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A twenty-six-year-old woman wrote:

I like sitting on top, then moving to missionary position. Missionary allows deeper penetration and a feeling of closeness
you don’t get from other positions. In addition, I like looking at my partner’s face during sex. I will also admit that I’m
kind of lazy sometimes, and missionary means I don’t have to do as much work.

A thirty-one-year-old man wrote:

I really enjoy when she is standing in front of me, facing away, and bends over to grab her ankles as I enter her vaginally
from behind. She prefers if I’m lying on my back with her sitting on top of me so that she can control the angle, depth, and
speed with which I enter her. I enjoy that, too, but she goes too damn fast.

A twenty-three-year-old woman wrote:

I love when he is on top and my legs are on his chest. When he gets pumping really good he hits the right spot. I love doggy-style
when I just want to be fucked. He likes it when I’m on top, the whole female domination thing, and the fact that he doesn’t
have to work very hard.

A twenty-seven-year-old woman wrote:

I love to lie on my side, with him straddling my bottom leg, holding my top leg against his chest as he enters me. He prefers
to enter me from behind, while standing up. I would like it more if it wasn’t the only way he’d have sex with me anymore.

A twenty-eight-year-old woman wrote:

My favorite position is me on top so my back is toward him and I am looking at his feet. That way I can play with his balls
and we can both play a little in the anal area—plus it’s a great view for me.

A thirty-year-old woman wrote:

I have three. I lie on my back with my head hanging a little off the side of the bed. The guy stands or kneels in front of
me so that I can perform oral sex. This leaves my body completely open for him to watch, touch, or sixty-nine.

The next one is also for oral sex. We lie on our sides in a sixty-nine position and I perform oral sex, and at the same time,
masturbate so that he can watch. It is a very up-close view.

The third position works well for orgasm for me. After the guy ejaculates in the missionary position, he stays inside me and
does not move. I slowly move my hips up, down, and around until I have an orgasm. It’s important that he stay totally still.

A thirty-one-year-old woman wrote:

Doggy-style. And it’s even better if my hands are tied to the headboard.

A thirty-eight-year-old woman wrote:

My favorite position is to lie on my back, my shoulders flat on the bed. Then I twist at the waist so my knees are together
on the left side of me, and my partner enters me kind of sideways. It hits a spot inside me unlike any other. It’s not the
most natural position, and it’s not the easiest to maintain, but it sure does work!

A forty-one-year-old woman wrote:

We both like making love on our sides facing each other with legs intertwined. It is comfortable and easy.

A forty-two-year-old woman wrote:

I like the spoon position because the penetration is great and I love the closeness.

A forty-three-year-old woman wrote:

I like it with him on top and me on bottom so he can suck and bite my nipples.

A forty-five-year-old woman wrote:

Years ago, one of my lovers liked me to lie on my back, legs wide apart, with his hands holding my ankles out wide to the
side. I liked it because of the deep penetration, and because I could reach down and feel him pumping in and out of me. I
could also diddle my clit to orgasm. I must admit, however, the older I get, the less I like this position. I’m not that flexible
anymore.

A twenty-seven-year-old woman wrote:

If I’m tired, I like the spoon position with him behind me. During a visit to my ob-gyn I was told it would be easier for
me to conceive that way and it has become a favorite because of how easily he can touch me. The drawback is I can’t see or
touch him.

A fifty-eight-year-old woman wrote:

Hmmm, how do I count the ways? I think it isn’t the position, but the partner, but if I had to choose, I’d say having him
seated and me on top, facing him, is the best. It lets me control the rhythm, speed, depth, while his mouth is in close proximity
to my breasts, and his strong hands are clutching my ass. And, of course, it lets him control our movements if the spirit
moves him. I like it because we have eye contact, he’s comfortable, and I can reach climax after climax by the deep penetration
and letting my clit rub against his body.

He likes it when he can take me from behind, at an angle that doesn’t hurt his back. He can pump deep inside me and drive
me wild. He also likes it when he positions me with my ass on the edge of his bed so he can enter me while he’s standing,
holding my legs high and spread. That way he can control our movements. Sometimes he’ll raise my ass off the bed and hook
my legs over his shoulders so he can suck me, which drives me crazy.

Like all things, variety is the spice of life, so I like to try new positions. I love the ones I know bring him pleasure,
just as he seems to love the ones that bring me pleasure.

A thirty-two-year-old man wrote:

I like having my wife on top so I can suck on her sexy, hard nipples and watch her face as she reaches orgasm. I also like
to have her kneel facedown on the side of the bed so I can stand and enter her from behind. I get excited as I watch my cock
sliding in and out as her pussy lips cling to me. I sometimes slide a lubed finger into her ass and she goes absolutely wild.

A thirty-six-year-old man wrote:

Doggy-style is the best for me, with my left hand around my cock so I can stroke her clit and my right hand on her back with
my thumb rubbing her rectum. She is never more vocal!

A forty-year-old man wrote:

We both like the missionary position with my wife’s head and shoulders jacked up with pillows so that she can see the workings
of our respective parts.

A forty-two-year-old man wrote:

I guess my personal favorite is lying on my side with her on her back, with one leg over me and her other leg between mine.
It gives good access to her clitty and allows me to take my time, while not being tiring at all.

A forty-two-year-old man wrote:

My wife likes to come again afterward by lying on her side, facing me, squeezing her legs together and rubbing her clit while
I hold her ass cheeks as firmly as I can. Sometimes she asks me to finger her ass.

A sixty-eight-year-old man wrote:

There are many, but I love to come kneeling behind a woman who has already come, and is wide open because of it. I love to
hold her ass cheeks and pull her back on my cock as I climax. The failing here is that I can’t see her eyes as she comes.

A twenty-five-year-old woman wrote:

I like it when I’m lying on my stomach, legs slightly apart at first, and he enters me from behind. Once his cock is inside
me I close my legs and hold them tightly together. When he thrusts it’s one of the best sensations.

A fifty-five-year-old man wrote:

Due to my wife’s back problems, this is our favorite. She lies on her back and I lie on my right side, perpendicular to her.
She raises her left leg, and I enter her under that leg. Great for clitoral tension.

A sixty-two-year-old man wrote:

For pure self-indulgence, I like my partner to rub me down, then work on my penis and balls, gently and slowly taking me up
and down the emotional scale until I am begging for her mouth. When she takes me in and strokes my anus (or better, puts her
finger in) I am
gone!

She likes it when I gently massage her while she’s lying on her tummy, then work into her pussy area, massaging her outer
lips between thumb and finger, rubbing her clit with little flicks. Then she turns over for me to suck her nipples while massaging
her pussy and slowly inserting my finger into her anus. Finally, over and up for a dog-style screw, sometimes with a finger
in her anus if she wants it.

A fifty-six-year-old man summed it all up. He wrote:

Do I have a favorite position? Sure. The one I am in! I have not found that one position is better than another. They are
all great!

 

WHAT IS THE MOST UNUSUAL PLACE YOU’VE EVER MADE LOVE?

S
ome of the best stories I got were in answer to this question. In several cases I wanted to write back and ask for more details.
I would have loved the full story to “On the ice at the hockey rink,” or “In a horse stall,” or “On top of the dishwasher
on Christmas Day,” or “On the top of my kids’ bunk beds,” but alas, I didn’t want to embarrass anyone. And how did the twenty-eight-year-old
woman and her boyfriend make out on the hood of a police car in a field in a public park? Hmmm.

Are all these stories true? I don’t know, but they’re so delicious that I’m not going to worry about it. Many tell similar
tales, but the differences are in the people involved and their reactions.

In my case, the most unusual place I ever made love involved a long-ago boyfriend who was hospitalized for hepatitis, which,
by the way, he shared with me. Anyway, we were new to the relationship so we were both hungry most of the time. After three
long days of visiting him we finally got so hot that we did it in the room’s small bathroom with me leaning against the sink
and him behind, both of us watching in the mirror. I think wondering whether some nurse might walk in on us added to the excitement.
Oh yes, he was in a private room.

I’ve also made love in a hot tub, or tried to. My guy at the time found the hot water really exciting mentally, but debilitating
physically. Let’s just say the spirit was willing but the flesh was flaccid.

Oh, and have you ever noticed that your dining room table is just the right height? Mine is.

Let’s see what those who responded to the survey wrote.

A thirty-two-year-old woman wrote:

We were with friends camping and everyone went for a midnight swim. When the camp owner heard all the noise she made everyone
else leave, but my wife and I had swum off to the rocks near the shore so she didn’t see us. When the lady went back inside,
we removed our suits, swam back out to the middle of the lake, and made love on the swim float, under the stars, in plain
view of the entire campsite.

A fifty-four-year-old man had more success in a hot tub than I did. He wrote:

My wife and I made love in a hot tub at a resort up north. We were both naked and it was more foreplay than we usually indulged
in. We were playing, trying to get off on the water jet. My wife actually had an orgasm, then used her hands to get me off
too.

A nineteen-year-old woman wrote:

This guy I was dating and I did it on a weight bench in his parents’ shed. We were really horny and that was the only place
that we could find. The bench was very narrow, but we managed.

A forty-eight-year-old man wrote:

My wife had dragged me to Nordstrom’s to shop and while she was looking at lingerie, I was looking at her. Let me just say
that we found a back staircase and, well… we didn’t actually have intercourse, but we both climaxed from some really heavy
petting.

A twenty-two-year-old man wrote:

A girl I dated many years ago and I actually did it on a bench in a nearby park. It was my first outdoor experience with anyone,
so I was quite scared. She got totally naked but I just got my cock out because I was worried about being seen. She was making
really loud noses, and I kept telling her to be quieter or we’d get caught. Maybe she got off on the danger, and maybe she
just wanted to embarrass me, but she wouldn’t quit the noise.

When she came, she screamed, “YES!!!!! FUCK ME!!!” really loud. I was petrified.

A thirty-three-year-old woman wrote:

My then-boyfriend and I were taking a walk near his parents’ house, which is very out of the way. We held hands and started
talking about sex. I asked him about his fantasies and he said that he’d really enjoy taking me while I leaned against a tree.
The idea really turned me on so I told him I was game. He looked up, surprised, since I was, at that time, very prudish about
sex.

So… I found a suitable tree and was already getting wet just thinking about it. I had snaps on my pant legs so I just pulled
them open. The cold air struck my hot parts but it was not unpleasant… it even felt pretty nice. He started to pet me but
I grabbed him and made him understand that I wanted to be penetrated… which he did. I completely lost it! The environment,
the fact that we were pretty much dressed and that we could get caught got me to a very intense climax.

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