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Index

A

apprenticeships, geisha, 5, 13, 40, 149,150

abortions, 182

arms, 52, 53

AIDS (autoimmune deficiency syndrome),184

Asian Geisha: accommodation expectations of, 105–106; American Geisha

American Geisha: Asian Geisha compared

compared to, 21–22, 71–72, 73, 189;

to, 21–22, 71–72, 73; attitude of,

apprenticeships of, 5, 13, 40, 149, 13–14; confrontation and, 191–193;

150; beauty practices of, 55; business

consciousness of, 4, 5, 14, 22–23; de-

of, 173–174, 189, 195–196; clients

termination of, 145–147, 149–150;

and selectivity, 170, 180–181; com-

development areas (Lucky Seven),

mitment ceremonies of, 176, 180;

160–161, 162–164; Four Fundamen-

competition of, 41, 164; confronta-

tal Needs, 126–129, 130–131; Good

tion and, 191, 192;
danna
of, 113,

Woman characteristics of, 124; priori-

176, 180; definition of, 5; description

ties of, 49–50; training goals of,

of, 15, 37, 41; femininity of, 15,

22–23.
See also
femininity; Geisha

38–39; history of, 5, 39; image im-

Attractiveness

portance of, 100; independence and

American Geisha Weight Loss and Main-

options of, 64; marriage and romance,

tenance Plan: affirmations for, 142,

21–22, 189; personal lovers, 183;

144; choice responsibility for, 145;

pregnancy and, 182–183; sex and,

daily chart for, 147–149; determina-

174–175, 189; sexually transmitted

tion (motivation) for, 145–147,

diseases and, 184; stereotypes of, 7,

149–150; eating tips, 152–156; ele-

39, 128–129; training aspects of, 31;

ments of, 142–143, 144–145; exer-

virginity rituals of, 183; visual presen-

cise tips, 151–152; refrigerator

tation of, 15, 41; weight and, 139

postings for, 156

Asian women, 2

anatomy, 29, 87–88, 100, 101–105.
See

attitude: of American Geisha, 13–14; of

also

female genitalia; vagina

Good Man, 117

ankles, 54

attraction: femininity and, 16–17; as goal

appearance, 51–56.
See also
Geisha Attrac-

of single woman, 46–47; pursuit
vs.,

tiveness

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38, 46–47, 48–49; weight and,

cow analogies, 20 –21, 186

139–140

credit, orgasm, 73–80

attractiveness.
See
Geisha Attractiveness

autoimmune deficiency syndrome (AIDS),

D

184

awareness, 147–149, 156

danna,

113, 176, 180

dating: appropriate discussions during,

172; appropriate men assessments for,

B

165–166, 170 –172, 181; circulation

back, 53

during, 173–174; meeting places and

Bad Man, 114–115, 117–120

situations, 48–49, 166, 167–170,

173; relationship stages in, 185; sex

beauty, 51–53.
See also
Geisha Attractive-

while, 174–178

ness

determination, 145–147, 149–150

birth control, 182, 183, 184

diets, 146–147, 153

blended orgasms, 97

Downer, Leslie, 37

body, 51–56, 58–59

breast augmentation, 54, 55

breasts, 52, 53

E

Brizendine, Louann, 18

ears, 53, 55

Brown, Sandra L., 120

eating tips, 152–156

Buss, David M., 44–45

egos, 69–73, 74–75

butt, 54

ejaculation, female: anatomy of, 84, 87,

88–90, 88
f,
89
f;
description of,

82–85; historical documentation of,

C

86–87, 86
f;
instructions on, 94–95;

calories, 153

men and, 93–94; shooting distance

classiness, 58–59

of, 85; statistics, 87; in Western

clitoral orgasms, 96, 97

society, 87

clitoris, 32, 33

employment, 7, 60, 61

clothing, 41, 56–59

empowerment, 8, 63–65

cock, 29, 100, 101–105

engagements, 178, 182

commitment: Asian Geisha ceremonies of,

equipment for masturbation, 28–29,

176, 180; progression of, 181–182;

34–35, 77–80, 83–84

rewards of, 20 –21; sex and, 176

Evolution of Desire: Strategies of Human Mating,

communication, 20

The

(Buss), 44–45

condoms, 184

exercise, 91–93, 151–152

confrontation, 191–193

eyes, 52, 53

consciousness, 4, 5, 14, 126–129

contraception, 182, 183, 184

F

cooking, 60

face, 52, 53

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family, 60

genital herpes, 184

fashion magazines, 56

genitalia, 29, 87–88, 100, 101–105.
See

fast food, 155

also

female genitalia; vagina

feet, 52, 54

girlfriends, 60, 61, 166, 167

Female Brain, The

(Brizendine), 18

Golden, Arthur, 4, 39

female ejaculation.
See
ejaculation, female

Good Man: actions of, 119–120; charac-

female genitalia: G-spot, 84, 87, 88–90,

teristics of, 115–117, 124, 132–133,

88
f,
89
f;
self-examination of, 31–33;

189–190; competition for, 165; dat-

terminology usage for, 29.
See also

ing potential, 170–174; definition of,

vagina

9; inappropriate men
vs.,
18–19,

114–115, 117–120; places and situa-

female prostate, 84, 87, 88–90, 88
f,
89
f
.

tions to meet, 167–170; selection and

See also

ejaculation, female

treatment of, 120–123.
See also
men