Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot (49 page)

This is another great woman on top position. By the woman leaning back the angle of penetration causes the man’s penis to provide stimulation to the G-spot and GSA on the front wall of the vagina. The man can guide her with his hands on her hips or cup his hands over her breasts or (my favorite) reach around with one hand and add clitoral stimulation with his fingers, while the other hand caresses her breasts. This can also be a very erotic position to watch in the mirror as both partners can watch the man’s penis trusting in and out of the woman’s vagina.

In this position the woman should lie on her back and bring her knees up almost to her chest. The man should either hold her legs down as he thrusts his penis aiming toward the front wall of her vagina. Or the man can hold the woman’s pelvis up buy holding placing his hand under her hips and holding her pelvis up to his and thrust aiming at her G-spot. In another variation the woman can also lie flat, then bring her knees up and place a pillow under her hips to raise the angle of entry and facilitate greater G-spot stimulation.

All knees up positions also allow for deeper penetration if desired. Of course if deeper penetration is the goal the G-spot will not receive as much stimulation. The knees up positions are good for men with shorter penises as they can penetrate deeper than they normally could.

In Conclusion

I have given you all the information that you need to give or have a G-spot orgasm and Female Ejaculatory orgasms, to have great mind blowing orgasms, and to expand your capacity for sexual pleasure for both you and your partner. Now the rest is up to you! Do the exercises, learn more about yourself or your lovers body first hand. And if at first you don’t succeed try, try and try again! Try all of the techniques and positions out!!! Practice makes perfect and what a great thing to practice, after all sex is fun!

Always let your partner know how happy you are that she is willing to share herself/himself with you. And congratulate yourself as you are on your way to becoming a First Class, Grade AAA, GREAT LOVER if you are a man! And if you are a woman you are on your way to becoming one of those women who have incredible orgasms, is in touch with her body and has a expanded capacity for sexual pleasure, the kind of woman a man loves to make love to!

As an author one of the most rewarding aspects of what I do is when I find out that I have helped someone improve the quality of their life in some way. In this case the quality of their sex life. So please e-mail me and let me know of your experiences and any improvements in your orgasmic capacity/ability, if you experience a G-spot orgasm or ejaculatory orgasm. Send me your testimonies and be descriptive as possible, because I learn from my readers’ experiences and in turn are able to help even more people with the knowledge that you share with me.

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Incredible Bonus #1 (For Men & Women)

“How to Use the Power of Your Voice To Turn Your Lover On When You Speak” By Mark Simon

Both men & women can be turned on or off by the sound of a voice. In fact I would say that all people are affected by the sound of your voice to some extent. I will take this one step farther I will say that we are all affected by the sound of a persons voice.

Think about a time that you heard a very sexy voice, it could have been in person, on the radio, on the phone or in a movie or on TV. How did that persons voice make you feel? What images did it bring to your mind? How did it touch you? What caused your reaction?

Do This Today

Exercise For Tonal Vocal Awareness #1:

Go out somewhere (work, school, mall etc…) and talk with people and listen to their voices. Listen to the tone and the pitch and the vocal qualities. See how it affects you. Notice how your boss or teacher speaks, Notice how people you respect speak, Notice how the president speaks. If your run into anyone who’s voice you find attractive, sexy or a turn on. or if you find someone’s voice irritating or a turn off note what it is about there voice that causes you to like or dislike their voice. Was it the tone the rate of speech, the pitch. All you have to do right now is just take some mental notes.

There is definite power in the voice. Great speakers have lead armies, taken over countries, made millions of dollars with the power in their voices. Voice over actors make fortunes just speaking a few lines. A soothing voice can calm a frightened and crying child, and yes the voice can seduce as well.

Lets talk about cartoons for a minute. When they do the voices for a cartoon they try to match the voice to the character. If it is a hero like Superman or Batman they choose a deep commanding voice. If the character is cute they use a soft rounded higher pitched voice. If and if it is an irritating character they use a whiny high-pitched voice.

Let’s talk about the voice as a seduction tool. In fact the voice is such a powerful seduction tool that there is a Multi-Million Dollar Phone Sex Industry. Where men and women call up people on the phone to talk to them while they masturbate!

Both men and women can be aroused by a person’s voice. Women tend to be more influenced by the voice then men in terms of seduction. And that goes back to the old saying
“Men fall in love with their eyes and women fall in love with their ears!”

A deep voice is very commanding! The tonality of your voice is very important not only with the opposite sex but also in the work place. If you speak with a high or shrill voice people don’t take you seriously and even find you annoying! But if you speak with a deep resonant voice people find you powerful, sexy, commanding, and even relaxing!

Most women find a deep resonant voice to be very powerful and sexy. It almost vibrates between their legs when you speak with a voice like that! And for men we tend to find a woman with smooth medium toned voice to be very sexy and can turn us on and give us an erection almost instantly!

So you need to improve your voice and learn to speak to your lover (and everyone else for that matter) with a deeper and more resonant voice. You may never be Hoyt Axton or Recardo Montobon, Jim Morrison or James Earl Jones. But you can improve the voice that you have and make the most of it!

Tips For Women:

If you want to hear a very sexy female voice call a phone sex line and listen to how the women speak and tone and quality of their voices. You can find the phone numbers in the back of men’s magazines.

Also if you learn to speak with a very sexy voice and you are in the sales field, telemarketing or anything job that you have to talk to people you will be able to double your income. You will find that buyers and customers will call and order from you just to hear your voice. Be selective with this power. You don’t want to use it with women, or people that would call and take up your work time just to hear your voice such as

co-workers. You also don’t want to use this when you are alone with someone unless you intention is to seduce them, as you could turn them on too much and put yourself in a unsafe or compromising position.

Tips For Men:

If you learn to speak with a deeper, more commanding voice, you will notice that people will treat you with more respect. Women will also find you to be more attractive. If you ask a women out on a date and you use a deeper, confident, voice she is more likely to be receptive and say yes then if you ask her in a shy or nervous high pitched voice.

Many women love to be told what to do during sex and if you do it in that commanding voice it will have a greater impact.

Improving Your Voice: How To Speak

For those of you with high voices this will be one of the most important things you will learn in this manual and it will have profound effects in all areas of your life if you apply this technique.

To speak well with a good tone and resonant voice you must first learn how to breathe. If you tend to breath shallow in your upper chest you will not have as good a tone to your voice as if you were to breath from deeper in your abdomen. Almost all forms of martial arts and meditation as well as singing instruction teaches you to breathe from your stomach. It is also used in Taoist and Tantric sex and can also help you to control ejaculation.