How to Become an Alpha Male For Today's Man (Learn How to Attract and Talk to Women) (8 page)

Of course there’s a question of what is appealing to this person or persons. Quickly you must define this person and determine what they're interest are and appeal to that alone. Create their dream and make it undeniable. Make sure you are able to prove you can deliver on what you promise. An alpha male should be able to deliver but shouldn’t do so easily. 

Also do not hold out too long but slowly give a taste of their fantasy to them little at a time, if your audience does not see anything beneficial in it for them then you will most likely lose more attention than you will gain.

Not only does the person have to have something beneficial, they also have to be able to obtain more than you in the end or think they have in order for you to gain their favor.

No worries for the alpha male because the end is just an illusion. More so a diversion from the big picture so whatever your agenda is, keep it hidden.

Just remember when applying something hopeful for your listener to believe in if it’s not in their best interest you will lose simply put.

An alpha male goes about installing dreams while speaking to his listener this way. You analyze her or them. You comb through your resources while simultaneously fabricating a beautiful and blissful story. Anything less than that and you will find yourself cut short of completing your pitch, speech, or conversation.

You will find that each and every lesson will be applied briefly in every initial introduction to someone new. It will become much more intense and detailed as the friendship build but in the same order, it will be the same pattern of lessons applied. So try to memorize them. This must be done to obtain a following and hold on to the image of power an alpha male possesses.

  
Lesson 15. Body Language

85% of communication is nonverbal. The trained eye is experienced in detecting your body language and will 90% of the time take physical words over your verbal words. You must learn the secret of coordinating your body language with your actual words, in doing so will make you unstoppable.

Most people do not realize their words don't agree with their physical movements. Body language signifies the underlying truth that has been hidden by our words. Our verbal communication is the second thing the trained eye pays attention to. The trained eye philosophy is believe only what you see not what you hear.

So for the most part the language of the body is telling the story for you and it is the only message that gets through to the trained individual.  An alpha male is also that trained individual as well as the master of the art. It is very difficult to lie under oath and not perspire, fidget, twitch, stutter, have repetitive thoughts and repeating words or have your blood pressure elevate. Unless you have been trained in this, then getting caught off guard can throw your movements and verbal expressions completely out of sync.

Have you ever noticed someone getting extra angry when being interrogated or questioned about something and they try their best to go overboard with emotion and or anger so that they can avoid answering, and when they finally answer to satisfy the interrogator they have to shout or yell to confirm their innocence. Or maybe their response is just the opposite they are too nonchalant and have no emotion behind what they are saying.

Chances are they are lying. Their body language does not agree with a completely innocent person. You will notice this person rehearse in their mind a thousand times and say the same thing over and over but in between those thousand rehearsals the mind adds something else on to the last story and they try to institute that addition not even aware they are now saying something slightly different from the first story.

This repetitive thought happens while trying to say something your mind doesn't agree with then the body admits the truth by those easy give away signs. Thinking too much is very noticeable. How many times have you questioned your significant other and they cannot look you in the eye. They turn the other way or pretend to be busy while they are answering.

They know that their eyes will tell the truth and cause their facial expressions to give them away. Body language is a separate dialect that you must train yourself in. The only people that have mastered this are your Hollywood stars, actors and actresses.

They train to cry on cue, look sentimental while saying I love you, square off and stare in each other’s eye while thinking of an awful memory all while other cast mates are distracting them, and they must not batter or blink but at the same time and on cue shed tears and make it believable.

This is taught. They are learning to perfect their body language. They have to be believable in order to receive rank and pay; this is serious because this determines their source of revenue. An alpha male must perfect this art and take this same training as serious as actors because they are playing a part that’s deeper than a movie it is real life there is no cut or do over.

Everything that an alpha male holds sacred to his image and reputation depends on him convincing an audience of his sincerity. It must be very difficult to pick you a part.

When you speak to your audience or whoever is granting you their precious time you must not lose even a second of their attention to doubt. This will lead to loss of trust. Make sure you speak and your facial expressions agree. When you move your mind follows. Do not follow your thoughts with words that your body does not follow up with. It all has to be on one accord in order for your conversation to be trustworthy.

This shows confidence, that confidence is detected and your listener will soon become your follower. Practice your facial expressions, your movements and speak while doing so. Try different methods, different emotions, different situations videotape yourself and critique your performance see if you can convince your own mind that your words and body language are in sync. It will pay off.

        
                      
Lesson 16. Hypnotism

The true raconteur must learn the basics of hypnotism. An alpha male is a step ahead of all the rest and must know and understand how to communicate with the mind of other’s to gain and maintain power. Basic hypnotism is a much needed tool. 

Covert hypnotism is the most powerful and effective lesson of conversation you can learn. Covert hypnotism is the art of hypnotizing someone during conversation and it works in this form. The master of this art is highly trained in communicating with your mind putting the listener in a subconscious state. He is engaged in a separate conversation with the listener’s unconscious mind where he creates a certain desire which in turn makes the listener very interested and willing to comply with his demands.

In this conversation he is more of a director. The listener, after it is all said and done may find him or herself wondering why did I do that or what was I thinking.  This is going on all around us.

There are many leaders in the world today who have instituted covert hypnotism and most don’t even know it. They have a following of people who will give large sums of money to them, deprive themselves of life’s necessities trust their very own children in their care without one question even kill for them and believe it to be the right thing to do.

They never question whether it’s right or wrong they just do it to please the person whom they have come to admire and respect. That person knows how to tap into their unconscious mind and keep them there until their particular needs are met.

If you choose to perfect and use this skill take into consideration the effect it can have on the person. This is your responsibility and your consequence so use it wisely.

An alpha male in regards to dating may use covert hypnotism in this way.  First your job is to ask questions get into the innermost thoughts of your listeners.

(Kevin Hogan’s Covert Hypnosis explains it in this way and I quote “The unconscious mind is where covert hypnosis is experienced. The unconscious mind is the storehouse of memory and emotion.” End Quote.)

After you receive your answers direct your next words according to their response. Get your listener to vision the image or life that may be conducive to your agenda.

Test the waters a bit by seeing how much this request means to them by soliciting a certain idea or move they would have to favor in order to make this particular vision a reality.

You will notice as an end result it will be easier to accomplish whatever you set out to accomplish by appealing to their unconscious mind rather than their conscious mind where everything that is directed there goes through an extensive amount of questioning. Once that happens usually all fallacies are noticed and you ultimately lose or take the lower hand.  As long as you can keep the unconscious mind entertained or occupied by something alluring then you will maintain control.

If they are acting to anyone’s benefit other than their own then they are in a hypnotic state whether temporarily or permanent whether it is for a good cause or bad. They say love is blind and it makes you do the craziest things.

The spirit or feeling or concept of love is an excellent hypnotist. An alpha male should know how to distribute carefully and correctly the concept of love. It can have a woman in a drunken stupor which will cause them or anyone to do things they may regret. So again I say use covert hypnotism at your own risk and understand this is a serious practice that could have a horrible consequence but used correctly can result in overwhelming success. I suggest further research and study in covert hypnotism before actually trying it.

            
Lesson 17. Conclusion

Knowing when to conclude your conversation and be satisfied is tricky. There is a perfect time for every perfect word. There also must be an end to all things as so the conversation. Make progress, leave an impression, and move on. Males who do not exercise this precept usually overdo it. Imagine a runner crossing the finish line and still continue to run full speed once the race is complete. Alpha males always close correctly and on time.

Just as it’s important to have a great introduction it is just as important to finish or conclude what you are doing in the same manner. The exit and the way you execute it weighs more on leaving a good impression than your introduction.

Everything has a start and finish in life. The more important goal is to finish well. You can have a rough and awkward start but if your finish is smooth it will erase your past mistakes. It doesn’t work the other way around. If you start excellent and capture your listener’s attention but you completely turn this person off when you finish everything you have said or done prior to will be null and void.