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a number of therapeutic approaches rooted in cognitive behavioral therapy:
See Frank Tallis, “Crazy for You,”
The Psychologist
18, February 2005, 74.

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After the treatment, glucose metabolism in that area decreased, along with the symptoms:
See Jeffrey M. Schwartz, “First Steps Toward a Theory of Mental Force: PET Imaging of Systematic Cerebral Changes After Psychological Treatment of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder” in
Towards a Science of Consciousness III: The Third Tucson Discussions and Debates
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You Are Not Your Brain: The 4-Step Solution for Changing Bad Habits, Ending Unhealthy Thinking, and Taking Control of Your Life
(New York: Penguin, 2011), details for a popular audience his program for coping with “deceptive brain messages,” which he defines as “any
false or inaccurate
thought or any
unhelpful or distracting
impulse, urge, or desire that takes you away from your true goals and intentions in life (i.e., your true self).”

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“All that was once so beautiful is dead”:
Conrad Aiken, “Discordants,”
Turns and Moves and Other Tales in Verse
(New York: Houghton Mifflin, 1916), 24.

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nearly half of all convicted stalkers overall reoffend:
The study describes the application of a six-month treatment program to a sample of twenty-nine individuals, fourteen of whom completed treatment. Treated offenders were significantly less likely to reoffend with another stalking offense (zero of fourteen) compared to treatment dropouts (26.7 percent) or to published recidivism data (47 percent). Barry Rosenfeld, Michele Galietta, Andre Ivanoff et al, “Dialectical Behavior Therapy for the Treatment of Stalking Offenders,”
International Journal of Forensic Mental Health
6 (2007): 95.

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the same pharmacological treatments for addiction might apply to people suffering from the loss of love:
Caroline M. Hostetler and Andrey E. Ryabinin, “Love and Addiction: The Devil Is in the Differences: A Commentary on ‘The Behavioral, Anatomical and Pharmacological Parallels Between Social Attachment, Love and Addiction,”
Psychopharmacology
224 (2012): 27–29.

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