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The Joy of Erotic Massage
(The New School of Erotic Touch)

Chapter 7:
Strip Clubs, Phone Sex, and Call GirlsâFor Two

Phone Sex

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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Phone Sex: Aural Thrills and Oral Skills
, Miranda Austin

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WEBSITES:

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www.phonesexcentral.com
,

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www.800phonesexsearch.com

Call Girls and Prostitutes

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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Paying for It
, Greta Christina

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Real Live Nude Girl: Chronicles of Sex-Positive Culture
, Carol Queen

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Turning Pro: A Guide to Sex Work for the Ambitious and the Intrigued
, Magdalane Meretrix

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WEBSITES:

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Escort guides:
www.eros-guide.com
,
www.janesguide.com

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Legal brothels, Nevada:
http://thenevadabrothels.com/index.html

Chapter 8:
Public Sex

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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A Guide to America's Sex Laws
, Richard A. Posner and Katherine B. Silbaugh

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WEBSITES:

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Public indecency and “lewdness” laws by state:
www.nudist-resorts.org/statutes.htm

Swinging

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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The Lifestyle: A Look at the Erotic Rites of Swingers
, Terry Gould

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VIDEOS, INSTRUCTIONAL:

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Nina Hartley's Guide to Swinging
(Adam & Eve)

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Swinging: From Fantasy to Reality
(Loving Sex/Alexander Institute)

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MAGAZINES:

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Loving More:
http://lovemore.com

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WEBSITES:

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Instructional:
www.sexuality.org/mgswing.html

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World's largest swinging convention:
http://lifestyles-convention.com

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Lifestyle organization:
www.playcouples.com

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Network:
www.theswinginglife.com
,
www.adultfriendfinder.com

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North American Swing Club Association:
www.nasca.com

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Resources for swing parties in your area:
www.eros-guide.com
. Quality-rated and reviewed swing parties can be found at
www.janesguide.com
(site uses frames; look under Jane's Regional Guide: *your state or country*/Swinging).

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San Francisco's Power Exchange:
www.powerexchange.com

Alternative Sex Parties

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WEBSITES:

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www.eros-guide.com/events.htm

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www.janesguide.com
(site uses frames; look under Jane's Regional Guide: *your state or country*/Night Clubs/Resorts)

Chapter 9:
Fetishes

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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Come Hither: A Common Sense Guide
, Gloria Brame

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Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples
, Patrick Califia

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Deviant Desires: Incredibly Strange Sex
, Katharine Gates

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Re/Search #12: Modern Primitives
, V. Vale

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Fakir Musafar: Spirit + Flesh
, Fakir Musafar

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BOOKS, EROTICA:

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Best Fetish Erotica
, Cara Bruce

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MAGAZINES, FETISH FASHION (INCLUDING RUBBER):

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Blue Blood, Demonia, Fetish Realm, Heavy Rubber, Marquis, Secret, Skin Two, Ritual, Taboo

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WEBSITES, FETISH FASHION (INCLUDING RUBBER):

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Blue Blood:
www.blueblood.net

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Dark Garden:
www.darkgarden.net

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Skin Two Magazine:
www.skintwo.com

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Secret Magazine:
www.secretmag.com

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Marquis Magazine (German):
www.marquis.de

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Rubber and fetish fashion community networkâcheck out the wide variety of fetish links in the “rubberdex” at:
www.rubberist.net

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House of Gord, the “home of ultra-bondage,” is a shrine for extreme rubber fetishists and forniphiliacs (human rubberized furniture):
www.houseofgord.com

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Fetish parties:
www.eros-guide.com/events.htm
;
www.janesguide.com
(site uses frames; look under Jane's Regional Guide: *your state or country*/Night Clubs/Resorts)

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WEBSITES, GENERAL:

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Fetishes index:
www.sexuality.org/fetish.html

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For scores of links to thousands of individual fetish websites, visit
http://dir.yahoo.com/Business_and_Economy/Shopping_and_Services/Sex/Adult_Galleries/

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Fewer sites, though less commerce-oriented than the index above, are at
http://dir.yahoo.com/Society_and_Culture/Sexuality/Fetishes_and_Fantasies/

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Personal pages on this index:
http://dir.yahoo.com/Society_and_Culture/Sexuality/Activities_and_Practices/

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Jane's Guide has a reviewed fetish site section helpfully organized by topic at
www.janesguide.com
; click on “Review Index.”

Chapter 10:
Erotic Dominance and Submission: S/M Fantasies

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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Come Hither: A Common Sense Guide to Kinky Sex
, Gloria Brame

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Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission
, Gloria Brame, Jon Jacobs, Will Brame

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Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples
, Patrick Califia

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S/M 101: A Realistic Introduction
, Jay Wiseman

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BOOKS, EROTIC FICTION:

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Best Bondage Erotica
, Alison Tyler

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Carrie's Story
, Molly Weatherfield

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Macho Sluts
, Patrick Califia

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Safe Word
, Molly Weatherfield

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VIDEOS, INSTRUCTIONAL:

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Fetish FAQ
(series, 1-4) (Ernest Greene and Mistress Ilsa Strix; Gwen Media)

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Whipsmart: A Good Vibrations Guide to Beginning S/M for Couples
(Sex Positive Productions)

Sweet Submission

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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Erotic Surrender: The Sensual Joys of Female Submission
, Claudia Varrin

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The New Bottoming Book
, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

When Being in Charge Turns You On

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl's Guide to Female Dominance
, Mistress Loreli

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The New Topping Book
, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy

Captivity and Erotic Torment

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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The Erotic Bondage Handbook
, Jay Wiseman

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The Klutz Book of Knots
, John Cassidy

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The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage
, Fetish Diva Midori

Pleasurable Pain and Punishment

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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The Compleat Spanker
, Lady Green

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Family Jewels
, Hardy Haberman

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Flogging
, Joseph Bean

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Sensuous Magic: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples
, Patrick Califia

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S/M 101: A Realistic Introduction
, Jay Wiseman

Organizations and Private Clubs

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The Exiles: woman to woman S/M:
www.theexiles.org

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QSMâQuality S/M books and nice link list:
www.qualitysm.com

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San Francisco's Society of Janusâsite has extensive links to reputable regional organizations:
www.soj.org

Seeing a Professional Dominatrix

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HIGHLY RECOMMENDED PROFESSIONALS:

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Cleo DuBois Academy of S/M Arts:
www.cleodubois.com

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Fetish Diva Midori and Fire Horse Productionsâ“Thoughtful erotic education for adventurous adults”:
www.fetishdiva.com

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Mistress Morgana of San Francisco:
www.mistressmorgana.com

Chapter 11:
Sex Games

Messy Fun

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BOOKS, ART:

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Messy Girls
, Charles Gatewood

Aphrodisiac Seductions

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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InterCourses: An Aphrodisiac Cookbook
, Martha Hopkins and Randall Lockridge

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Temptations: Igniting the Pleasure and Power of Aphrodisiacs
, Ellen and Michael Albertson

Make Your Own Porn

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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Erotic Home Videos: Create Your Own Adult Films
, Anna Span

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The Little Digital Video Book
, Michael Rubin

Your Erotic Photo Shoot

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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The Little Digital Camera Book
, Cynthia Baron and Daniel Peck

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Photography for Perverts
, Charles Gatewood

Webcams and Digital Images

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BOOKS, NONFICTION:

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The Little Web Cam Book
, Elisabeth Parker

Chapter 12:
Safer Sex

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CENTERS FOR DISEASE CONTROL

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