All About Love: Anatomy of an Unruly Emotion (60 page)

de Maintenon, Madame

de Necker, Madame

de Pompadour, Madame

de Rougemont, Denis,
Love in the Western World

de Scudéry, Madeleine,
Clélie

de Staël, Madame

de Tocqueville, Alexis

de Troyes, Marie

death

adultery and

in childbirth

lost love and

Defoe, Daniel

d’Épinay, Madame

depression (illness)

Derrida, Jacques

Deutsch, Helene

divorce

children and

in France

in history

in later life

no-fault

statistics

in USA

Don Giovanni
(Mozart opera)

Donne, John

double standards, sexual
see
hypocrisy/double standards, sexual

Douglas, Michael

Drabble, Margaret,
The Millstone

du Barry, Madame

du Châtelet, Marquise

Duckworth, Gerald

Dunn, Nell

Durrell, Lawrence,
Alexandria Quartet

Dylan, Bob

eating disorders

education

sex education

Edwardian era

Egerton, Sir Thomas

Egypt, Ancient

Eichenbaum, Luise

Eleanor of Aquitaine, Queen

Eliot, George

Middlemarch

Eliot, T.S., ‘Burnt Norton’

Emerson, Frank Waldo

Emerson, Ralph Waldo

Engels, Friedrich

the Enlightenment

entitlement, sense of

envy

hate and

jealousy and

epigenetics

equality issues

in history

marriage and

men and

women and

workplace and

Eros

the erotic

danger and

de Beauvoir on

emotional pain and

as key to good life

see also
sexual desire and sexuality

Esquirol, Jean-Étienne

Every Woman’s Book of Love and Marriage and Family Life

evolutionary thinking and Darwinism

evolutionary biologists/psychologists

excess, sexual

‘eye-gazing parties’

Facebook

fairy tales

families

changing nature of

Christianity and

economic forces and

feudal networks

first boy/girlfriends of children and

‘honour killings’

idealized (1950s)

importance of

intensity of

in literature

moving away/escape from

in mythology

patriarchal model

shaping trajectory of

size of

step-families

traditional

traditionalist views of

Victorian era

see also
childhood; fathers; mothers; parents; siblings

fantasies, sexual

Farquhar, George,
The Stage Coach

Fascism

Fatal Attraction
(film)

Father Knows Best
(television series)

fathers

changing role of

daughters and

displacement of

hands-on parenting

jealousy of baby

in literature

from little girl’s perspective

in Mediterranean cultures

in mythology

sharing of mother with

sons and

as symbolic law-giver

traditional role

feminism and women’s movement

Ferenczi, Sándor

Ferguson, Adam

fidelity

see also
adultery; infidelity

first love

attempts to repeat

coup de foudre
and

face of the beloved

hurdles and misunderstandings

intensity of

the internet and

lost love and

marriage and

narratives of

as original template

shaped by infancy experiences

singularity of desired one

transgression and

Fitzgerald, F. Scott

The Great Gatsby

Fitzgerald, Zelda

Flaubert

Madame Bovary

Fonagy, Peter

Forster, E.M.

Howards End

Maurice

Where Angels Fear to Tread

Four Weddings and a Funeral
(film)

France

belle époque

Catholic Church in

declining birth rate (1880-1920)

divorce in

Enlightenment salons

French Revolution

infidelity in

marriage in

the
précieuses

sexual double standards in

Third Republic

Fraser, Antonia,
Must You Go?

free love

French language

Freud, Anna

Freud, Sigmund

on ambivalence of passion

Beyond the Pleasure Principle

on child’s sexual enlightenment

‘“Civilized” Sexual Morality and Modern Nervous Illness’

‘Contributions to the Psychology of Love’

Delusions and Dreams in Jensen’s Gradiva

the father and

friendship and

infant’s development and

The Interpretation of Dreams

on jealousy

marriage of

obstacles to love and

‘oceanic feeling’

Oedipal template

patriarchal culture and

‘psychical impotence’ concept

repressive sexual mores and

on secrecy

sexual choice and

sexual double standards and

on sexual honesty

on sibling relations

superego concept

‘The Taboo of Virginity’

Friends
(television series)

Friends Reunited

friendship

‘Boston marriages’

capitalism and

Cavell on

in childhood/adolescence

Christianity and

classical ideal of

definition of

the Enlightenment and

female

humanist ideal

imaginary friends

importance of

in literature

Montaigne and

philosophy and

political regimes and

psychology and

Romantic movement and

in Shakespeare

virtual networks and

as women’s sphere

Futurism

Gaiman, Neil

Gainsborough, Thomas

Gatternigg, Hedwig Verena

gender identity

Gerhardt, Sue,
Why Love Matters

Gertler, Mark

Gilbert, Elizabeth,
Eat, Pray, Love

la giovinezza
(youth movement)

Gladstone, William

Glorious Revolution