Playing Well With Others (57 page)

     Many more

Are bruises/marks acceptable?

     I can be black and blue head to toe

     Please no marks that cannot be covered by pants and a turtleneck

     Must hide beneath t-shirt and shorts

     Must hide beneath bra and underwear

     Can last for weeks

     Must be gone in a few hours

     No marks at all

What you NEED to get out of this scene to be happy:

What you WANT to get out of this scene to be happy:

Medical, physical or emotional factors to be aware of
(allergies, injuries, asthma, diabetes, glasses/contacts, hearing aids, menstruation, joint challenges, surgeries, ongoing treatments, mental health, phobias)

Supplements, medication (prescription and over-the-counter), and substances you are currently taking

Medical, physical or emotional limits and boundaries (no-go zones)

Is sexual play ok?
What does sexual play look like to you? What are your safer sex practices?

Activities

In this list of potential activities, know that not everything is listed- it’s amazing how fertile the human imagination is! If you want to do it, and it’s not on the list, just write it in. Please fill out each category in three ways: (i) have you done it before, (2) thoughts on top/giving and (3) thoughts on bottom/receiving.

Key code:

3          Oh gods Please YES! NOW! More!

2          I really would/do enjoy this activity

i          This could be ok

0          I have no interest in this

NO          hard limit, please do not push me on it, I will tell you if this ever change

?          I have no idea what this means

*          I am embarrassed to discuss this, but am interested