The Essential Guide to Gay and Lesbian Weddings (35 page)

Work on ceremony announcement to be mailed to the press after the wedding

Arrange accommodations for out-of-town guests

Meet with travel agent and finalize honeymoon plans

Do final attire fittings

Buy gifts for attendants and each other

Buy wedding day accoutrements (guest book, bird seed to throw, etc.)

Go over list of shot requests with photographer

Have final consultation with caterer concerning menu changes

Talk through the day and list potential snags

Adjust budget

PHASE 5 (THE FINAL 2 WEEKS)

Reconfirm all services

Make arrangements for final payments and gratuities

Pick up wedding attire

Get honeymoon gear in order