How to Make Love All Night (and Drive Your Woman Wild) (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking) (17 page)

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Cover design and John Lewis

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Selected Works by Barbara

Keesling, Ph.D.

The Good Girl’s Guide to Bad Girl’s Sex
How to Make Love All Night (And Drive a Woman Wild)
How to Talk Sexy to the One You Love (And Drive Each Other
Wild in Bed)

Rx Sex: Making Love Is the Best Medicine
Sexual Pleasure: Reaching New Heights of Sexual Arousal &
Intimacy

Super Sexual Orgasm: A Woman’s Guide to Guaranteed
Satisfaction*

*Published by HarperPerennial as Discover Your Sensual Potential
A hardcover edition of this book was published in 1994 by HarperCollins Publishers.

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• How to Make Love All Night
  
  • Front Cover
    
  • Title Page
    
  • Copyright
    
  • Table Of Contents
    
  • Introduction
    
  • Chapters
    
    • Chapter One
      
      • Making Fantasy A Reality
        
        • What Makes Me Such An Expert?
          
        • I Know What Men Can Do And I Know What Women Want
          
        • Can We Talk?
          
        • Two Men Who Changed My Understanding Of Male Sexuality
          
        • Are You Ready For A Change Too?
          
        • Was That A Smile I Just Saw?
          
        • Why Are You Reading This Book?
          
        • Four Typical Men Who Want To Learn About Male Multiple Orgasm
          
    • Chapter Two
      
      • Meet Your Penis
        
        • A Penis Is A Terrible Thing To Waste
          
        • Aren’t You Tired Of Having Sex With A Stranger?
          
        • Does Your Penis Have A Mind Of Its Own?
          
        • Your New Best Friend
          
        • A Man Who Controls His Penis Is A Man In Demand
          
        • An Important Anatomy Lesson
          
        • Power To The Pc
          
        • Just A Few Minutes A Day
          
        • Get Ready, Get Set…
          
    • Chapter Three
      
      • Talking To Your Partner About Male Multiple Orgasm
        
        • Male Multiple Orgasm Should Bring A Couple Together
          
        • Did Your Partner Give You This Book?
          
        • To The Women Reading This Book
          
        • How To Use The Rest Of This Book
          
        • Keep Your Sex Safe!
          
    • Chapter Four
      
      • The Complete Pc Workout
        
        • Exercise 1: Hide And Seek
          
        • Exercise 2: Squeeze Play (three To Five Minutes A Day)
          
        • Exercise 3: The Big Squeeze (two To Three Minutes A Day)
          
        • Meet Early And Meet Often
          
    • Chapter Five
      
      • Male Multiple Orgasm—the Secret Revealed
        
        • Male Multiple Orgasm: My Definition
          
        • Meet James, A Multiorgasmic Man
          
        • Alan’s Story
          
        • The Multiorgasmic Male: Some Variations On A Theme
          
        • Bob Can Ejaculate More Than Once Without Losing His Erection
          
        • John’s Pattern Resembles Many Women’s Experience
          
        • Four “a” Students
          
        • “i Want To Believe This, But…”
          
        • A Quick History Lesson
          
        • “are You Sure There Isn’t A Catch?”
          
        • —
          
        • 27
          
        • —
          
    • Chapter Six
      
      • Learning To Touch, Learning To Feel
        
        • What Exactly Is Sensate Focus?
          
        • Sensate Focus Takes You Into Your Body
          
        • Play By The Rules
          
        • Preparing For The Exercises
          
        • Learning The Genital Caress
          
        • Exercise 4: Touch Of Heaven (with A Partner)
          
        • Exercise 5: Alone At Last (solo)
          
        • It Sure Feels Good, But…
          
    • Chapter Seven
      
      • Aroused And Aware
        
        • How Aroused Are You?
          
        • Learning The Scales
          
        • Practice Makes Perfect
          
        • What About Your Erection?
          
        • How To Peak
          
        • Exercise 6: Climbing Everest (solo)
          
        • Exercise 7: Twin Peaks (with A Partner)
          
        • Onward And Upward?
          
    • Chapter Eight
      
      • Orgasm, Ejaculation, And You
        
        • Peaking With The Pc Muscle
          
        • Exercise 8: King Of The Road (solo)
          
        • Exercise 9: Moonlight Drive (with A Partner)
          
        • A Position To Envy
          
        • Exercise 10: Enter The Dragon (with A Partner)
          
    • Chapter Nine
      
      • From Peaks To Plateaus
        
        • Exercise 11: Bronco Buster (solo)
          
        • Exercise 12: Endless Summer (with A Partner)
          
        • Student Driver On Board
          
        • Feel Like Makin’ Love?
          
    • Chapter Ten
      
      • Your First Multiple Orgasm
        
        • Two Ways To The Top
          
        • Fairy Tales Can Come True (or, The Tortoise And The Hare Revisited)
          
        • No Cheating, Please
          
        • The Shot Heard Round The World
          
        • Exercise 13: Doc Riskin’s Magic Motion (with A Partner)
          
        • One And A Half Orgasms Are Better Than One
          
        • Last-minute Jitters Before The Big Debut?
          
        • Exercise 14: One-man Mission To Mars (solo)
          
        • Three Steps To Higher Consciousness
          
        • Exercise 15: Texas Two-step (with A Partner)
          
        • Exercise 16: The Longest Yard (solo)
          
        • Exercise 17: The Big Takeoff (with A Partner)
          
        • For The Do-it-yourselfer
          
        • Exercise 18: Two-time Champion (solo)
          
        • You Know It’s Working When…
          
    • Chapter Eleven
      
      • Practice, Practice, Practice
        
        • Exercise 19: Splitting The Atom (with A Partner)
          
        • Exercise 20: The Daily Double (solo)
          
        • Where Do You Go From Here?
          
    • Chapter Twelve
      
      • Success!
        
        • Stephen’s Story
          
        • Alex’s Story
          
        • Charles’s Story
          
        • Frederick’s Story
          
        • Your Story
          
  • Appendix One
    
    • Interesting Things To Read When You’re Not Having Sex
      
  • Appendix Two
    
    • Male Sexual Organs
      
    • Acknowledgements
      
    • Credits
      

How to Make

Love All Night

(and Drive a Woman Wild)

Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking Barbara Keesling, Ph.D.

This book is dedicated

to my clients.

Contents

Introduction

Acknowledgements

One
Making Fantasy a Reality

1

Two
Meet Your Penis

17

Three
Talking to Your Partner About Male Multiple

29

Orgasm

Four
The Complete PC Workout

43

Five
Male Multiple Orgasm—The Secret Revealed

51

Six
Learning to Touch, Learning to Feel

67

Seven
Aroused and Aware

81

Eight
Orgasm, Ejaculation, and You

95

Nine
From Peaks to Plateaus

107

Ten
Your First Multiple Orgasm

119

Eleven
Practice, Practice, Practice

151

Twelve
Success!

161

Appendix
One Interesting Things to Read When You’re

173

Not Having Sex

Appendix
Two Male Sexual Organs (diagram)

176

Acknowledgements

178

About the Author

179

Credits

180

5

6 / BARBARA KEESLING, PH.D.

Selected Works by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D.

181

Front Cover

Copyright

182

About the Publisher

183

INTRODUCTION

Daniel and Allison have been making love on a rainy Sunday morning, and they are both totally turned on. It started in the shower with a slow massage and moved to the bedroom, where they have been having intercourse for the past ten minutes. Daniel knows that Allison needs at least another five minutes of intercourse before she can climax. Here’s the problem: Daniel doesn’t think he has five minutes left in him.

If Daniel continues having intercourse the way he has for the past ten minutes, it may be only a matter of seconds before he has an orgasm. He thinks about slowing down or stopping, but to break the rhythm now would only make it more difficult for Allison to climax—he knows that Allison is at that stage where any kind of change in his movement would only frustrate her. Besides, if he tried to stop or to change the rhythm, Daniel could lose strength in his erection, which would complicate matters even further.