She Who Finds a Husband (22 page)

1.
Although the title of this book is
She Who Finds A Husband
, it was evident that God's Word is sovereign, which states “He Who Finds a Wife.” Do you believe once the women let go and let God's Word prevail by allowing their husbands/mates to find them, things turned out better?

2.
Paige had a problem with one of her coworkers who she felt ignored the fact that she was now a Christian, since he was used to dealing with the old, worldlier Paige. How do you feel a born-again person should deal with those types of situations; be it co-workers, family, or friends? Have you ever found yourself in a similar situation? If so, how did you deal with it and was it effective?

3.
Deborah carried around guilt and shame because of an act she'd committed years ago that she regretted. Instead of confessing the act to God, she felt as though she was hiding it from Him, then got angry with Helen for threatening to reveal it. Do you think that is what the accuser is doing to so many Christians today in order to keep them in bondage; in God's ear accusing, while all the time God is simply waiting on His child to confess the sin to Him directly so that healing and deliverance can begin?

4.
Some of the women at New Day put on a church face and assumed Mother Doreen had been doing the same. Do you agree with Mother Doreen; that just because a person is going through something, they don't always have to appear broken? That an experience with the Lord and even the mere anticipation of a move of God can be magnified over the problem or situation?

5.
Helen had committed the same act herself that she taunted Deborah about having committed. Do we as Christians sometimes try to justify or cover acts we've committed that might not have been pleasing to God by pointing our finger in the direction of someone who we feel did something even worse?

6.
Because of Deborah's actions that day in Family Café, Zelda made a decision that she didn't want to attend New Day Temple of Faith. Do you believe that the actions of the members of a church play a role in whether people decide to attend that church, or are a reflection on the kingdom as a whole?

7.
Deborah blamed herself for ending up in the predicament she did with Elton. Do you agree, somewhat agree, or totally disagree that she was to blame?

8.
Paige had allowed her mother's role in the marriage to her father to shape her thoughts on relationships. The last thing Paige wanted to do was to find a man that was like her father in order to avoid ending up like her mother. Do you think Paige might have missed out on a man God had for her because of her way of thinking?

9.
There were a couple of unfortunate mishaps at New Day Temple of Faith regarding the use of the Internet. Do you believe the Internet can be used as a weapon of the enemy to attack Christians and mankind in general? How should we protect ourselves from the enemy's use of this form of technology?

10.
Were the issues that Paige needed to be delivered from less significant than those of some of the other characters in the book? Why or why not?

11.
Tamarra carried around loads of baggage from her past. Even though she seemed to be delivered from so much, there always seemed to be even more issues she had to face. Have you ever felt that way? That you'll never be able to shed all the burdens laid upon you?

12.
What biblical story can you relate Tamarra and her brother's situation to?

13.
Which characters, whether main characters or background characters, would you like to see in future installments of the New Day Divas series?

14.
Were there any particular characters, issues, or situations that you could closely relate to?

15.
Although Tamarra's mother didn't attend church or believe God to work in her own life, she always questioned Tamarra about church and God in hers. Why do you think that is so? Do you know non-Christians like that? Ones who won't allow God to operate in their own lives, but keep you under the Christian microscope?