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midway step
, 150–51

213

Pantley Dance
, 144–47, 148,

Douglas, Ann,
84

149, 150, 183, 188, 202

side by side and slip away
, 151

Eating habits of babies
, 38–39

sleeping “like a baby,
” 138–49

Exercise and nighttime sleep,

sleepy-time buddy,
149–50

94

Expectations, reasonable,
32

Jet lag,
225–26

Fathers, quotes from
, 51, 54, 89,

Karp, Dr. Harvey
, 36, 169

175, 195

Key points
, 4, 37, 80, 113, 137,

Fatigue, signs of
, 43–45, 71–72,

158, 183

87–88, 89, 119

Kunhardt, Jean
, 50

Flathead syndrome
, 171

Food and medicines, effects of,

Logs, sleep
, 23–26

76–77, 90–91, 235

Loveys
, 99, 149–50, 160

Foods for Hush Hour
, 125

Lumeng, Dr. Julie
, 6

Gentle Removal Plan
, 162–65,

Marciano, Marjorie
, 199

220

Massage, baby
, 181–82

Medications and sleeplessness,

Hammocks, baby
, 53–54, 55,

77, 235

204, 212

Melatonin,
47, 91

Health issues that interfere

Mennella, Julie A.,
57

with sleep
, 80, 92–93.
See

Micro-naps
, 97–98, 119–20

also
Sleep disorders

Milestones, new,
91

Homeostatic sleep pressure,

Moore, Dr. Polly
, 20

14–17, 66, 85

Mothers, quotes from
, 44, 55,

Hush Hour
, 101, 116, 118,

69, 75, 105, 118, 122, 127,

120–30

140, 147, 162, 165, 173, 212,

227

In-arms sleep to in-bed sleep

Motion sleep to stationary sleep

crib modifi cations,
140–43

car naps to bed naps,

duplicating successful

198–208

bedtime sleep
, 152–53

day sleep in a swing
, 183–84

Index

241

elements of baby’s motion

signs of fatigue and,
87–88,

sleep,
176–78

89

negative aspects of motion

sneaky micro-naps and,

naps,
169–71

97–98

protecting that little head,

toddler who thinks he’s

171–72

outgrown naps
, 99–101

safe sleeping in swing,

toddler who truly has

172–73

outgrown naps
, 101

swings, bouncers, and gliders,

too busy child
, 96–97

172–76

Napping problems and solutions

transitioning to stationary

better beds,
71

sleep,
178–83

comfort checks
, 71

when to wean from motion

cycle-blender naps
, 69–71

naps
, 176

food, drink, and medicine,

why babies sleep well with

76–77, 90–91

motion,
167–69

health issues
, 80

helping baby sleep without

Nap log
, 23, 24, 26

your help
, 75–76

Nap plan, creating a
, 27–32

intervening at moment of

Nap resister

cycle-change awakening,

basic principles for dealing

74–75

with
, 81–82

intervening before cycle-

biological clock of
, 19, 85–86,

change awakening,

94

72–74

“expired” nap schedule and,

irregular pattern for

83–84

newborns,
67

health problems and,
92–93

living according to baby’s

hungry, thirsty, or overfull

own pattern
, 78–79

child,
90–91

nap sleep versus night sleep,

inconsistent nap schedule

65–66

and,
86–87

natural catnappers
, 67–69

new milestones and,
91

nighttime sleep issues,
80

not tired child
, 89–90

one-cycle sleep syndrome

poor night sleep and
, 93–95

(OCSS)
, 63–65

prenap routine and,
95–96

realistic expectations and,
77

reliance on sleep association

schedule change needed
, 78

and,
92

settling and waiting
, 77–78

242

Index

sleeping for less than thirty

sleep place
, 160–61

minutes,
66

wind-down period
, 158–59

solutions for gaining longer

Newborn babies

naps,
69

defi ned,
35–36

tiredness indicators
, 71–72,

growing into a napping

87–88

rhythm
, 35–37

Napping strikes
, 103–6

irregular sleep pattern in
, 67

Naps.
See also
Shifting

nap facts on
, 38–42

schedules

nap tips for
, 43–59

benefi ts of
, 4–7

Night feedings
, 47–48

car naps to bed naps,

Night terror
, 222

198–208

Nighttime sleep issues,
80

how and where of
, 20–21

Nighttime sleep versus nap

late-day
, 17–18

sleep,
20

nighttime sleep versus nap

Noisy sleepers, babies as
, 40–41

sleep,
20

Normal newborn sleep
, 35

short catnap
s, 10–11

Nursing.
See
Naptime nursling

sleep char
t, 7, 8

solving napping problems,

Obesity,
6

21–22

One-cycle sleep syndrome

three critical nap questions,

(OCSS)

21

defi ned,
63–65

timing of
, 14–17

solutions for
, 65–80

Naptime nursling

falling asleep without breast,

Pacifi ers
, 51–52, 156, 218–20

154–55

Pantley Dance
, 144–47, 148,

guideline nap schedule,

149, 150, 183, 188, 202

157–58

Pantley Pull-Off (PPO),
162–65

lovey,
160

Pantley’s Gentle Removal Plan,

newborn nurslings
, 162

162–65, 220

pacifi er sucking
, 156

Parents

Pantley’s Gentle Removal

adjustment period for
, 42

Plan
, 162–65, 220

co-sleeping babies and,

routine,
159

52–53

sleep aids
, 160

naps for,
58

sleep associations
, 155–56

Patterns, creating
, 55, 58–59

sleep cue,
159

Positional plagiocephaly,
171

Index

243

Postpartum depression,
58, 213

Sleep aids
, 160

Professionals, quotes from
, 20,

Sleep char
t, 7, 8

36, 42, 50, 52, 58, 84, 114,

Sleep consolidation
, 36–37

169, 206

Sleep deprivation
, 114

Sleep disorders
, 233–37

REM stage,
10, 103

Sleep logs
, 23–26

Research reports
, 6, 18, 76, 210,

Sleep plan question
s, 26–27

235

Smells, relaxing
, 125

Rhythmic movement for babies,

Smoking,
57, 76

50–51.
See also
Motion

Smolensky, Dr. Michael
, 58

sleep to stationary sleep

Sounds

Routines, creating
, 55, 58–59

quiet night feedings
, 47–48

sleeping versus awaking,
43

Sadeh, Dr. Avi,
7

soothing
, 48–49

Schedules, toddlers’ daily,

Special situations

110, 111.
See also
Shifting

day care snoozing
, 214–16

schedules

daylight saving time,

Sears, Dr. William,
52

231–32

Security objects,
99

family changes and life

Separation anxiety,
98–99

events,
230–31

Shifting schedules

sleep disorders
, 233–37

time to give up naps
, 112–35

special needs,
228–29

from two naps to one nap,

standing up in crib
, 217–18

102–11

twins, triplets, or children

Sibling bed
, 152

close in age,
226–28

Side sleeping,
190

vacations and trip
s, 223–26

Signs child needs a nap,
114–17

wakes up crying
, 222–23

Signs of tiredness
, 43–45,

weaning from naptime

71–72, 87–88, 89, 119

bottles,
220–21

Sleep.
See also
Back sleeping;

weaning from naptime

In-arms sleep to in-bed

pacifi er,
218–20

sleep; Napping problems

Stages of sleep

and solutions

benefi ts of
, 12–13

benefi ts of naps
, 4–7

defi ned,
9–10

late-day naps
, 17–18

Sturner, Dr. Raymond,
235

stages of
, 9–10, 12–13

Suck-to-sleep association,

timing of naps
, 14–17

56–57, 76

244

Index

Sudden infant death syndrome

Tiredness in babies

(SIDS)
, 40, 52, 53, 156, 185,

hunger versus
, 45–46

191, 199, 218

signs of
, 43–45, 71–72, 87–88,

Swaddling blankets
, 49–50

89, 119

Swaddling for naptime

Toddlers

how to swaddle,
192–95

daily schedules of
, 110, 111

how to wean from
, 196–97

Hush Hour for
, 128–29

when to stop,
196

Twins, triplets, or children close

Swings, bouncers, and gliders.

in age,
226–28

See also
Motion sleep to

stationary sleep

Vacations and trip
s, 223–26

buying right produc
t, 174–75

Volcano Effect
, 14–17, 66, 85,

safety factors for
, 172–73

103

sensible use of
, 176

Warm Buddy Company
, 149

Tantrums and whining
, 4.
See

Wilkoff, Dr. Will
, 134

also
Signs of tiredness;

Womb environment,
168,

Volcano Effect

200–202

About the Author

Parenting educator Elizabeth Pantley is president of Better

Beginnings, Inc., a family resource and education company.

Elizabeth frequently speaks to parents at schools, hospitals, and

parent groups around the world. Her presentations are received

with enthusiasm and praised as realistic, warm, and helpful.

She is a regular radio show guest and is frequently quoted as a

parenting expert in newspapers and magazines such as
Parents
,
Par-

enting
,
American Baby
,
Woman’s Day
,
Good Housekeeping
, and
Red-book
and on hundreds of parent-directed websites. She publishes a

newsletter,
Parent Tips
, which is distributed in schools nationwide.

Elizabeth is the author of these popular parenting books, avail-

able in twenty-six languages:

The No-Cry Discipline Solution

The No-Cry Sleep Solution

The No-Cry Sleep Solution for Toddlers and Preschoolers

The No-Cry Potty Training Solution

Gentle Baby Care

Hidden Messages

Perfect Parenting

Kid Cooperation

Elizabeth is a contributing author to
The Successful Child
with

Dr. William and Martha Sears.

Elizabeth and her husband, Robert, live in the state of Wash-

ington, along with their four children, Angela, Vanessa, David,

and Coleton, and Grama (Elizabeth’s mother). Elizabeth is an

involved participant in her children’s school and sports activities

and has served in positions as varied as softball coach and school

PTA president.

For more information, excerpts, parenting articles, and con-

tests, visit the author’s website a
t www.pantley.com/elizabeth.

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