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DVDs

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Dodson, Betty (2006). Orgasmic Women: Thirteen Self-Loving Divas (90 min).

A wide range of brave, real ladies (notporn stars) show exactly how they masturbate, with guidance from famed sex educator, Dr. Betty Dodson.

Kramer, Joseph (2007). Anal Massage for Relaxation and Pleasure (160 min).

The most comprehensive guide available. Experts demonstrate every imaginable type ofanal touch on a variety ofhappy recipients.

Taormino, Tristan (2008). Expert Guide to the G-Spot (120 min). Sundahl, Deborah (2008). Female Ejaculation: The Workshop (90 min).

These are both excellent guides to the G-spot and female ejaculation.

Shar Rednour, director. Bend Over Boyfriend (60 min) and Bend Over Boyfriend 2 (80 min).

Starring sex educator Carol Queen and others, this was the first video depiction of a woman using a strap-on dildo to give anal intercourse to a man. She brought the word pegging" into popular parlence for this activity. BOB 2 expands upon the orginal concept with a variety of couples pegging themselves silly.

Sinclair Intimacy Institute (2003). The Better Sex Guide to Anal Pleasure (60 min).

As a number of hetersexual couples demonstrate and freely discuss their anal sex experinces, I'm the expert "talking head. "I also wrote the script. Sinclair offers DVDs on a variety of sexual pleasures, all nicely produced, and each combining good sex education with sexually explicit imagery.

WEBSITES

listed alphabetically within each category

GENERAL SEXUALITY

Female Anatomy from Right Health. www.righthealth.com/topic/ Female%20Anatomy

If you d like to learn more about the intricacies of female anatomy, this is a onestop portal for articles, books, blogs, illustrations, videos, and more. But if you hate ads, look elsewhere.

Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction. www. kinseyinstitute.org.

Started by the great sex research pioneer Alfred Kinsey, this center continues to conduct original research at a dizzying pace. Its archives are unriveled.

Planned Parenthood. www.plannedparenthood.org.

As expected, this is probably the top resource for exploring all birth control options, but its also loaded with additional info about STDs, sexual proactices, and much more.

Sex Smart Films: Promoting Sexual Literacy. www.sexsmartfilms.com.

A large collection ofsex-related films made over the past 70 years covering virtually every subject. Many are free, while others are inexpensive via pay-perview or subscription. Searching for the exact subject(s) you want is easy. A great resource for sex educators.

Sexuality Information and Education Council of the United States. www. siecus.org.

The best, most up-to-date source of information and research about effective sex education. The online newsletter is a `must"for those concerned about what works and what doesn't.

The World Professional Association for Transgender Health. www.wpath.org. WPATH, formerly known as the Harry Benjamin International Gender

Dysphoria Association, is a professional organization devoted to the understanding and treatment ofgender identity concerns. It offers a wide variety ofpublications and resources for trangendered people.

SEX Toys & SUPPLIES

Babes in Toyland. www.babeland.com.

Good Vibrations. www.goodvibes.com.

Xandria Collection. www.xandria.com.

These are all quality sites for browsing and buying sex toys, pleasure supplies of every imaginable type, plus books and DVDs.