The Energy of Words: Use the Vibration of Language to Manifest the Life You Desire (30 page)

Positive: endurance, progress, foundation, practical, bal-

anced, organization, solid, stable, and loyal.

Negative: materialistic, impatient, addictive, instant grat-

ification, and self-absorbed.

Hopeless (9)

Meaning:
“Hopeless” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is re-

sponsible for all the incredible achievements seen in the

previous century; everyone born between 1889 and 1999

had at least one 9 in their date of birth. In the negative,

the 9 sees things in black and white. With this mindset,

things can seem impossible or hopeless; “It’s hopeless. I

don’t think I’ll ever get in.” In the positive, the 9 is ambi-

tious to change the impossible or the hopeless into ideal-

istic potential; “She’s not a hopeless case. I can see the

glimmer in her eye and that’s enough for me to believe.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

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Horrible (6)

Meaning:
“Horrible” vibrates to the 6, the number of creativity, the nurturer, and the visionary. The judgmental

and critical energies of the negative 6 make “horrible” a

harsh and over-the-top label; “She’s just a horrible, horri-

ble person!” In the positive, the balanced, optimistic, and

greater vision energy of the 6 allows for more flexibility

and possibility; “I have a feeling she’s not as horrible as

she seems.”

Positive: creative visionary, certainty, balanced, nurtur-

ing, peace-making, optimistic, and forward-thinking.

Negative: pessimistic, judgmental, critical, worry-wart,

people-pleasing, doubtful, and gossipy.

Hurt (4)

Meaning:
“Hurt” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. With the loyal 4

as the base vibration, “hurt” is offended or wounded en-

ergy in the negative, playing the role of victim; “I’m

hurt that she would leave me out.” In the positive,

“hurt” shows the enduring, progressive, and balanced

side of the 4; “He hurt me deeply, but I’m not going to

let it stop me from loving again.”

Positive: endurance, progress, foundation, practical, bal-

anced, organization, solid, stable, and loyal.

Negative: materialistic, impatient, addictive, instant grat-

ification, and self-absorbed.

260 Top Positive and Negative Words

Ignorant (8)

Meaning:
“Ignorant” vibrates to the 8, the number of wisdom, independence, confidence, and manifestation. As

the most active soul-plane number, 8 has a direct link to

the spiritual realm, creating a sense of wholeness and

completeness. In the negative, the 8 is bossy, selfish, and

attention-seeking, fitting with the word “ignorant”;

“Can you believe how ignorant he was to her? He’s so

self-centered!” Even in the positive, “ignorant” can have

an overtone of selfishness as the number of wisdom can

make 8 seem like a bit of a know-it-all who is occasion-

ally wrong; “I’m sorry if I came across as ignorant. I

jumped to conclusions.”

Positive: wise, confident, assertive, independent, mani-

festing, assured, and loving.

Negative: detached, selfish, greedy, dominating, bossy,

and attention-seeking.

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Impossible (2)

Meaning:
“Impossible” vibrates to the 2, the number of intuition, sensitivity, cooperation, and dualistic energy. In

the negative, the dualistic energy of the 2 creates a sepa-

ration between what you want to do and what you be-

lieve you can do; “My boss is impossible to deal with; I

give up trying to get through to him.” Where 1 is the

isolated stand-alone number, the double 1 make the

number 2, which is a pair or team. In the positive, the in-

tuitive, harmony-seeking, and cooperative 2 stresses

nothing is impossible if you work together; “It’s not im-

possible if you allow me to help you.”

Positive: balance, cooperation, sensitive, intuitive, sup-

portive, and harmonious.

Negative: contrast, codependent, uncertain, submissive,

passive, and hypersensitive.

Incomplete (4)

Meaning:
“Incomplete” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. The negative 4

tends to lose momentum easily, being the impatient,

self-absorbed, and instant gratification-seeking number. In-

complete goals are common with the negative 4 energy;

“My book is still incomplete. I’ve been picking away at it for years, but can never manage to finish it.” In the positive, the enduring, progressive, balanced, and organized 4 doesn’t

leave much of anything incomplete. “I don’t want to see

this project remain incomplete and collecting dust. It’s a

much-needed concept.”

Positive: endurance, progress, foundation, practical, bal-

anced, organization, solid, stable, and loyal.

Negative: materialistic, impatient, addictive, instant grat-

ification, and self-absorbed.

262 Top Positive and Negative Words

Indecisive (9)

Meaning:
“Indecisive” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is responsi-

ble for all the incredible achievements seen in the previous

century; everyone born between 1889 and 1999 had at

least one 9 in their date of birth. The 9 is the most active

mental number, the highest change vibration, and consid-

ered the “big dreamer.” In the negative, “indecisive” is fo-

cused through the idealism of 9, but from a critical and

narrow-minded perspective. Instead of the open, big-

dreamer energy, uncertainty is formed from the black-

and-white vantage point; “I just don’t know what the

right answer is, I’m so indecisive.” In the positive, “indeci-

sive” turns humanitarian and less closed-minded, creating

hesitancy only because you want to do the right thing for

all involved; “I’m indecisive about taking the job that re-

quires extra travel because I want what’s best for the

whole family.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

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Inferior (8)

Meaning:
“Inferior” vibrates to the 8, the number of wisdom, independence, confidence, and manifestation. As

the most active soul-plane number, 8 has a direct link to

the spiritual realm, creating a sense of wholeness and

completeness. In the negative, the 8 can feel inferior. Even

though it is the number of wisdom, it has lost sight of the

innate wisdom it carries; “I secretly think I’m inferior to

the other scientists on the team because I came from a

family of high-school dropouts.” In the positive, the wise

8 knows better and “inferior” is nothing more than a fleet-

ing moment of negativity; “He tried to make me feel infe-

rior but I could see it was his own insecurities shining

through his words.”

Positive: wise, confident, assertive, independent, mani-

festing, assured, and loving.

Negative: detached, selfish, greedy, dominating, bossy,

and attention-seeking.

264 Top Positive and Negative Words

Insecure (4)

Meaning:
“Insecure” vibrates to the 4, the solid, stable, practical, and balanced foundation number. In the negative, the 4 lacks the stability and balanced energy it uses

to be the grounded foundation number. The 4 can be in-

secure when working through the negative traits of im-

patience, materialism, and self-absorption; “I’m so

insecure around the popular girls. They’ll never accept

me—ever.” In the positive, the enduring, stable, and pro-

gressive 4 takes strides to move past the moments of in-

security; “I’m insecure around Ted because he’s so

competitive, but I can’t let that ruin our friendship.”

Positive: endurance, progress, foundation, practical, bal-

anced, organization, solid, stable, and loyal.

Negative: materialistic, impatient, addictive, instant grat-

ification, and self-absorbed.

Top Positive and Negative Words 265

Jealous (2)

Meaning:
“Jealous” vibrates to the 2, the number of intuition, sensitivity, cooperation, and dualistic energy. In the

negative, the dualistic energy of the 2 creates a perceived

separation between
you and the cause of your jealousy;

“I’m so jealous of my sister’s relationship with Dad. We’ll

never be that close.” In the positive, the supportive and

cooperative 2 does not seek out the spotlight or demand

attention in the same way as the separated 2 in the nega-

tive; “I know I shouldn’t be jealous of her achievements.

My path is different and I have my own achievements to

reach.”

Positive: balance, cooperation, sensitive, intuitive, sup-

portive, and harmonious.

Negative: contrast, codependent, uncertain, submissive,

passive, and hypersensitive.

266 Top Positive and Negative Words

Judge (2)

Meaning:
“Judge” vibrates to the 2, the number of intuition, sensitivity, cooperation, and dualistic energy. In

the negative, the dualistic energy of the 2 creates a per-

ceived separation between you and
whatever you judge;

“I don’t want to judge her too quickly, but she makes it

pretty clear she doesn’t like us.” In the positive, the bal-

anced, cooperative, and supportive 2, the number of in-

tuition, sees less of a separation, creating a softened

stance on “judge”; “I’m going to hold my judgment

until I meet her in person. I’m sure she’s different off

camera.”

Positive: balance, cooperation, sensitive, intuitive, sup-

portive, and harmonious.

Negative: contrast, codependent, uncertain, submissive,

passive, and hypersensitive.

Top Positive and Negative Words 267

Lack (9)

Meaning:
“Lack” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is responsi-

ble for all the incredible achievements seen in the

previous century; everyone born between 1889 and 1999

had at least one 9 in their date of birth. The 9 is the most

active mental number, the highest change vibration, and

considered the “big dreamer.” In the negative, “lack” is

cloaked with the judgmental and critical side of the 9; “I

lack the support I need to do this right.” In the positive,

the ambitious and idealistic energies of the 9 step up to

the plate, turning “lack” into a tool or motivating factor

to move forward; “I may lack the know-how but not the

drive to learn.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

268 Top Positive and Negative Words

Limit (9)

Meaning:
“Limit” vibrates to the 9, the ambitious, idealistic, responsible humanitarian number. The 9 is responsi-

ble for all the incredible achievements seen in the

previous century; everyone born between 1889 and 1999

had at least one 9 in their date of birth. The 9 is the most

active mental number, the highest change vibration, and

considered the “big dreamer.” As the opinionated and

critical negative 9, placing a limit on anything is com-

mon; “I’ve got to limit my time with her; she’s a bad in-

fluence.” In the positive, the idealistic, ambitious

humanitarian sees a limit as a challenge to overcome;

“There is no limit on the things you can achieve if you

set your mind to it.”

Positive: humanitarian, ambitious, responsible, jus-

tice-seeking, idealistic, and unselfish.

Negative: driven, opinionated, judgmental, critical, black

and white, and narrow-minded.

Top Positive and Negative Words 269

Lost (3)

Meaning:
“Lost” vibrates to the 3, the intellectual number of imagination, memory, and inspiration. The 3 also

represents unity or coming together. In the negative, the

self-doubting and self-critical 3 makes it easy to feel lost

in ways big or small; “I’m lost. This new math concept is

way over my head.” In the positive, the intelligent and

inspirational will infuse optimism into “lost”; “All is not

lost. You’ll get it, I promise.”

Positive: analytical, intelligent, humorous, social, sensi-

tive, observant, unity, and inspirational.

Negative: critical, vain, grandeur, self-doubting, self-criti-

cal, overanalyzing, and indecisive.

Maybe (1)

Meaning:
“Maybe” vibrates to the number 1, with the isolated pioneer, new beginnings, and trailblazing energy.

The 1 is the only number not divisible by any other