Naughty Secrets (28 page)

We enjoy playing in public places because it’s a turn-on, not for the sake of being seen. I like to pull over and make love
on a secluded side road or a deserted beach or even in the backyard. There’s a pond near our house and we’ve made love there,
knowing others are around not really grasping what we’re doing.

We have had sex in public, and the risk of being caught is very exciting. We both enjoy teasing each other so that our arousal
is very apparent to bystanders. My wife loves to tease me in a shopping mall so that I have to walk around with a hard-on.
I, in turn, enjoy it when she wears revealing clothes so I can caress her in front of other people. She gets embarrassed when
her nipples poke out for all to see. We usually attack each other in the car before we get home.

The closest thing to public sex that I have had was being totally naked in the backseat of our car, fucking like sex was going
out of style. It was after dark and I really don’t think anyone could have seen us unless they had been peeping. Nevertheless,
the thought of it still turns me on!

Actually we finally made my partner’s fantasy come true when we had sex at the local beach. It was very exciting for both
of us.

Several years ago my wife and I did it outdoors while on vacation in Denmark. We were lying on a blanket on a lawn at eleven-thirty
at night just three meters from three couples who were standing on the far side of a hedge. The couples stood on the road
for quite a while, talking to each other, not knowing we were fucking our hearts out just ten feet away. There was a lamp-post,
and, if they had known, they could have seen us!

I love sex in unusual places and get super hot thinking others are watching. My wife likes more privacy so it probably won’t
happen.

I was watched a couple of times getting blow jobs in the car from other women before I was married. Once after lunch at work
years ago I was with a secretary whom I was seeing who would not have intercourse with me but who would blow me as often as
I’d like (yup, a guy’s dream girl!!!!). We would have a very quick lunch and, since we only had an hour or so, drive to an
empty parking lot or a secluded spot on a dirt road. Once we parked beside what we thought was a parked truck, but, while
it was parked, it was not empty. The trucker had been sleeping. When he woke up he actually watched me getting head.

Several years ago I watched my then-girlfriend have sex with her male lover. It was a weird experience but in the end I was
okay with it.

I’ve been watched, too. Last time we had a threesome my boyfriend discreetly fucked me while I was kissing and stroking a
female friend. She didn’t comment, so I don’t know what was going through her head—it didn’t feel like a particularly voyeuristic
setup.

In my voyeuristic fantasies I would be asked to counsel lovers who are having relationship difficulties about how to enhance
their sensual lives. I would sit in a chair and direct them as to exactly what to do. They would follow my directives faithfully,
and begin to have the type of sexual fulfillment they only dreamed of.

Recently I was at a party and people were drinking a lot. One guy got really drunk so my boyfriend volunteered to drive him
home in his car while someone else followed to drive my boyfriend back to me. It took quite a while so eventually I was one
of the few people left.

I was bored sitting in a chair, flipping through a magazine, waiting for my ride. A couple whom I didn’t know settled on a
sofa and started kissing. Eventually they started the touchy-feely stuff. Her head was in his lap and I heard the sound of
a zipper. I pretended to keep reading but, as you can imagine, I was really concentrating on the couple necking.

Soon she was in her underwear and his shirt was off. She was stretched out on her back while he dived between her legs. I
was both embarrassed and excited so I couldn’t resist finding a phone and calling my boyfriend on his cell phone. I told him
what was going on and asked him to come back as soon as he could.

By the time I returned to the living room the guy’s pants were off and he was fucking the girl while she told him to push
harder. They ended up on all fours on the couch with the guy behind. They came, noisily, obviously oblivious to me.

While I digested that, I heard him ask whether she wanted it in the ass. That was enough for me. I got my coat and walked
downstairs. Oh, and on the way home, my boyfriend and I did it in the car.

My wife and I were in the swimming pool making out when we suddenly discovered that two kids had climbed our mango tree and
were watching us. I yelled at them and one nearly fell trying to get down as quickly as he could. We were laughing so hard
we never did finish and that spoiled it for us.

We have watched another couple having sex as well. It happened quite by accident when we “caught” my neighbor, a middle-aged
widow, and her boyfriend. They were in her backyard when they thought I was away. My wife and I watched the whole thing and
got so “hot” that we were playing with each other right there in the yard. It was almost like watching a porno movie. We’ve
spent time with them on several occasions since and all I can see when I look at them is him going down on her. We’ve never
told them we watched.

My girlfriend lives on a hill in San Francisco, and her small kitchen window overlooks the next house, which is several feet
below hers. We got home last Friday about midnight and I walked over to the sink to pour out the remains of a soda that had
gone flat.

Standing over the sink with the light out, I glanced down and saw a couple on a bed, in clear view, kissing. The light by
the bed was on and her top was completely off. The guy was playing with her breasts and sucking on her nipples. They looked
like they had just gotten home after a night out because he still had a white dress shirt and tie on, and she wore only dress
slacks. I motioned my girl over and showed her the scene. She became as enthralled as I was.

After kissing and breast play, we watched as they undressed and kissed again while he rubbed her breasts and she stroked his
penis. He then lay on his back, and we could see his erect penis sticking straight up as she leaned over him and took it in
her mouth. Her head bobbed as she slowly stroked the shaft of the penis with her hand as she sucked and kissed it.

We could not believe what we were watching but it was really hot for us. After he got some oral stimulation, he got between
her legs and began doing the same to her. Her knees were up with her back arched and she held his head as he licked away.
After a few minutes he inserted his penis and the thrusting began. He was up on his arms looking down, and her legs were up
and bent at the knees. As he thrust, her legs bucked.

They shifted position until she was on all fours, so he could drive his penis into her doggy-style. The thrusting began again
and her breasts swayed as his penis pounded into her. He must have come while we watched because he did some hard slow pushes,
then reached around and squeezed her breasts.

Eventually she got up and left the room, then came back with a towel to clean them both. We could see them on their backs
now, and I could see her pubic hair, the dots of her nipples, and his limp penis as she caressed it.

It was amazing that this was all happening about ten feet away from our viewing area. I need to say that we would never look
in people’s windows or anything deliberately. This just happened by accident. I’m not sure they realized that they could be
seen, but we had a great time watching, and more fun afterward. Boy did it make us hot.

H
ave you ever fantasized that you were in total control of a sexual encounter? Maybe you are a pirate ravishing a captive,
or possibly a policeman having your way with a criminal. Or, on the opposite side, have you ever thought about giving up complete
control of an encounter? Maybe you are the captive or the criminal, forced to submit to the desires of your captor. Or maybe
it goes farther into the realm of delicious fantasy rape.

Is there anything wrong with that type of fantasy? Not at all. No one should confuse a fantasy that excites during sex or
masturbation with a desire to act it out. Sexual fantasies are normal, and most of us have them in one form or another.

Of the respondents to my survey, 78% of the men and 87% of the women would love to either be in control of or be controlled
by their partner during sex.

As with other fantasies, some dream, others actually act out their dreams.

I have discovered I am a submissive. I have yet to pursue that avenue of myself much, but control is a big part of that.

It is a totally thrilling thought to be powerless, at the mercy of someone else.

I want him to be in total control and use chains or whips or restrain me in a swing while I’m tied up and blindfolded.

I would love it if I could give up complete control, but I know he’d never play along with it.

You might be surprised. Try stretching your arms over your head and gently saying, “What are you going to do to me?” It might
trigger something wonderful.

Oh, yes, I’d love to try. I think I’d enjoy extreme bondage: all four limbs tied to the bed, being blindfolded, taking orders.
It gets me hot just thinking about it.

Yes, but I have never acted it out. I like to be controlled. I like to have someone take charge and tell me what to do. I’d
even like to be taken by a man. I fantasize about being dominated.

Bondage and submission are my most frequent fantasies. We have tried it with me tied to the bed or my hands bound together,
and when I am in the right mood, it’s very exciting.

I’ve tried some mild bondage with my husband. I wouldn’t trust too many people.

Trust is a very basic part of any control game. If you can’t trust your partner to stop when you ask or to say “stop” when
it gets unpleasant, don’t play.

I would love to be tied down or tie my wife down. I’d love to tease the hell out of her with toys while she was blindfolded
or be teased myself.

I usually fantasize about being controlled. I’d have her tie me up or tell me what to do. My wife has tied me up on occasion.
Although it’s always my idea, I think she likes it, too. After a while she gets impatient and wants to be stuck with my poker,
which is kind of hard to do unless the man is in charge.

Not really. She could say, “Stick it in me, and you’d better make it good or else.”

God, I’d love it. I dream about her not letting me come and teasing me until I can barely stand it any longer. I don’t think
she’d go along with it, however.

My wife tied me up and pleasured me once. It took a while for me to coax her to try it but once she did, it was great. Much
as I’d love to do the same to her, she’ll have none of it. The loss of ultimate control is not up her alley.

I think being tied up and played with over a long period of time, including oral and anal penetration, without being allowed
to come would be wonderful. I would also like to do that to her!!!!

The idea of being controlled makes me hot and sexually hungry. I want to be told what to wear, told to put a cucumber in my
pussy in a restaurant, or ordered to wear a sheer blouse, no bra, short skirt, or tight pants. I love to think about being
dressed with no underwear or wearing crotchless panties, or even going out in public wearing a collar with D-rings on it.
My master or mistress would continually tease and caress me in public, making me be quiet while he or she probed my body,
bringing me to orgasm.