because they're afraid of breast cancer. Or they may try it but dislike the side effects, the breakthrough bleeding, the tender breasts, the moodiness, aqueousness, nausea, the pimples symptoms so reminiscent of the premenstruum. Many women simply resent the implication that menopause is a disease, and they express their resistance by tossing their pills in a drawer and forgetting the whole business. Women in their fifties often feel quite fit. They remember when women were considered unsuitable for higher office because of their fluctuating hormones, and when women had to quit a job the moment they became pregnant. Enough is enough; enough queasiness over the female body. Must a woman go to her grave with a speculum chained to her thigh? Menopause is an event, just as menarche was, a female rite. Their mothers and grandmothers went through menopause, their friends go through menopause. It happens to everyone. Women can't help but feel that menopause is natural. They say as much to their doctors menopause is natural. It's meant to be, it's what the body does, and why shouldn't I be pleased with, or at least tolerant of, what my body brings me?
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Doctors have responded badly to this interpretation of menopause, this self-satisfied talk. They're faced with a challenge. If they're going to persuade large numbers of healthy women to take hormone replacement, they must dispel the notion of the good and natural menopause. They must raise the specter of infirmity, a weakening heart, a crumbling frame, an enfeebled mind. They contrast a woman's spectacular loss of ovarian estrogen with a man's far more gradual tapering of testoster-one levels: he ages gracefully, you age overnight. They describe menopause as a state of "estrogen deficiency," comparing it to endocrine disorders such as hypothyroidism and diabetes. Just as a diabetic should be treated with insulin, so an estrogen-deficient woman should be treated with HRT, and any woman past fifty is almost by definition estrogen-deficient. Even women who are still menstruating may be estrogen-deficient, may be "perimenopausal," as the melodious little phrase has it, and candidates for hormone therapy. If a woman asks why it might be that all women lapse into this precarious state of hormone deficit in midlife and why nature has not better equipped them for their sovereign years, a doctor will reply, If it were up to nature, we wouldn't be having this conversation and I wouldn't be writing this prescription. A long life is good, it is desirable, it is a tribute to human ingenuity and
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