Readiness to fight and punish bullies is related to upbringing and to high levels of testosterone. Older fighters are like older trial lawyers; they rely on skills they acquired when they were younger and higher in testosterone. That seems to be the case with my friend David, a survivor of prostate cancer, the scourge of high-testosterone men. He's eighty years old, and he's been taking testosterone-lowering drugs for eleven years. The drugs make him more friendly and sociable than he used to be, but they didn't make him stop fighting.
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He was in his mid-seventies the last time he got into a fight. He was most likely to fight when somebody picked on someone he was close to, but sometimes he just liked to fight. His last fight was at a service station and pecan stand in Valdosta, Georgia. He filled up his car with gas and stayed by the pump waiting for his wife, who was buying pecans. The man behind him became impatient, shouted for David to move, and made an obscene gesture. Instead of moving, David challenged the man to fight. The man, who was middle-aged and overweight, wanted to fight, too. He got out of his car, took a swing at David, and missed. By the time the station owner and another customer stopped the fight, the man had swung and missed several times and David had knocked him down once. David's wife thwarted his efforts to arrange a rematch.
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David's wife points out that although retired professional men don't usually get into fights, David grew up in a rough neighborhood and came from a tough family. David's older brother was a union organizer, and his father was a federal agent during Prohibition. David also grew up with strong altruistic feelings and sided with the underdogs, so much so that when he was fifteen, he wanted to fight for democracy against Fascist bullies in the Spanish Civil War. He tried to convince his brother that they should join up and go to Spain with the Abraham Lincoln Brigade, but his brother talked him out of it. David got his chance to fight Fascist bullies in Italy during World War II, and he fondly remembers his wartime adventures, including the discomforts and the narrow escapes. Later, as a federal employee, his job took him south to deal with racial discrimination in housing.
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Audie Murphy, the war hero and actor mentioned in previous chapters, liked to fight. He was famous for loyalty to his men, and he repeatedly risked his life for them. Murphy was also famous for his ability to track down and kill enemy snipers. He killed 241 men in face-to-face
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