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Chapter 9—Fire and Ice
1
1 Samuel 20:34.
1 Samuel 20:34.
2
Jonah 1:9.
Jonah 1:9.
3
Jonah 1:17.
Jonah 1:17.
4
Jonah 4:1.
Jonah 4:1.
5
Luke 10:40.
Luke 10:40.
6
Luke 10:41-42.
Luke 10:41-42.
7
Matthew 6:25.
Matthew 6:25.
8
Matthew 6:27.
Matthew 6:27.
9
Matthew 11:28-30.
Matthew 11:28-30.
10
Proverbs 15:1.
Proverbs 15:1.
11
Louis Lalleman, Jean-Pierre de Caussade, and Claude De La Colombiere,
For God’s Greater Glory: Gems of Jesuit Spirituality
, Jean-Pierre Lafouge, ed. (Bloomington, IN: World Wisdom, 2006), p. 71.
Louis Lalleman, Jean-Pierre de Caussade, and Claude De La Colombiere,
For God’s Greater Glory: Gems of Jesuit Spirituality
, Jean-Pierre Lafouge, ed. (Bloomington, IN: World Wisdom, 2006), p. 71.
Chapter 10—Self-Inflicted Flames
1
1 John 1:9.
1 John 1:9.
2
William Joseph Federer,
America’s God and Country: Encyclopedia of Quotations
(St. Louis, MO: Amerisearch, 1994), p. 294.
William Joseph Federer,
America’s God and Country: Encyclopedia of Quotations
(St. Louis, MO: Amerisearch, 1994), p. 294.
3
James 1:12.
James 1:12.
4
Jeremiah 29:11.
Jeremiah 29:11.
5
Isaiah 59:2.
Isaiah 59:2.
6
Romans 3:23.
Romans 3:23.
7
Romans 6:23.
Romans 6:23.
8
See 2 Peter 3:9.
See 2 Peter 3:9.
9
Romans 5:8.
Romans 5:8.
10
See John 10:18 and Matthew 20:28.
See John 10:18 and Matthew 20:28.
11
John 14:6.
John 14:6.
12
Philippians 4:13.
Philippians 4:13.
13
John 7:38.
John 7:38.
14
1 Corinthians 15:34.
1 Corinthians 15:34.
15
James 4:10.
James 4:10.
16
Ezekiel 11:19.
Ezekiel 11:19.
17
John 5:24.
John 5:24.
18
See Isaiah 61:3.
See Isaiah 61:3.
Chapter 11—Fuming at the Father
1
“Man ‘Angry at God’ Drives Minivan into Church Sanctuary,” Catholic News Agency, February 21, 2008. Additional background information: Hudson Sangree, “Minivan Plows into Church,”
Sacramento Bee,
February 21, 2008.
“Man ‘Angry at God’ Drives Minivan into Church Sanctuary,” Catholic News Agency, February 21, 2008. Additional background information: Hudson Sangree, “Minivan Plows into Church,”
Sacramento Bee,
February 21, 2008.
2
Aristotle,
The Nicomachean Ethics
, 2.9, translated by J.A.K. Thomson, revised by Hugh Tredennick (New York: Penguin Classics, 2004), p. 48.
Aristotle,
The Nicomachean Ethics
, 2.9, translated by J.A.K. Thomson, revised by Hugh Tredennick (New York: Penguin Classics, 2004), p. 48.
3
Job 23:2-4.
Job 23:2-4.
4
Genesis 3:1.
Genesis 3:1.
5
Genesis 3:4-5.
Genesis 3:4-5.
6
James 1:17.
James 1:17.
7
1 John 1:9.
1 John 1:9.
8
Psalm 116:5.
Psalm 116:5.
9
Daniel 4:35.
Daniel 4:35.
10
Mark 14:34-36 ESV.
Mark 14:34-36 ESV.
11
Luke 22:42.
Luke 22:42.
12
Romans 8:28.
Romans 8:28.
13
Helen Roseveare,
Living Faith
(Minneapolis: Bethany House, 1980), p
.
27.
Helen Roseveare,
Living Faith
(Minneapolis: Bethany House, 1980), p
.
27.
14
Roseveare,
Living Faith,
p
.
27.
Roseveare,
Living Faith,
p
.
27.
15
Helen Roseveare,
Give Me This Mountain
(London: InterVarsity Fellowship, 1966), p. 144.
Helen Roseveare,
Give Me This Mountain
(London: InterVarsity Fellowship, 1966), p. 144.
16
Roseveare,
Give Me This Mountain
, p. 148.
Roseveare,
Give Me This Mountain
, p. 148.
17
Roseveare,
Give Me This Mountain
.
Roseveare,
Give Me This Mountain
.
18
Roseveare,
Give Me This Mountain
.
Roseveare,
Give Me This Mountain
.
19
The following narrative is adapted from Helen Roseveare, “Why Does a God of Love Allow Suffering?” (Barrie, Ontario: Woman Alive, n.d.), audiocassette.
The following narrative is adapted from Helen Roseveare, “Why Does a God of Love Allow Suffering?” (Barrie, Ontario: Woman Alive, n.d.), audiocassette.
20
Quote taken from Noel Piper “Helen Roseveare: Faithful in Loss,”
Faithful Women and Their Extraordinary God
(Wheaton, IL: Crossway Books, 2005), p. 166. For a concise retelling of Helen’s story, this book is a helpful and inspiring resource.
Quote taken from Noel Piper “Helen Roseveare: Faithful in Loss,”
Faithful Women and Their Extraordinary God
(Wheaton, IL: Crossway Books, 2005), p. 166. For a concise retelling of Helen’s story, this book is a helpful and inspiring resource.
21
Roseveare,
Living Faith
, p. 69.
Roseveare,
Living Faith
, p. 69.
22
Excerpted from Dr. Helen Roseveare, “Why Does a God of Love Allow Suffering?” audiocassette.
Excerpted from Dr. Helen Roseveare, “Why Does a God of Love Allow Suffering?” audiocassette.
Chapter 13—Cooler Heads Prevail
1
Arizona Republic
, April 25, 1995.
Arizona Republic
, April 25, 1995.
2
Thomas Jefferson, as quoted in
Respectfully Quoted: A Dictionary of Quotations
, Suzy Platt, ed. (New York: Barnes & Noble, 1989), p. 213.
Thomas Jefferson, as quoted in
Respectfully Quoted: A Dictionary of Quotations
, Suzy Platt, ed. (New York: Barnes & Noble, 1989), p. 213.
3
1 Peter 1:13; 3:8-9.
1 Peter 1:13; 3:8-9.
4
Psalm 26:2.
Psalm 26:2.
5
2 Corinthians 10:5.
2 Corinthians 10:5.
6
1 Chronicles 28:9.
1 Chronicles 28:9.
7
On the three God-given inner needs, see Lawrence J. Crabb, Jr.,
Understanding People: Deep Longings for Relationship
(Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1987), pp. 15-16; Robert S. McGee,
The Search for Significance
, 2d ed. (Houston, TX: Rapha, 1990), pp. 27-30.
On the three God-given inner needs, see Lawrence J. Crabb, Jr.,
Understanding People: Deep Longings for Relationship
(Grand Rapids: Zondervan, 1987), pp. 15-16; Robert S. McGee,
The Search for Significance
, 2d ed. (Houston, TX: Rapha, 1990), pp. 27-30.
8
Philippians 4:19.
Philippians 4:19.
9
Psalm 118:6.
Psalm 118:6.
10
Philippians 2:3-4.
Philippians 2:3-4.
11
John 16:13.
John 16:13.
12
Philippians 4:7.
Philippians 4:7.
13
Proverbs 21:29.
Proverbs 21:29.
14
Ecclesiastes 3:1,7.
Ecclesiastes 3:1,7.
15
Colossians 4:6.
Colossians 4:6.
Chapter 14—Creative Combustion
1
Romans 12:2 ESV.
Romans 12:2 ESV.
2
See Richard W. Etulain,
César Chávez
(New York: Macmillan, 2002), p. 117.
See Richard W. Etulain,
César Chávez
(New York: Macmillan, 2002), p. 117.
3
Dan La Botz,
César Chávez and La Causa
(London: Longman, 2005), p. 7.
Dan La Botz,
César Chávez and La Causa
(London: Longman, 2005), p. 7.
4
Peter Matthiessen,
Sal si puedes (Escape if you can): César Chávez and the New American Revolution
(Berkeley, CA: University of California Press, 2000), p. x.
Peter Matthiessen,
Sal si puedes (Escape if you can): César Chávez and the New American Revolution
(Berkeley, CA: University of California Press, 2000), p. x.
5
La Botz,
César Chávez and La Causa
, p. 175.
La Botz,
César Chávez and La Causa
, p. 175.
Chapter 15—Bomb Squad Basics
1
Ephesians 4:30-31.
Ephesians 4:30-31.
2
Ephesians 5:22.
Ephesians 5:22.
3
Marie M. Fortune,
Keeping the Faith: Questions and Answers for the Abused Woman
(San Francisco: Harper & Row, 1991), pp. 28-29.
Marie M. Fortune,
Keeping the Faith: Questions and Answers for the Abused Woman
(San Francisco: Harper & Row, 1991), pp. 28-29.
4
See Kay Marshall Strom,
In the Name of Submission
(Portland, OR: Multnomah Publishers, 1985), p. 56.
See Kay Marshall Strom,
In the Name of Submission
(Portland, OR: Multnomah Publishers, 1985), p. 56.
5
See Strom,
In the Name of Submission,
pp. 56-58.
See Strom,
In the Name of Submission,
pp. 56-58.
6
Matthew 7:9-11.
Matthew 7:9-11.
7
See 1 Peter 1:6-7.
See 1 Peter 1:6-7.
8
Ephesians 4:2-3 ESV.
Ephesians 4:2-3 ESV.
9
John Cook, as cited in
The Book of Positive Quotations
, Steve Deger and Leslie Ann Gibson, eds. (Minneapolis: Fairview Press, 2007), p. 261.
John Cook, as cited in
The Book of Positive Quotations
, Steve Deger and Leslie Ann Gibson, eds. (Minneapolis: Fairview Press, 2007), p. 261.
Chapter 16—Quenching the Coals
1
Matthew 22:37.
Matthew 22:37.
2
Psalm 26:2.
Psalm 26:2.
3
Romans 12:2.
Romans 12:2.
4
1 Peter 1:13.
1 Peter 1:13.
5
Psalm 119:9,11 TLB.
Psalm 119:9,11 TLB.
6
Matthew 12:35.
Matthew 12:35.
7
Proverbs 25:11.
Proverbs 25:11.
8
This story was adapted from J. Oswald Sanders, “How Do You Love?”
Discipleship Journal
, March/April 1981. To learn more about the life of the great hymn writer and poet, see
Frances Ridley Havergal: A Full Sketch of Her Life
by Edward Davies and
Memorials of Frances Ridley Havergal
by Maria Vernon Graham Havergal (her sister).
This story was adapted from J. Oswald Sanders, “How Do You Love?”
Discipleship Journal
, March/April 1981. To learn more about the life of the great hymn writer and poet, see
Frances Ridley Havergal: A Full Sketch of Her Life
by Edward Davies and
Memorials of Frances Ridley Havergal
by Maria Vernon Graham Havergal (her sister).
Chapter 17—The Refiner’s Fire
1
1 Corinthians 13:4-5.
1 Corinthians 13:4-5.
2
Malachi 3:3.
Malachi 3:3.
3
Deuteronomy 31:8.
Deuteronomy 31:8.
4
Philippians 4:19.
Philippians 4:19.
5
Jeremiah 6:30.
Jeremiah 6:30.
6
Henry Ward Beecher as quoted in Roy B. Zuck,
The Speaker’s Quote Book: Over 4,500 Illustrations and Quotations for All Occasions
(Grand Rapids: Kregel Publications, 1997), p. 13.
Henry Ward Beecher as quoted in Roy B. Zuck,
The Speaker’s Quote Book: Over 4,500 Illustrations and Quotations for All Occasions
(Grand Rapids: Kregel Publications, 1997), p. 13.
7
Malachi 3:3.
Malachi 3:3.
8
1 Peter 1:6-7.
1 Peter 1:6-7.
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