March With Venus: 94 Love Games (Book 7) (11 page)

Learn to wait and hope.

Be patient if your partner does not open up to your love game, or worse, does not condone it.

Some things take time, so wait. At the right moment, if it’s meant to be, things will happen naturally.

If your partner is reader, he or she will take the first step to help you implement your romantic reverie.

Not long ago, I received a fantastic email from Judith K., a self-described New Age aficionada.

She has read two of my books on success and happiness and wanted to tell me her ‘side’ of the happiness story.

Long story short, she has spent the last 42 years – she is 53 now – searching for her parents.

The family, for reasons she did not elaborate, were separated when Judith was 7 years old, and she ultimately was placed in the Texas Social Services system.

She grew up in foster care and felt throughout her adult life that something was missing, that she needed to know and talk to her own parents to become a better mom.

In short, she needed closure.

She waited for many decades, prayed every day about it, spent countless hours on the Internet, and barnstormed as many social services offices as available throughout the whole Texas.

But the result was pathetically poor.

She never gave up, though, hoping that one day things would turn her way, and that fate would be on her side.

Guess what?

She was rewarded not long ago...by serendipity.

I would say ‘karma’!

Someone she has helped many years earlier and who now works in the Kentucky social services system was able to track her parents’ information down.

Today, she is reunited with her folks and basks in familial bliss, taking each day at the time and hoping for the best.

That’s the power of ‘wait and hope.’

As you roll through life, you will see that power,’ especially in circumstances in which human ability is limited – and goodness only knows there are so many of those!

Thankfulness often means patience combined with hope.

Learn to wait and hope in everything you do, but at first you need to give it your all. For example, when you work on something, be as thorough and committed as possible.

After giving it your all, just wait and hope. If something is yours, it will come your way sooner and later. And sometimes there is a reason why that thing – which you think should be yours – is not materializing fast enough.

That is simply because the universe follows its own energy flows, enmeshed in our collective mental energy – and others involved in your destiny are not yet able and ready to help you fulfill your dream.

Learn to wait.

Appreciate what you have.

This is another favorite quote of mine, although I sometimes find it difficult to follow that axiom.

Yeah, we live in a society that surrounds us with obsessive images of a better life centered on material possessions — a sophisticated PR machined pushed by equally sophisticated capitalistic interests.

But you know what?

It works.

And we all fall for it —including me, of all people.

Sometimes I want more, more and more of the same thing…even though I know I don’t need that much.

I have discovered an effective and easy way to be content about what you have, and I talked about it at length in
The Power of Patience: 96 Traits of Highly Effective People — A Dip In the Minds of Successful Folk, From Leaders to Laymen
(
The Wheel of Wisdom, Book 5
)

I also talked previously about appreciating what others do to you.

Here I want you to learn to be pleased about what you already have, what God has given you.

I am talking about the talent you have, and what you can do with it, especially how you can marshal your skills to improve your own life but also the lives of others.

We all have talent, whether it is a discovered skill or a latent talent. It is always in there, in you.

Learn to appreciate what you have.

Accept what you are given, and do the best with who you are.

Life problems and struggles, more than achievements and successes, help you expand your potential. Addressing and overcoming pain helps you connect with who you really are and build on that.

The good thing about life is, we are allowed to make mistakes and learn from them to improve, grow and reach our full potential.

To insert the right energy flow within your couple and bring the old flame back, see
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00L0N6O6U

Four Bonus Scenarios He or She Will Not Believe You Dared!

2 hidden, dirty sexual fancies your wife, fiancée or girlfriend has:

-Having a sex slave

-Sex in an airplane

2 hidden, dirty sexual fancies your husband, fiancé or boyfriend nurtures:

-Spontaneous blowjob while he is videogaming

-You pick him up while he’s with friends at a bar, make spicy love to him, and drive him back to the bar

You can implement these games even with someone you met online; for more, see
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00LOWZZ0I

How to Implement the Games

To fulfill one or more of the sexual scenarios listed in this book, pay attention to these seven elements.

You need them to attain romantic bliss and reach the seventh heaven.

Also, make sure your partner fully understands whatever you do, and that the practice does not veer too much off when compared to your partner’s belief system and your own.

The seven keys to sexual satisfaction lie in geography and time along with the five senses.

Location

Make sure the location is appropriate for the fantasy. Even if I talked about sex in public, not every area is conducive to carrying out acts of unbridled erotica. Places to exclude are schools and children’s playgrounds as well as the vicinity and premises of religious locales, among others.

Time

Find the proper time to fulfill your fantasy. No matter the time of the day, ensure it does not negatively affect your partner. For example, to implement the ‘sex in the middle of the night’ scenario, make sure your lover is not too tired or stressed.

Vision

To arouse your lover, pay attention to the way you look.

Smell

Heed the smells of your body, and surround yourselves with the proper aroma, the kind that elicits sensual urges.

Touch

Hold your sweetheart gently and affectionately, no matter the sexual scenario you want to implement. Even if you want to play a dominatrix role or forcible sex roleplay, remember to be gentle, both in tone and manner.

Taste

How you taste affects how much your sweetheart would want to kiss you or receive oral sex from you (or give it to you).

Hearing

Create a romantic environment with music, and enhance the intensity of roleplay through kinky dialogue.

A Few More Things

Ok…that was another round of
profound
plays, wasn’t it?

Now, let’s review a few more things to help you be in the right mindset to enjoy the games and succeed while implementing them.

Have a bucket list.

I think that a bucket kicks the brain in an active mode, relegating to the backburner the lethargic elements – think passivity, risk and laziness – that keep our neurons in a passive mode.

You can apply the bucket list to almost anything in your life, including romance.

So here is a question for you: Are you ready for the ultimate trip of your life?

If tomorrow were your last day on Earth, what would you do today? What changes would you make, right now, as you are reading this book? Whom would you call, and what would you tell him or her?

This is not a far-fetched question, though. And I know society has death solidly established in its taboo list, the sort of thing you don’t talk about until…well, you have to.

But I see things differently, and I think it is valuable to plan your life quietly and effectively, and not worry too much about death or the afterlife.

As my grandpa once said “When you’re gone, you’re gone!”

At a minimum, you need to plan your life to avoid some slip-ups and have an optimal existence.

Big word here: optimal existence.

Let me clarify it.

An optimal existence is a life filled with happiness but also with the right amount of checked things on your To Do List.

See, you need a list of things to do. And then you need to check things off that list through hard work.

Some people like to have a To Do list because it makes them feel organized and actively working on something.

But that is a façade, a waste of time for…themselves.

Don’t fall for that. Write a bucket list, and try to complete it as much as you can.

Never take things for granted.

Don’t take your relationship or partner for granted.

Things change, you know?

Cynthia Ozick once said that “
we often take for granted the very things that most deserve our gratitude.”

This could not be truer! Most humans have amnesia when it comes to appreciating things and people that have rewarded them for a long time.

When something works perfectly, don’t forget how hard it was to set it up originally. Similarly, don’t be unruly or unappreciative of someone who has showered you with his or her love and affection for a long time.

Sometimes, saying thank you can do wonders in someone’s day, week…or life.