Read Keeping Your Cool…When Your Anger Is Hot!: Practical Steps to Temper Fiery Emotions Online
Authors: June Hunt
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“Long of face”
(or nose) means “slow to anger.” Psalm 145:8 describes God as slow to anger
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He is not quickly provoked: “The Lord is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love.”
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“Short of face”
(or nose) means “quick to anger.” Proverbs 14:17 describes a man with anger that pops off like a firecracker:
Burner #1—
Indignation is “simmering anger”
provoked by something that appears unjust or unkind and thus the emotion seems
justified
. At times the unrighteous religious rulers in the Bible felt indignation over Jesus’ miracles and His claim to be the Messiah; therefore, they felt justified in wanting to kill Him.
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Their perceptions, of course, were unjustified. Meanwhile, Jesus felt
righteous indignation
toward the religious rulers for their hardened hearts. Likewise, Jesus became “indignant” when the disciples prevented parents from bringing their children to Him so He might touch and bless them: “When Jesus saw this, he was indignant. He said to them, ‘Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these.’ ”
6Burner #2—
Wrath is “burning anger”
accompanied by a desire to avenge. Wrath often moves from the inner feeling of anger to the outer expression of anger. Vengeful anger can be deadly—both literally and figuratively. An old Chinese proverb says, “The man who opts for revenge should dig two graves.”In the Bible, God expresses His wrath as divine judgment on those who commit willful sin: “The wrath of God is being revealed from heaven against all the godlessness and wickedness of men who suppress the truth by their wickedness.”
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Fury is “fiery anger”
so fierce that it destroys common sense. The word
fury
suggests a powerful force compelled to harm or destroy. Respected theologian A.W. Tozer said, “The fury of man never furthered the glory of God.”
8Some of the religious rulers were so angry with Peter and the other apostles for proclaiming that Jesus was God, “they were furious and wanted to put them to death.”
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This is an example of why the Bible says, “Anger is cruel and fury overwhelming.”
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Burner #4—
Rage is “blazing anger”
that results in loss of self-control, often to the extreme of violence and temporary insanity. After an outburst of rage, a cry of remorseful regret or disbelief is often expressed: “I can’t believe I did that!”Yet those who continue to vent their rage toward others, including toward God, find themselves defeated by their own destructive decisions and ruined relationships. “A man’s own folly ruins his life, yet his heart rages against the LORD.”
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• Unresolved irritation leads to indignation—justifiably
feeling
and/or acting so that a wrong should be made right.
• Unresolved indignation leads to wrath—
reacting
with revenge.
• Unresolved wrath leads to fury—
reacting
with a furious lack of self-control.
• Unresolved fury leads to rage—
reacting
with violence and temporary loss of sanity.
• enabling you to recognize your buried anger
• providing insight into past hurts
• motivating you to seek healing for past hurts
• bringing your true feelings to light
• revealing inappropriate efforts to get your needs met
• alerting you to current problems that should be addressed
• enabling you to protect yourself and others from injustice
• exposing your need to set healthy boundaries
• inviting closeness within your relationships
• helping you realize your need for a relationship with God
• leading you to apply biblical principles for overcoming anger
• encouraging you to display a Christlike response by handling your anger properly
Anger is not a sin. What we
do
with our anger determines if it becomes sin.