Naughty Secrets (25 page)
Okay, you asked for it. Here’s how my role-playing session would go.
l am a prison inmate being taken to the female warden to become her sex slave. When I refuse, she ties me up, whips me, and
rapes me with her strap-on dildo, taking me whenever and however she wants until I am hers and will do as she wishes.
I don’t know how I would react if my wife answered the door dressed up in some way. She has, however, answered the door naked
and ready to go at it! That was wonderful!
The closest we come to pretend is lingerie. I like sexy high-class sheer and lacy items: thongs, body stockings, camisoles,
and stay-up hose with lace tops, the kind of lingerie one sees in fashion magazines, not at Frederick’s of Hollywood. My wife
wears such things for me at special times, but does not like it for everyday wear. My lady in sheer lingerie turns me on every
time. Her collection is extensive and expensive… and yes, I buy some of it for her. She likes me to wear tight Jockey shorts,
sometimes, when we make love so that she can peel them off me when she is ready.
One of the best nights my wife and I ever spent was when she asked me to pretend that she was a virgin and force her into
having sex. I am not usually a very aggressive or forceful person, but role playing enabled me to satisfy this need. She kept
saying that she didn’t want to do it, and that it was wrong. I just forced her legs apart, and rammed my cock up inside her.
I kept telling her what a filthy whore she was, and that a dirty little bitch like her couldn’t help herself. I fucked her
really hard, and we both came with screams. That was a really satisfying, yet scary experience.
I remember the first girl I ever had sex with. We had become lovers and she was very adventurous, willing and anxious to do
new things. I had told her that I wanted us to make love and talk dirty during sex. We could say anything we wanted so long
as we understood it meant nothing.
She agreed!
We both stripped and started. I pretended that she was a nymph and loved being forced to pleasure her partner. We began by
kissing and fondling one another. I would call her a cheap slut and tell her to suck my nipples and stroke my dick. I would
call her my little cheap bitch and tell her that I would never fuck her if she didn’t do what I told her. She was great and
slipped right into the role. (She had become one of the best cocksuckers I have ever been with and she blew my balls off that
night.) We traded places and to my surprise she was better at the part than I had been. She would tell me to suck her tits
and then laugh at me and tell me that she thought I could suck her harder than that. I found out that night that she enjoyed
very aggressive sex. I loved the way she would call me bastard, and motherfucker. I enjoyed telling her how good it was to
have a slut to fuck.
Threesomes, Watching and Being Watched, Control, Pain, Homosexuality
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h, fantasies. Most of us have them, and many keep it secret from their partners. Of those who answered the questions in my
survey, 57% of the men and 51% of the women fantasize during sex, and 88% of the men and 69% of the women fantasize at other
times. I’m surprised the percentages are that low.
Should you fantasize? There are no “shoulds” about it. It’s normal and natural and you really can’t control where your dreams
take you, during sex or at other times. Of those who responded to the survey, 75% of the men and 53% of the women have dreamed
about making love to another person. Maybe it’s a film star, maybe the guy next door or the gal at the office. Have folks
acted on those fantasies? Probably not. But they are fun, nonetheless.
Sharing a fantasy can be a wonderful thing. Maybe it’s telling tales in the dark, or perhaps the two of you can actually figure
a way to act it out together. However, it’s also possible that you prefer to keep your fantasies private. That’s fine, too.
I have a few that even Ed doesn’t know about. Somehow discussing them takes the delicious edge off, and I don’t want to do
that. Oh, and Ed has one or two as well. Am I curious? Sure, but I won’t ask. He is entitled to his private worlds, too.
Here’s a pretty common fantasy.
I fantasize about the women in
Playboy
or
Penthouse
magazine. I’d like one of them to decorate my cock, and I her pussy with whipped cream and chocolate syrup. She’d then slowly
lick every bit of it while I do the same to her. When we’re both squeaky clean she’d straddle me and fuck me as I lie there
sucking on her nipples. Then she would dismount and nuzzle between my legs, sucking my cock slowly, taking its entire length
into her mouth while fondling my balls. She would slowly lick the length of my stiff cock until I come, and she would swallow
it all.
Others dreamed about soft breezes on hot summer nights, sandy beaches lit only by moonlight, turquoise water and… well, you
get the picture. There are an almost infinite variety of “traditional dreams.”
Most of the more off-center fantasies fit into one of the five categories and are contained in the sections that follow: threesomes,
watching and being watched, control, pain, and homosexuality. A few, however, don’t fit into any specific category.
I love to fantasize about size differences, where I’m only about two or three feet tall and the woman is full height. It’s
more of a giantess or shrinking fantasy than an age thing. I just love the idea of her being really big so I get to play around
on larger breasts or lick a big pussy or fuck a big, firm ass.
My wife is very loving but a very proper schoolteacher. I dream about one of her former students coming back to thank her
for tutoring him. I fantasize about her with her dress pulled open, her very white Irish body stretched back on her desk,
crying out in joyful orgasm as a young black man fucks her with abandon.
This is really “outside the box” as the saying goes but here it is. I’ve read a few stories about women and their pets that
have interested and frightened me at the same time. The idea of owning a dog, or cat, that could provide that little bit of
oral pleasure when I’m all alone is tantalizing, but so off limits I don’t know how to think about it. I’m afraid, it’s a
little scary, and perhaps a little perverted. Guess I’ll just keep it to myself.
Some who wrote had secret thoughts about deeply taboo topics— sex with someone underage, sex with a family member, and, like
this woman, sex with an animal. A few mentioned urine. Fantasies are private thoughts and, as I said earlier, neither good
nor bad. As with the writer of this fantasy, they can scare us, but they are what they are. This woman wouldn’t dare act out
her dream, and only actions are
good
or
bad.
If you have an unusual fantasy, enjoy it. Let it scare you in a delicious way, and let it tantalize you as well.
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ne of the more common fantasies is the threesome—or foursome—or moresome. Of the people who responded, 71% of the men and
61% of the women had fantasies of (or had acted out) threesomes. Let’s see what they said.
I have actually thought about a threesome with my ex-husband and his brother, one in my pussy, the other in my mouth. I’ve
thought about my current partner and his friend, same circumstances. I have also thought about a threesome with me, my boyfriend,
and my best girlfriend. Never having been with a woman in any way before, I think I would be hesitant, but would love to see
what it is like to be with a woman—particularly my best girlfriend. I would want her to play with me and both of us to play
with my boyfriend.
It would be kind of fun and sexy to climb on one girl, make love for a while, then move to her friend and screw her for a
while. It would be really great if the two of them went down on me. First I would be in one mouth while the other licked my
balls and ass, then they would change places. There would also be lots of touching and caressing.
I dream about threesomes often. It would involve my partner and either another woman or another man. For the woman, I dream
about a particularly attractive female friend of my partner’s whom she has admitted she fancies. I would love to either watch
them or join in. My biggest fantasy would be to fuck one woman while being fucked up the ass by another woman with a strap-on
or by a man.
I’ve always wondered what it would be like to be with another woman, and my partner says that he has always fantasized about
being with me and another woman. Haven’t done it, but I can imagine the two of us together with another woman. He would watch
us together while he stroked his cock and then he’d join in, letting the other woman suck his cock while he sucked and licked
my pussy.
I’ve often fantasized of being with two men, sucking one while the other fucks me, in the ass preferably. I want to use a
strap-on on a man, to fuck him, pound into him, make him scream in blissful surrender.
I also fantasize about being in a relationship with two gay men. I want to show both that I can suck and receive and give
anal sex as well as any man, then want both to tell me, that yes, fucking me is very good.
They would both be my servants, my love slaves, and do everything I tell them to do, and make me come many many times.
I would like to try a threesome with a couple I don’t really know and would not have to see too much afterward to avoid awkward
feelings. I would also like to have a threesome with my girlfriend and her best friend.
I dream about my wife and me with another man. I would love it to be with someone we both know and trust. It’s pleasure, sex,
and just fucking, not anything to tear us apart. I would love for it to be with someone she picks out, maybe someone with
whom she had already been having an affair.
I fantasize about my wife being loved by a couple of men or more, with me either participating or just watching. I think that
it would be tremendously pleasurable for her. I don’t see this ever being acted out because of the difficulty of finding the
other players to participate when we want, yet not wanting them to be involved afterward. It also must not create misunderstandings
or unintended consequences between myself and my wife.
I have fantasies about threesomes, with nobody in particular. A blonde and a brunette would be nice. We’d try lots of different
positions, play orally, and I’d please both at the same time. I’d fuck one while the other fucks her and then me with a strap-on.
One of them would suck my cock while I eat her pussy and the other girl would suck my balls and probe my ass with her finger.
The possibilities are endless!
I would love to try two things. First I’d like to be able to perform oral sex while having the other guy fuck me, and second
be vaginally and anally fucked at the same time.
