When I read the story about Wiest, I was struck by his single-minded resolve, which reminded me of the focus and intensity I have come to associate with high levels of testosterone. His story prompted me to look for a connection between heroic altruism and testosterone. Years ago, when I began my research on testosterone, I was expecting to find selfishness and violence, and I did, but now I'm seeing generosity and altruism, too. Throughout this book I have presented a rather sorry view of men, especially men who are high in testosterone. They are often rough and callous, preoccupied with sex and dominance, and single-minded to the point of obsessiveness. Nevertheless, in the presence of strong social forces needed to civilize them and keep them out of trouble, men, in spite of their hormones, have the capacity to be thoughtful. They can stand out in goodness as well as badness; most work hard to support their families, and many, like Wiest, risk their lives to save the lives of others. David Gilmore, in studying different societies to write Manhood in the Making , was impressed with the selflessness of men and their willingness to give their lives for others. He said, "Real men give more than they take." 2 My research leads me to agree with him and draw the same conclusion about women: real women also give more than they take.
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I'm not the first researcher to begin a project expecting the worst of human nature, only to become pleasantly surprised. Carl Sagan and Ann Druyan began Shadows of Forgotten Ancestors 3 concerned that selfishness and violence might be dominant, but they ended up convinced that generosity and altruism held their own. In their book, they explored the evolutionary family tree and found evidence that both the altruistic and selfish sides of human nature have prehuman roots.
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In earlier chapters I visited the evolutionary family tree and described how the raw power of testosterone, an ancient and primitive hormone, interferes with success in modern life. This chapter is about how testosterone can transcend its origins and find a helpful role in civilized society. Altruism covers a wide range of behavior, from taking flowers to a friend to walking across a pool of hot slag to rescue an injured partner. It can be gentle or heroic, and there is evidence that testosterone plays a part especially in heroic altruism. The positive qualities associated with testosteronestrength and energy, focused attention, preference for action over thought, and a generally dominant mannercharacterize heroic altruists.
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