Female Ejaculation and the G-Spot (50 page)

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Exercise For Breathing:
Lie on your back and place your hand on your abdomen and inhale into your abdomen instead of your chest. You will feel your hand moving up and down on your abdomen. Inhale and exhale 10 times until you are sure you are breathing into your abdomen and not your chest. Then breath normal again. Now try it again sitting up and then standing. Make sure you are able to do it in all 3 positions.

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Exercise for speaking #1:
Speak as you normally do. Now place your hand on your chest and try to speak from your chest rather than your throat. You will feel the vibrations in your chest get stronger and the pitch of your voice should become lower. Try speaking like this and try to use it as the normal way that you speak. Don’t over do it by trying to hard to speak low. That is not the goal but rather the goal is to speak from the diaphragm instead of the throat.

Practice speaking like this and notice how people will treat you differently when you have a more powerful commanding voice.

How To Talk Dirty And Turn Your Lover On

Now that you have a new and powerful erotic voice you need to lean how to talk to turn your lover on. As I said before all women are different and some will get incredibly turned on when you talk dirty to them and others will get offended and turned off.

Men for the most part will love it when you talk dirty to them in any sexual situation. The one time that some men are turned of is if you are with a women and every other work out of her mouth is fuck, cock sucker etc…. It comes off cheap and low class. But in the right place at the right time we as men love it!

You must learn how to intuit what each man or woman desires. One way is to ask them sometime. Just ask them “Does talking dirty during sex turn you on?” If he or she says yes ask, like what? See what they say! Ask him or her if there is anything you could say that would offend them so you could avoid saying that.

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Exercise for speaking #2:
Speak with your new voice in the sexiest tone possible.

Say the phrases below normally and then say them with feeling. Feel the meaning of the phrase let the feeling come through your tonality. Try in a soft whisper, a moderate voice and a loud commanding voice. Try as many ways as possible. First say each line below completely monotone and the use the sexiest tone possible and see what a difference it makes.

Men, Say:

“You turn me on so much” “I want you right now!”

“I have to have you right now!” “I want to be inside you”

“I am going to lick you all over!”

“I am going to fuck your brains out!” “I want to eat your Pussy!”

“God, I love your Pussy!” “I love Fucking you!” “Suck My Cock!”

“Your mouth feels so good on my cock!”

“I am going to fuck your brains out when we get home!” “You feel so good”

“I love you”

(And of course make up your own)

Women, Say:

“You turn me on so much” “I want you right now!”

“I have to have you right now!” “I want you inside me”

“I am going to lick you all over!”

“I am going to fuck your brains out!” “I want to suck your cock!”

“God, I love your Cock!!!” “I love Fucking you!”

“Eat My Pussy!”

“Your mouth feels so good on my pussy or ass!”

I want you to Fuck my brains out when we get home!” “You feel so good”

“I love you”

(And of course make up your own)

Learn to use your voice and your words like an artist would use he’s paints and brushes. Your voice is like a paintbrush, which can change in size and texture and your words are the different color and hues of paint. With your words and voice you can create strong emotions and desires in your lover(s).

You can and should use this powerful new tool before, during and after sex. Use them as aural foreplay. There is more power than you know in your voice and words.

So the next time you see your lover use your new voice and say something like “You turn me on so much, I want you right now!”

Incredible Bonus #2 (For Men & Women)

“How to Turn Your Partner On So Much That They Will Be Begging You For Sex!” By Mark Simon

One of the keys to Great Sex is being able to really turn your partner on and getting them to a very high state of arousal. And one of the tools we can use to create this high state of arousal in our partners is anticipation.

Anticipation builds desire. Think about a time in the past when there was something you really wanted and you were able to just go and get it.

Now think about a time when there was something you wanted but you had to wait to get it. It could be anything a new car, a toy you were waiting to get or a person you wanted to have sex with, kiss or date.

Now in the first case, sure it was nice to be able to just go and get it. But the impact it had on you after you got it was probably not as powerful as the time that you had to wait for what it was that you really wanted. When you had to wait you for what is was that you wanted. You would look forward to getting it everyday. You would think about it, imagine what it would be like to have it. And your desire for it grew!

Now there is too much of a good thing also. If you have to wait too long to get what ever it is you want. You may actually lose the desire for it all together and lose interest. Or you may create and build up your expectations so high that when you do get it the actual experience does not compare with your fantasy and expectations. This often what happens when women make men wait too long to have sex with them, they lose interest or once they do they think “Well that really was not that big a deal. Why did I go through all of that bullshit for this?”

So the key is balance. What we want to do is to build expectation, anticipation and desire in the course of only a few hours. To turn your partner on and let him/her simmer for a while anticipating the sex they are going to get later tonight. This will work both on new partners and partners whom you have been with for awhile. But you should have had sex with them at least once already.

If you have not had sex with them yet and you are a man using the technique on a woman, you might get slapped or it may work depending on her mood. If you are a woman it will still work most of the time and even if it seems out of place most women won’t get mad at a women for making sexual advances. (Anyone else see the double standard here?)

Do not use these techniques unless you plan to follow through and have sex with the person or it will backfire and cause resentment toward you.

Techniques For Men:

Technique #1: Creating Anticipation Verbally

Use this when you and your woman are out on the town, out with friends or at a friend’s house or a party (in fact the more public the place you are in the better as it creates more of a secret and more tension because you can not act on the desire right then.)

Pull her a side and whisper in her ear in your sexiest voice and complement her and tell her that when you get her alone or home you are going to do her favorite sexual activity to her. If possible you should grab her ass and squeeze it when you do this or rub her pussy through her clothes. Be discrete so that no one will see this and only the two of you will know.

Examples:

The two of you are at a dinner party with friends and you walk over to her and whisper in her ear,
“You look so Hot tonight! As soon as I get you alone I am going to rip you panties off and lick your pussy till beg me to stop!”

OR

The two of you are out at a restaurant with friends and you lean over and whisper in a slow and sexy voice
“When I get you home I am going to make you squirt all over me!”
( This is a good one have you have mastered the techniques in this manual)

OR

You are both out at mall or other public place and you whisper
“God, just looking at you is turning me on so much! I am going to give you a fucking of a lifetime when I get you home!”

Technique #2: Advanced Creating Verbal Anticipation with Descriptive Language.
This technique builds on the previous one by taking it one step farther and being very descriptive in your wording. Women in general are more descriptive then men in their conversations and respond better to descriptive language. So tell her exactly what you are going to do to her while you are once again touching her as you did in the first technique.

Examples:

The two of you are out with friends and you lean over to her and whisper in her ear,

“You look so Hot tonight! As soon as I get you alone I am going to rip you panties off with my teeth….. and slide my tongue all the way up your inner thigh, until I reach you delicious dripping wet pussy….then I am going to suck on your clit until you come all over my face!”

OR

The two of you are out for dinner and you lean over to her and whisper in her ear in your sexiest voice and say
“When I get you home I am going to tie you up and lick every inch of you sexy body!”

OR

The two of you are out shopping and you lean over to her and whisper in her ear

“When we get home, I am going to bend you over and slide my hard throbbing cock into that tight little pussy of yours and fuck your brains out!”

Optional But Powerful:
Whether you can use this technique this optional technique will depend on where you are and how much privacy you have. As you are whispering in her ear, if you are alone at a table and she is wearing a short skirt (which you can make sure of by telling her to wear one. Also if you want to you can tell her not to wear any underwear)

As you whisper into her ear, put your fingers on her pussy, if she is wet slide one in. If she is not wet lick your finger or put it into her mouth and then slide it inside her pussy, then kiss her as you are doing this. Then bring the finger back out and put it into you mouth like you are enjoying her flavor and tell her how much you wanted to taste her and how much you want to lick her when you get home. This will drive her wild!

Technique #3: Advanced Creating Verbal Anticipation With a Surprise!

In this technique you use the promise of a surprise to create the anticipation. When someone tells you that they have a surprise for you can’t help but to think about it. But a surprise could mean a gift and could be anything from tickets to a concert to a new car. So that what you must do when you tell her that you have a surprise is that you
must use
the sexiest voice possible. And when you get back to your place or where ever you are going to give her the surprise you must make it a surprise worth looking forward to. You can’t tell her that you have a surprise and then just have sex with her.

“Surprise were home now suck my dick” Will Not Work! It needs to be a really great surprise.

Surprise Ideas:

• Tie Her Up:
  If she has been wanting for you to tie her up, that is a good surprise. Even if she has not mentioned it most women will find it exciting and enjoy some light bondage. Go out and buy some restraints and lay them out and set up the room with candles.
  

• Spank Her:
  If she has been wanting you to spank her and you have not done it yet, then now would be a good time to do it. A light spanking might be fun for both of you in fact and would go good with some light bondage.
  

• Give Her An Ejaculatory Orgasm:
  This is a good time to use the new bullet vibrator to give her an ejaculatory orgasm as directed earlier in the manual.
  

• Buy Some Sex Toys:
  Stop by a sex shop on the way home and the two of you pick out some toys to use on each other! I suggest that you buy the bullet vibrator and give her an ejaculatory orgasm if she has one yet!
  

  Find out what she likes and wants and then do it for her. But whatever you choose it
  must be
  something out of the ordinary! Or it will ruin the effect and let her down after looking forward to the surprise all night long and you will not ever be able to use the surprise technique on her again.
  

  Examples:
  

  The two of you are out to dinner and you lean over to her and whisper in her ear, in your absolutely most sexual voice and say
  “Guess what? I have a surprise for you when we get home tonight!”
  Then when you get home, she walks in and see candles arranged all around the room. You walk her over to a mattress in the center of the room and start to light the candles one by one. (WARNING: never leave candles lit when you are not present) You undress her and lie her down on the mattress and give her a full body massage, then you both take the niacin tablets (see the supplement section in the manual) and give her an ejaculation orgasm and have hot sex.
  

  OR
  

  The two of you are out with friends and you lean over to her and whisper in her ear in your absolutely most sexual voice and say
  “After dinner I have a surprise for you!”
  and then just continue your conversation with your friends. If she asks about it, just say
  “I’ll tell you later, I told you it’s a surprise!”
  Then take her to a nice hotel or a private Jacuzzi tub center where they rent out the hot tubs by the hour.
  

  Now the reason all of these techniques work is that you are putting an image in her mind with either your descriptive language or making her very curious with the promise of a surprise and this will keep her thinking of the image that you described to her in detail or of the surprise you have promised.
  

  The final ingredient to making all of these techniques work is that you must actually deliver on what you are promising. So if you tell her what you are going to do to her then you must make sure you do it or she will be very let down and you will never be able to use these techniques with her again.
  

  Don’t promise that you are going to fuck her brains out if you are one of those guys that suffer from premature ejaculation and can only last 2 minutes! (If you have a problem with premature ejaculation visit
  http://www.greatlovers.com
  ) Don’t tell her that you are going to lick her pussy all night long and then do it for only 5 minutes, and If you tell her you have a surprise it better be a good one not just everyday sex!
  

  Techniques For Women:
  

  Technique #1: Creating Anticipation Verbally
  

  Use this when you and your guy are out on the town, out with friends or at a friend’s house or a party (in fact the more public the place you are in the better as it creates more of a secret and more tension because you can not act on the desire right then.)
  

  Pull him a sideand whisper in his ear in your sexiest voice and complement him and tell him that when you get him alone or home you are going to do his favorite sexual activity to him. If possible you should grab his ass and squeeze it when you do this or rub his cock through his clothes. Be discrete so that no one will see this and only the two of you will know.
  

  Examples:
  

  The two of you are at a dinner party with friends and you walk over to him and whisper in his ear,
  “Your so good looking tonight! And just looking at you is turning me on sooo much! As soon as I get you alone I am going to suck your cock like there is no tomorrow, till beg me to stop!”
  

  OR
  

  The two of you are out at a restaurant with friends and you lean over and whisper in a slow and sexy voice
  “I want your cock so badly right now! I can’t wait to feel you inside me.”
  

  OR
  

  You are both out at mall or other public place and you whisper
  “God, just looking at you is turning me on so much! I am going to give you a fucking of a lifetime when I get you home!”
  

  Technique #2: Advanced Creating Verbal Anticipation with Descriptive Language.
  This technique builds on the previous one by taking it one step farther and being very descriptive in your wording. Women in general are more descriptive then men in their conversations and respond better to descriptive language. But this will work equally well on men as long as you really use a sexy voice.. So tell him exactly what you are going to do to him while you are once again touching him as you did in the first technique.
  

  Examples:
  

  The two of you are out with friends and you lean over to him and whisper in his ear, (while you say the following you should be rubbing his cock through his clothes)
  “You look so Hot tonight! As soon as I get you alone I am going to run my tongue all over you balls…and then lick all the way up the shaft of your cock. Then I am going to
  

  suck your big meaty cock so hard…Oh God just thinking about it is making my pussy so wet.
  

  OR
  

  The two of you are out for dinner and you lean over to her and whisper in her ear in your sexiest voice and say
  “When I get you home I am going to tie you up and lick every inch of you sexy body!”
  

  OR
  

  The two of you are out shopping and you lean over to her and whisper in her ear
  

  “When we get home, I am going to bend you over and slide my hard throbbing cock into that tight little pussy of yours and fuck your brains out!”
  

  Optional But Powerful:
  Whether you can use this technique this optional technique will depend on where you are and how much privacy you have and what you are wearing. I suggest that you wear either a short skirt with a g-string or no panties at all. Or pants with no panties so that you have easy access to reach your pussy.
  

  As you any of the above techniques and are whispering into his ear, put your hand on his cock on the out side of his clothes and rub it. Then either while you are whispering in his ear or right after you finish take your finger and reach down in side your pants or up your skirt and slide you finger into your pussy, pull it back out and put it into his mouth. If you are not wet, before you put your finger in his mouth put it in yours first and then his. Do this seductively as possible. It will drive him absolutely wild!
  

  Technique #3: Advanced Creating Verbal Anticipation With a Surprise!
  

  In this technique you use the promise of a surprise to create the anticipation. When someone tells you that they have a surprise for you can’t help but to think about it. But a surprise could mean a gift and could be anything from tickets to a concert to a new car. So that when you tell him that you have a surprise for him, you
  must use
  the sexiest voice possible. And when you get back to your place or where ever you are going to give him the surprise you must make it a surprise worth looking forward to. You can’t tell him that you have a surprise and then just have sex with him unless this is your very first time having sex.
  

  “Surprise were home now let’s have sex!” Will Not Work! It needs to be really great surprise.
  

  Surprise Ideas:
  

• Tie Him Up:
  If he has been wanting for you to tie him up that is a good surprise. Some light bondage would be a good surprise. Go and buy some restraints and lay them out and set up the room with candles.
  

• Anal Sex:
  If his has been wanting to have anal sex with you and you say “Surprise I want to have anal sex” Or “ I want you to fuck me in my ass!” (IF you want to learn the right and very pleasurable way to have anal sex visit
  http://www.howtohaveanalsex.com
  ) That is a great surprise!
  

• You Swallow:
  If he has always wanted to cum in your mouth and have you swallow but you have not done it yet. Now is a good time, that is a great surprise and honor to him. (Just make sure you know that he is HIV & STD free first)
  

• Strip For Him
  Men love to watch strippers. Go to a strip club alone or with your girlfriends and then watch the girls and learn what they do, then strip for him. You can also take him to the strip club and watch the girls together!