Read Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot Online
Authors: Annie Sprinkle Deborah Sundahl
Find out what he likes and wants and then do it for him. But whatever you choose it
must be
something out of the ordinary! Or it will ruin the effect and let him down after looking forward to the surprise all night long and you will not ever be able to use the surprise technique on him again.
Examples:
The two of you are out to dinner and you lean over to him and whisper in his ear, in your absolutely most sexual voice and say
“Guess what? I have a surprise for you when we get home tonight!”
Then when you get home, he walks in and see candles arranged all around the room. You walk him over to a mattress in the center of the room and start to light the candles one by one. (WARNING: never leave candles lit when you are not present) You undress him and lie him down on the mattress and give him a full body massage, then you both take the niacin tablets (see the supplement section in the manual) and give him a night of wild all orifice sex!
OR
The two of you are out with friends and you lean over to him and whisper in him ear in your absolutely most sexual voice and say
“After dinner I have a surprise for you!”
and then just continue your conversation with your friends. If he asks about it, just say
“I’ll tell you later, I told you it’s a surprise!”
Then take him to a nice hotel or a private Jacuzzi tub center where they rent out the hot tubs by the hour and have wild sex!
Now the reason all of these techniques work is that you are putting an image in his mind with either your descriptive language or by making him very curious with the promise of a
surprise and this will keep him thinking of the image that you described to him in detail or of the surprise you have promised.
The final ingredient to making all of these techniques work is that you must actually deliver on what you are promising. So if you tell him what you are going to do to him then you must make sure you do it or he will be very let down & upset and you will never be able to use these techniques with him again.
Don’t promise that you are going to fuck his brains out or suck his cock all night long and then do it for only 5 minutes, and If you tell him you have a surprise it better be a good one not just everyday sex!
Incredible Bonus #3 (For Him, For Her Pleasure)
“How To Give Her A Blended Clitoral, G-Spot, Anal Orgasm By Mark Simon
Stimulation For Clitoral, G-Spot, Anal Orgasm:
In this technique you are going to stimulate her orally at first and then add G-spot stimulation with your fingers while you stimulate her clitoris with your mouth, then right before she cums you are going to add anal stimulation that will send her right over the edge! You will still want to start with the extended foreplay even before you go down on her. As you read the directions below imagine that you are doing the technique to your partner.
Once again you will start off in the position in figure 4 in the manual. Start off with a lot of kissing. Women often complain that men don't kiss them enough especially after they have been with them for a while. You can never go wrong with long passionate, exploring kissing.
I suggest that you learn how to give her a sensual massage. At least caress every inch of her body with long soft strokes. She will love you for this. Kiss and taste every inch of her body except her vagina. Kiss her neck, breasts, upper and lower abdomen etc…
Spend a lot of time touching and stroking her inner thighs. But don't touch her vagina yet! You want to tease her and build up the anticipation for your touch there.
After a few minutes of this teasing, gently rest the heel of your hand right above her pubic hair on her pubic bone and cup your hand over her vagina. Don't touch her yet but get your hand so close that she can feel the heat from your hand. During all of this you should be next to her kissing her on the mouth or kissing and sucking her breast and nipples.
Take your hand and put two fingers on each side of her vagina ( you will have fingers split where you have your 1
st
and 2
nd
fingers on one side and your 3
rd
and 4
th
on the other side) and gently and slow the rub the whole area in a circle clockwise Do this for 2-3 minutes.
Now move down between her legs and slowly and sensuously kiss and lick her calves one at a time and slide your tongue up the inside her leg.
Lift up her legs one at a time and kiss, lick and gently suck the area on the side and back of her leg right behind her knee. This area is very sensitive and she will really enjoy this.(use enough pressure so that you don’t tickle her)
(Now you will move into the position in figure 5 below, or one that you find comfortable and allows you to use your tongue and hands at the same time.)
Move up to her inner thigh and very slowly kiss and lick and suck her inner thighs one at a time. Vary your kissing and licking. And here is a good stroke for you to use that you might not have used before. Gently suck the skin on her inner thigh near her knee and with out breaking the suction slide your mouth all the way up to the top of her leg where it meets her pubic area. To do this you will have to lick the area where you will be sliding your mouth and get the area very wet first.
At this point her vagina will be almost dripping wet. But you are still going to tease her some more until she is like a bubbling volcano about to erupt. So now move your mouth up to the area around her vulva (the external vaginal area). Kiss, lick and suck all around both sides along the area next to her vulva. Lick her there with long sweeping strokes with your tongue, kiss, suck and lick her all over the area next to her vulva. Do the same to the other side and right above and below her vagina on her perineum (the space below her vagina and above her anus, This area is very sensitive and she will love it!) Do this for a 2-3 minutes and she will want you to lick her clit so bad she won’t be able to stand it.
After you have teased her for a while as described in step 9 slowly start licking, kissing and sucking on her outer vaginal lips. Then lick with long strokes up and down the outside, on, and inside of each lip.
Now make your tongue as wide as possible and lick her from the very bottom of her anus to the very top of her clitoral hood (it’s the same motion you would use as if you were licking an ice cream cone. Use your tongue to tease her anus, with quick darting motions. Do this for a couple of minutes.
Start to focus on her clitoris directly now. You can lick up and down or side to side, or make circles with your tongue around and around her clit. Listen to her and find out what she likes and when she says "oh yeah, Right There!" or something to that effect you know you are on the right track so don’t do anything different. Just keep doing the same thing.
Now add in the G-spot stimulation in the following manner. Very slowly start to gently touch the opening of her vagina with one of your fingers (either your index or middle finger will work best) while you continue clitoral stimulation with your mouth. Slowly rotate your finger around the opening over her vagina. At this point you are just teasing her vagina and your finger should not be in her any further than ½". She may start to push her vagina closer to you bringing your finger deeper into her, but don’t go any deeper than the ½" at this time.
REMEMBER
you are in control right now (It’s a great feeling to be in control when you are with a women…lol) and you are the one who is bringing her great pleasure so just keep up the teasing and clitoral stimulation and if she start to cum you can do one of the following:
Let her cum and wait another 90 seconds to 2 minutes before resuming direct stimulation.
Stop stimulation and not let her cum. Kiss her and let her cool down just a bit for about 20-30 seconds and start stimulation again. By doing this you will increase her sexual tension and bring her arousal and anticipation up even higher.
As you continue clitoral stimulation with your mouth, slowly slide your finger another ½" into her vagina. So now you are about 1" inside her. Keep doing the circular teasing and also in and out motion. Do this for another minute or so.
Then slide your finger in another ½" deeper and start to rub the top wall of her vagina with the pad (where your finger print is) of your finger with very light pressure in a circular clockwise motion. Do this as continue oral stimulation of her clit for 2 minutes.
Slide your finger into her ½"-1" more, so now you are about 1 ½" inches to 2" inches inside her, about up to your second knuckle. Now try to feel for her G- Spot on the top wall of her vagina (remember it should be a slightly swollen area about the size of a dime.) massage it very gently with a come here motion with your finger. Continue to do this and at the some time continue to stimulate her clit with your tongue. As she gets more and more turned on and closer to a G-spot orgasm you can increase the amount of pressure you are using. Continue this for a few minutes. (Always make sure that she is very well lubricated either with her vaginal juices or from your saliva)
At this time you will want to add a second finger slowly and then continue the same stroke.
You will want to try different level of pressure, speed and strokes as you learned in the
GSA Stimulation Manual Strokes
section. You maybe thrusting your fingers in and out of the GSA sliding your fingertips along the G-spot it’s self or making a vibratory movement with your fingertips with constant pressure on her G-spot. Try it all, be creative and see what your lover responds to best you may discover something that works great for your lover that I have not covered here. But at this point you must keep both your tongue and your fingers moving and overload her with stimulation,
BUT DON’T LET HER HAVE AN ORGASM YET!
If she starts to get too close to climaxing, back off for a minute.
Now when she is very close to orgasm, you are going lube one of your other fingers up with your saliva or a lubricant. And then slide it into her ass. To do this you might have to change your hand position and fingers that you were using to stimulate her G-spot. You want to end up with your index and 2
nd
finger inside her vagina working her G-spot and either your 3
rd
or 4
th
(pinky) finger inside her ass. To do this you will have to turn your had so that it is almost vertical with your thumb facing up.
With your hand in this position you will be using your first two fingers to stimulate her G-spot as best as you can, because at this angel it will be hard to hit it exactly. And you stimulating her ass with your 3
rd
or pinky finger and licking & sucking her clit with your tongue and mouth. Continue until she cums which should be soon now! She will have a great 3 way blended
orgasm!
You might be thinking that this is similar to one of the techniques for producing G-spot stimulation. But the difference is this is a technique that is done 100% by you without any help from her or a vibrator and that is a big difference. You gave her this pleasure. Also this can be use on a girl the first time you meet her and with out vibrators. How ever if you would like to add one vibrator use the option below and it is still 100% use even the use of the vibrator.
OPTIONAL: As an option instead of using your 3
rd
finger up her ass. You could slide either a mini bullet vibrator or another type of mini vibrator. This will let you free up your hand so that you can concentrate more on her G-spot while the vibrator works on her ass. This will also give her an amazing orgasm!
So that is it use these techniques in good health and Great Pleasure! And Don’t forget to tell me of your experiences. You can e-mail me at
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