March With Venus: 94 Love Games (Book 7) (7 page)

15. With a subordinate

Your lady, especially if she is in a position of power, would want to be intimate with a subordinate.

The lower the subordinate’s hierarchical level, the better, as long as he has a gorgeous macho body, is cute, or has something completely ineffable that hooks your woman.

Females, like men, nurture these thoughts of sexual proximity with people on whom they have authority – just like (sex) slaves.

16. Being the man…for one night

You thought you were the man in your household, but your sweetie would want to clinch that role for one night.

Let her do it! Your lady wants to fulfill her dominatrix fantasy, wielding extraordinary physical and sexual power on you for a few hours.

She would want to give you commands, have you at her disposal, ready to gratify her, poised to also let her please you…whichever way you want.

Surprisingly, the dominatrix fantasy has nothing to do with your woman’s physique or socio-professional background.

Research has shown petite women nurturing dominatrix fantasies, and taller females finding the idea repulsive.

17. Rape fantasy

The rape fantasy comes again, but this time with you as the ‘rapist.’

Earlier, we touched on forced sex with a stranger, right?

Now, I want to touch on the fact that your woman would want you to act as someone who wants sex so much, and wants her so much, that he would do anything to conquer her and please her – while pleasing himself.

This role play works best if you have a dirty yet playful ‘fantasy name’ she could call you by, especially if the scenario entails a strange place and an unexpected circumstance.

18. Kitchen

Ah, the kitchen!

The place where the family is fed, and also where sensual desires are generated, especially after a succulent meal and a few drinks.

Your woman wants you to
surprise
her in the kitchen, but not with your culinary talents.

She imagines you coming from behind, asking her if she needed some help, while stressing the word
help.

With a soft voice and gentle gaze, she’d love to play along…and anything can happen from that moment.

19. Interracial

Interracial sex is fascinating yet still taboo in our society.

It is widely accepted publicly, but behind closed doors and around family dinner tables, the idea of cultural mixture is still frowned upon.

Which makes it all the more tantalizing…and appealing to your woman…She surreptitiously nurtures the idea of interracial intercourse, but would not dare express that view.

The racial setup for the fantasy does not matter much.

What does is the feeling of mating with a culturally different man, with his senses, habits and sexual stimuli.

20. Younger man

Your woman, especially if she is past a certain age, would want to mate with a younger man.

Don’t blame her, though.

You, as a man, have the same fantasy for younger women.

This one is a tough one because you cannot help her fulfill that fantasy if you are chronologically and biologically advanced yourself.

But a funny and subtle way to play ‘young’ is to think and act as a youngster.

You can incorporate that in role plays, depending on your desires and belief system.

21. Older man

Yes, you saw it coming.

Some ladies prefer young men, while others relish the company, maturity and sensual allure of older gents.

In fact, most women, if given the option, would go for an older, fit and cute guy.

Think of Denzel Washington, Brad Pitt or George Clooney.

Your sweetie wishes an older dude would make torrid love to her, and then gaze at her with the paternal look that is so comforting to many females.

22.  A well-endowed man

Most women opt for the safer road when asked if size does matter.

Very few would openly say that penile dimension is important for them, but survey after survey reveals that women have a vast compendium of fantasies around male endowment.

They check men’s ‘bumps’ at the beach, at work, in the train, but of course doing it more intelligently and secretly than men operate when they check women’s breasts or buttocks, for example.

The bottom line is, your woman dreams of being taken by a man who’s been blessed by biology and genetics – and the fantasy is even more boiling if the dude is a total stranger.

23. Orgy

Your lady might not be quick to admit it, but she would like to partake in group sex.

Again, this goes back to the idea of exhibitionism, voyeurism and the deep-held desire of being a pseudo X-rated celebrity. 

The more diverse the orgy, the better…

I’m talking in terms of male-female mix, cultural variety, professional background, etc.

24.  Sexless intercourse

As a man, you might not like this, but your woman – as most women – dreams of sexless intercourse.

She would want you to surprise her, hold her, kiss her, hug her, touch her, lick her…but not penetrate her.

The idea is to use everything on your body, except your genitalia, to thrust her onto cloud 9 or the seventh heaven, whichever you fancy.

This is an important fantasy in the female psyche, and it importance grows the older they get.

So, the sooner you understand this and use it appropriately in your foreplay and afterplay, the better that would be for your relationship.

25. Voyeurism

Your darling likes to watch others perform intimate acts – plain and simple.

And she would construct a whole set of fantastic scenarios around voyeurism.

This could be anything: neighbors having sex, strangers hugging in a train, X-rated material online, watching you furtively undress, etc.

Research shows that the more a woman’s parents were strict with sexual matters during childhood, the higher the voyeuristic interest she ultimately develops.

26. Paranormal erotica

Oh well…this is a good one!

You love sci-fi like me? Maybe yes, maybe no!

Whether or not your lover relishes the genre, she certainly has thought at least once about paranormal erotica.

I am not talking about abnormal, or deviant, sex. Paranormal sex is intercourse with entities and characters like ghosts, vampires, spirits and multifaceted elves.

The good news is, at least you would not feel like being cheated on if your woman ever fulfilled her fantasy for paranormal erotica.

You would not be, right?

27. Eat me…literally

I talked earlier about eating food on your lady’s body. Here I want to focus on a related, albeit distinct, fantasy.

She would want you to eat her, to take her body as food, and to consider it a delicacy – the caviar of the day, if you will.

She would want you to suck her nipples as you would your favorite soda, kiss her as passionately as you would eat your favorite chocolate bar, and give her oral sex as feverishly as you would devour your preferred meal.

28. Feed me!

Feed your woman with love, passion and unbridled sex.

She wants to be fed, in all meanings of the verb. But when it comes to fantasy, your lady would want to bring her breakfast – or lunch or dinner, it doesn’t matter – in bed, and then proceed to serve her in a romantic, selfless and loving way.

She then wants you to compliment her on how good she looks, how she acts, how she smiles…how she eats.

The fantasy does not have to lead to intercourse, and I would even advise against any intimate act at that moment.

Not all fantasies should lead to physical exchange, you know.

The end goal is to feel good and be happy for life and a strong relationship.

29. Pickup from work

This fantasy varies from one woman to another, but the gist is that her lover comes to her job, unannounced, and pretends there is an emergency.

Note of caution: Before you apply this scenario, make sure your lady has no cardiac issues or is not the type to dramatize things quickly.

So, your woman would want you to come to her job, pick her up, lead her to the ‘place’ of the emergency, and then make passionate love to her.

That ‘place’ could be a hotel, a motel… or inside your car. Make sure the location is different from what she usually sees – that is, your house, for example.

The goal is to surprise her, please her and lavish her.

30. At work

Your loved one fantasizes about intimacy at work, and the time of the day doesn’t matter.

It could be early in the morning, before colleagues show up, or late at night, when only the janitor is the last person in sight.

Or even during the day, during her lunch break, when a co-worker of whom she is secretly enamored will slip through the ladies’ room and make unforgettable and unspeakable love to her, a quickie she’ll never disregard and that will help boost her morale before her next meeting.

31. Exhibitionism

Women like to show off, plain and simple. Some are adept at disguising that penchant for exhibitionism, while others have no qualms about displaying their sexiness with gusto.

Whichever style your sweetheart prefers, just know she loves to show the ‘goodies’ her mama gave her. The sad thing is that you, as her man, rarely pay attention.

If you did, you would notice her provocative side, the sexy lingerie she puts on, and the compliments she is expecting from you before she can make passionate love to you.

The exhibitionism fantasy also plays out when your lady wears attention-grabbing stuff to clinch her 10 or 15 minutes of general fame and, particularly, masculine adulation, at the mall, movie theater, stadium or dinner.

32. Wild sex

Your sugar babe wants wild, uninhibited and instinctual sex – and remember this, she is not alone in that category.

You, too, want that!

So why don’t you find a way to create the right place, atmosphere and moment to give it to her.

In her mind, she could have that unbridled sex with you or someone else.

The bottom line is, she wants it raw – with no strings attached, literally.

33. Threesome with another woman

The whole notion of threesome sounds good on many levels: one man and two women, one woman and two men, three women…all of which, I think, sound appealing to you, too.

As a man, you want to know that your partner fantasizes about exploring her lesbian bent – which all women have, to varying degrees – with you.

She dreams about a nice afternoon with you and a female stranger, or with two other female strangers, for a full body-to-body mélange.

The time and place can vary, but you get the idea, I guess.

34. Teacher/student

Society thinks that only men daydream about school girls – but women also do, albeit about school boys.

Let’s just say ‘students’; sounds better, right?

Your loved one nurtures secret dreams about being taken on a powerful and steamy ride with a student – with she, of course, being the professor.

She imagines showing one or two sexy and sexual tricks to her male pupil, who in turn will reciprocate by teaching her a few tricks on youthful, unchecked love.

35. Role-playing

Role-playing is a gigantic turn-on for your lady, but you can only explore that hidden zone if you talk about it openly. 

When it comes to intimate casting, your imagination is the only limit.

You can choose any role you want, let your lover choose hers, and then embark on a fantastic body-to-body adventure that will make her ask for more, more and more.

The ball is in your court, and with some imagination, you certainly can ignite the dormant passion in your girlfriend or wife.

36. Public quickie

The idea of a public quickie is ingrained in every woman’s mind…and body.

Your loved one would want you to be around permanently to help her quench her thirst for intimacy when it emerges.

She imagines someone, hopefully (and preferably) you, making intense 5-minute love to her in public – the place is yours to choose.

The higher the chance of being caught, the better...

Even if your sweetheart is prude, or wants you to believe she is, she still might yearn for that overt, quick and hot intercourse. Something to keep in mind!

37. Family reunion quickie

Family reunions are the perfect occasion to stage a quickie with your loved one, especially when tensions flare up and discussions become heated – as they typically do when three or four generations of people gather and exchange.

Your wife or girlfriend imagines both of you excusing yourselves and making a rapid trip to the basement or guest room, and then ‘releasing’ all the tension that has built up over the day.