The Act of Marriage: The Beauty of Sexual Love (32 page)

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Yes
76%
71%
 
 
No
24
29
22.
Did you attempt intercourse the first night?
 
 
Yes
79%
69%
 
 
Yes, but could not make entrance
12
22
 
 
No
9
9
23.
Did you reach orgasm the first night?
 
 
Yes
26%*
 
 
 
No
74
 
 
 
Of these:
 
 
 
 
No, but did within 1 week
22
 
 
 
No, but did within 2–4 weeks
17
 
 
 
No, but did within 3 months
9
 
 
 
Never
5
 
*This figure includes 14% who indicated they had premarital sex.
24.
Frequency of orgasm now
 
 
Regularly or always
77%
 
 
 
Periodically
11
 
 
 
Never or seldom
10
 
Note: 2% of the women indicated they did not know what an orgasm is.
25.
Does husband know when wife reaches orgasm?
 
 
Regularly or always
82%
85%
 
 
Periodically
7
8
 
 
Never or seldom
3
7
 
 
Don’t know
8

26.
Does wife attain orgasm during sexual intercourse?
 
 
Regularly or always
64%
60%
 
 
Periodically
10
14
 
 
Never or seldom
24
23
27.
How often do you reach orgasm by clitoral manipulation before penile entrance?
 
 
Regularly or always
31%
 
 
 
Periodically
17
 
 
 
Never or seldom
51
 
28.
How often does wife require clitoral manipulation as the only way to reach orgasm?
 
 
Regularly or always
45%
33%
 
 
Periodically
10
16
 
 
Never or seldom
41
49
29.
Does husband manipulate wife’s clitoris orally?
 
 
Yes
68%
67%
 
 
Never
31
33
30.
If yes, how often?
 
 
Regularly or always
19%
13%
 
 
Periodically
20
21
 
 
Seldom
29
33
31.
How does the wife feel about being orally manipulated, and how does the husband
think
the wife feels about it?
 
 
Enjoys it
54%
43%
 
 
Neutral
13
15
 
 
Dislikes it
33
42
32.
How does the husband feel about orally manipulating his wife, and how does the wife
think
he feels about it?
 
 
Enjoys it
78%
69%
 
 
Neutral
9
18
 
 
Dislikes it
13
13
33.
How often does wife reach orgasm before husband?
 
 
Regularly or always
38%
31%
 
 
Periodically
16
22
 
 
Never or seldom
45
46
34.
How often do you and your partner reach simultaneous orgasms?
 
 
Regularly or always
13%
19%
 
 
Periodically
44
40
 
 
Never or seldom
41
41
35.
How often does the wife experience multiple orgasms?
 
 
Regularly or always
11%
 
 
 
Periodically
14
 
 
 
Never or seldom
71
 
36.
Minutes from beginning of foreplay to orgasm
 
 
Less than 10
6%
7%
 
 
10–20
51
55
 
 
20–30
31
26
 
 
30 or more
12
12
37.
Has the husband ever had difficulty ejaculating?
 
 
Never or seldom
 
93%
 
 
Periodically
 
6
 
 
Regularly
 
1
38.
How often has husband verbally told wife what stimulates him?
 
 
Never or seldom
31%
29%
 
 
Periodically
21
30
 
 
Regularly or always
45
39
39.
How often does wife tell husband what stimulates her?
 
 
Never or seldom
34%
41%
 
 
Periodically
28
24
 
 
Regularly or always
36
33
40.
On the average, how often do you have intercourse per week?
 
 
0–2 times
61%
61%
 
 
3–6 times
36
37
 
 
7–9 times
3
1
41.
How often do you desire intercourse per week?
 
 
0–2 times
48%
27%
 
 
3–6 times
49
62
 
 
7–9 times
3
11
42.
To what extent have you been satisfied with intercourse?
 
 
Regularly or always
73%
90%
 
 
Periodically
19
6
 
 
Never or seldom
8
3
43.
How often does the husband have trouble maintaining an erection, and how often does the wife
think
he does?
 
 
Never or seldom
96%
92%
 
 
Periodically
4
6
 
 
Regularly or always

2
44.
How often does wife help husband achieve orgasm by oral stimulation?

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