The Essential Guide to Gay and Lesbian Weddings (34 page)

Finalize arrangements with:

 caterer

 florist

 photographer/videographer

 musicians

Meet with officiant to work on ceremony

Order wedding cake

Think about all modes of transportation (limos, etc.)

Purchase or make rental arrangements for wedding attire

Begin to record gifts as they're received, write thank-you notes

Adjust budget

PHASE 4 (1 TO 2 MONTHS BEFORE)

Decide on specific music selections, give to musicians and/or DJ

Arrange for rehearsal dinner

Finalize ceremony