Sex Secrets of an American Geisha (36 page)

femininity: Asian Geisha and, 15, 38–39;

Good Woman, 124, 191.
See also
American

class and, 58–59; definitions of,

Geisha

16–17, 42–44; expression of, 14–16,

45, 48; male attraction to, 16–17;

Gräfenberg, Ernst, 87

masculinity compared to, 17–18, 30,

Gräfenberg Juice, 82, 85, 90

48

G-spot, 84, 87, 88–90, 88
f,
89
f
.
See also

feminists, 7

ejaculation, female

fingernails, 54

G-spot (blended) orgasms, 97

fingers, 52, 53

Four Fundamental Needs, 126–129,

H

130–131, 175, 190

hair, 53

Freud, Sigmund, 74, 97

hairiness, 30, 56.
See also
shaving

friends, 60, 61, 166, 167

hands, 52, 53

hepatitis, 184

G

herpes simplex virus (HSV), 184

Geisha Attractiveness: as area of develop-

high-priority goals, 49–50

ment, 161; areas of concentration,

hips, 52, 54

51–59; attraction
vs.
pursuit, 38,

HIV (human immunodeficiency virus),

46–47, 48–49; clothing, 41, 56–59;

184

prioritizing, 47–48, 49–50, 60–63;

hobbies, 166–167

sexy qualities, 42–44.
See also
femi-

ninity

How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get

Involved

(Brown), 120

Geisha Consciousness, 4, 5, 14, 22–23,

126–129

HPV (human papillomavirus), 184

Geisha Determination, 145–147,

HSV (herpes simplex virus), 184

149–150

Huang, Ti, 29, 30

Geisha Femininity.
See
femininity

human immunodeficiency virus (HIV),

Geisha Plan.
See
American Geisha Weight

184

Loss and Maintenance Plan

hygiene and masturbation, 33

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I

masturbation, 27–29, 33–35, 77–80,

83–84

inappropriate men, 18–19, 114–115,

11

meeting places and situations, 48–49,

7–120

166, 167–170

Iwasaki, Mineko, 39, 40

Memoirs of a Geisha

(Golden), 4, 39

men: anatomy of, 29, 87–88, 100,

J

101–105; attracting, 40–49; egos of,

69, 70–75; female ejaculation and,

Japanese Geisha.
See
Asian Geisha

93–94; female orgasm credit and,

74–80; feminine woman fever and,

K

16–17; inappropriate, 18–19,

114–115, 117–120; inspiration and,

Kegel, Arnold, 91

14; marriage fears of, 196; masculinity

Kegel exercises, 91–93

and, 15, 17, 31; rejection and,

knees, 52, 54

106–110; truths about, 8, 39, 40–41,

Korean
kisaeng,
5, 13.
See also
Asian

136; on weight issues, 139.
See also

Geisha

Good Man

mizuage,

183

money, 61, 62–63

L

motivation, 145–147, 149–150

laughter, and weight loss, 152

legs, 52, 54

N

liposuction, 54

lips, 53

neck, 52, 53

love juice, 82, 85, 90

needs, fundamental, 126–129, 130–131,

lubricants, 28, 32

175, 190

Lucky Seven development areas, 160–161,

negativity, 117, 118

162–164

Neil (boyfriend), 26, 113–114, 116

New York Times,

57

niceness, 116, 124

M

noses, 55

magazines, fashion, 56

nutrition, 153–154

maiko,

5, 13, 40, 149, 150

make up, 56–57

O

manipulation, 20

marriage: advice for, 196–202; Asian

Older Sister, 5, 13

Geisha and, 21, 189; goals in, 47, 49;

options, 63–65

men’s fears and, 196; proposal dead-

orgasms: clitoral, 96, 97; French terms for,

lines, 177–178; rewards of, 21; rules

103–104; giving credit for, 73–80;

for, 202–204; wedding
vs.,
134, 178

G-spot (blended), 97; uterine, 97–98;

masculinity: encouragement of, 31; femi-

vibrator-triggered, 77–80.
See also

ninity compared to, 17–18, 30, 48;

ejaculation, female; G-spot

traits of, 30, 56, 136

overweight.
See
weight

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P

shrines, 101–103

patron, geisha, 113, 176, 180

Shuko (geisha), 37

PC (pubococcygeus) muscles, 83, 91–93,

Skene, Alexander, 88

95–96, 95
f

Skene’s glands, 88–89

penis, defined, 29, 100

skin, 52, 53

le petit mort,

103–104

slang, 29, 100

phrases: cock-loving, 101; full-credit,

sleeping, 60, 154

75–76; for relationship stages,

snacking, 154, 155

185–186

sponsor, geisha, 113, 176, 180

plan development, 131–134

stages: commitment, 181–182; relation-

political correctness, 6–7, 46–47, 73–74

ship, 185–186

pregnancy, 182–183

STDs (sexually transmitted diseases), 184

prioritizing, 47–48, 49–50, 60–63

Stepford Wives, The

(movie), 45

proposals, 177–178

stereotypes: of Asian Geisha, 7, 39; of

pubococcygeus (PC) muscles, 83, 91–93,

Asian women, 2

95–96, 95
f

stomach, 52, 53

pursuit
vs.
attraction, 38, 46–47, 48–49

submissiveness, 8

Su Nu (sex advisor), 29

R

Super Size Me

(movie), 155

surgery, plastic, 54–55

rejection, 106–110

resale shops, 57

T

ribs, 52, 53

Taoism, 14

S

teeth, 53

telephones, 61

Scott (boyfriend), 25–26, 113–114, 116

terminology usage, 29, 100, 141

self-examination, 31–33

thighs, 52, 54

self-images, 69–73

thrift stores, 57

self-love, 27–29, 33–35, 77–80

time management, 60–61, 62–63,

sex: Asian Geisha and, 174–175; commit-

114–115

ment and, 176; noise and, 76; orgasm

toenails, 54

credit and, 73–76; terminology for,

29; while dating, 174–178

toes, 52, 54

sex toys, 28–29, 34–35, 77–80, 83–84

tongue, 53

sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), 184

toys, sex, 28–29, 34–35, 77–80, 83–84

sexy, 42–44.
See also
Geisha Attractiveness

shaving: cock, 104; face, 55; vagina,

U

29–31, 54

uterine orgasms, 97–98

shoulders, 52, 53

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V

White Tigress, 30

Woman Plain (sex advisor), 30, 32

vagina: rejuvenation surgery for, 55; self-

examination of, 31–33; shaving of,

women: anatomy of, 29, 84, 87, 88–90,

29–31, 54; terminology usage, 29;

88
f,
89
f;
Asian, stereotypes, 2; desir-

weight and, 52

able, characteristics of, 29; Good

Woman characteristics, 124, 191; self-

vagina muscles (PC muscles), 83, 91–93,

image and, 69–70.
See also
American

95–96, 95
f

Geisha; Asian Geisha;
specific topics relat-

values, 115–116, 118, 119, 189–190

ing to women

venereal diseases, 184

Women of the Pleasure Quarters

(Downer), 37

vibrators, 28, 34–35, 77–80, 83–84

woodcuts, 86
f

virginity rituals, 183

work, 7, 60, 61

vulva, defined, 29

wrists, 52, 53

Wrong Man, 114–115, 117–120

W

waist, 52, 53

Y

wardrobe, 41, 56–59

yang, 14–15, 18, 30.
See also
masculinity

wedding
vs.
marriage, 134

Yellow Emperor, 29, 30

9½ Weeks

(movie), 2

yellow fever, 16

weight: Asian Geisha and, 139; body areas

yin, 14–15, 18.
See also
femininity

and, 52; diet precautions, 141; impact

Younger Sister, 5, 13

of overweight, 136–138; maintenance

of, 51–53; physical attraction and,

139–140.
See also
American Geisha

Weight Loss and Maintenance Plan