay.”

He looked for another one, then dumped out the whole satchel. Soon we were surrounded by condoms, the ones that stimulated, the ones that delayed stimulation. One, suspiciously, promised “a swirl.”

“I'll just blow you,” I said.

I fell back on the blow job when flummoxed. The guys I hadn't really dated hadn't really minded, but this guy, this grower, he wanted to connect. He wanted eye contact, he wanted smiles.

“This is nice,” I kept saying.

Like a hooker, eye contact and hand-holding had become a bigger deal to me than sex itself. Except I wasn't paid not to have feelings. I had broken my own spirit for free.

“Look at me,” he said, while I was sucking him. Had Gretchen maintained eye contact throughout? Were two and a half years of fellatio eye contact the reason he had left her in charge of his crop at a crucial moment during the weed harvest while he went on tour in central Oregon with his bluegrass duo?

I looked at him. But there was someone coming up behind him. The guy from the front desk ducked under a dream catcher and grabbed my grower's shoulder. I pulled my mouth off the penis like I had tasted something lychee flavored. I couldn't stop being naked, so I laid one arm across my breasts and fanned the other hand over my crotch.

“The guidelines were clearly stated at the front desk,” he said. “I'm sorry, man, but you and your lady friend are going to have to leave the Garden of Peace.”

“We're very sorry, sir,” I said. “Would you mind if we still used the tubs?”

I made eye contact with the guy from the front desk. Suddenly I was good at eye contact. Something was bubbling up in me, my upbringing. We had paid for day use. I had never been kicked out of anything. The guy from the front desk had only the authority of being the lone clothed person here.

After Adam and Eve were kicked out of the garden, could they still use the tubs? Biblical scholars were divided.

“We'll be good,” I said, trying to stick out my tits while keeping them covered.

“I can't know that,” said God. He had seen a lot of tits.

“We paid for day use, sir,” I said. “
I
paid.”

I was trying a new biblical approach—Eve with earning power, Eve without shame. Now Adam (formerly Jesus) stood, newly flaccid, walked away from the rock, and began flipping over Tibetan prayer flags on a string at the edge of the garden. He was either too stoned to be embarrassed or was so embarrassed that he was pretending to be extremely stoned.

“Alright, I have to get back to the front desk.” Our interloper ran his fingers through the side of his head that still had hair. “The tubs are open for another half hour, so please be mindful of the other bathers.”

God left us in the Garden of Cultural Appropriation.

“We get to stay!” I said. “In general!”

“I'm going to pay you back,” said the grower. He was putting the pipe away. He was gathering Trojans.

I waved my hand as though money was no object. I wanted to stay in general.

“As soon as Rob gets back from Hawaii,” he said. “I'll be able to get it to you then.”

“What does this have to do with Rob?”

“He owes me three thousand dollars.”

“Jesus. You lent him that much? What's he doing there?”

“He's apprenticing with craftsmen who make ukuleles.”

“No doubt he'll have the money, then,” I said. “Maybe when Rob gets back, he can tell us whether tropical-fruit-flavored condoms are big in Hawaii.”

The grower muttered something about the variety pack being on sale.

Had I been brought up to be a jerk? Now I had a new number in my head, the amount owed me as a percentage of what Rob owed. It could be an SAT question. The thought stayed in my head as we dipped back into a pool with wrinkle-tanned old people in excellent health. Be us, their bodies seemed to say. Our penises only work intermittently, but our hearts are full.