Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment

BOOK: Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment


Sexual Confidence and Sexual Techniques To Give Women Incredible Pleasure

David Shade Masterful-Lover.com

Copyright 2006 by David Shade Corporation All rights reserved

David Shade and Masterful Lover are Registered Trademarks

of David Shade Corporation

The Agreement 5

Introduction 6

Being A Masterful Lover 7

Being Personally Powerful 8

Being Sensually Powerful 11

Being Comfortable With Sexuality 12

Getting Over Hurt 16

Women Are Highly Sexual Creatures 17

Being Comfortable With Her Sexuality 19

Sexual Techniques 31

Female Anatomy 34

Male Anatomy 36

Fetal Tissue 38

Female Orgasms 40

The Clitoral Orgasm 42

Fish Lips Cunnilingus 42

The Hummer 43

The "Nip it in the bud" technique 43

The Welcomed Method 44

The Body Of The Clitoris 47

The U Spot 49

The Vaginal Orgasm 51

The G Spot 52

The Deep Spot 54

The Cervix Orgasm 59

Give Her Her First Orgasm 61

Her First Vaginal Orgasm 65

The PC Muscles Method 65

If Nothing Works 66

Intercourse 68

Taoist Thrusting 68

Beginner’s Tantra 70

Female Multiple Orgasms 73

Female Ejaculation 75

Anal Sex 81

Difficult Case Studies 87

Getting Things Started 101

Kegel Exercises 108

Product Recommendations 110

Special thanks goes to Jim Thomsen for his help and his research into human sexuality at the Key West Institute for Tantra Studies.

The Agreement

The information in this program is for entertainment purposes only. It is not to be taken as legal or personal advice. You assume full responsibility for the consequences of your own decisions and actions. David Shade Corporation will not be held liable in any manner whatsoever stemming from your use of the information in this program.

You must always practice safe protected sex. There are other books and resources from qualified medical professionals to teach you how to do that. This program assumes that you always practice safe protected sex as directed by qualified medical professionals.

This program discusses highly controversial sexual activities. Neither David Shade Corporation, nor the author of this program, assume any responsibility for the exercise or misuse of the practices described herein.

There is a real and absolute distinction between explicit consensual acts between consenting adult partners for their mutual pleasure and all acts of violence against unconsenting partners. Imposing any sexual activity on a reluctant or unwilling partner (or anyone who cannot give legal consent) is a criminal offense. Further, state laws vary: some sexual activities, even between consenting adults, are illegal in certain jurisdictions.

By reading this program you agree to all of the agreement on this page. If you cannot agree to this agreement, do not read this program and immediately return this program for a full refund.

If you do agree to the agreement on this page, then read on, play nice, give women incredible pleasure, and enjoy...


Being a masterful lover is not about experience. There are plenty of men who are experienced but boring lovers. I know many women who divorced such guys.

Here is a letter that appeared in a national magazine. Mark Cunningham read this to his students in one of his seminars:

I'm a single average looking business man in my mid forties.

During the past three years I've slept with every married woman I have desired.

I meet them in super markets, bookstores, and record shops.

I invite them for coffee, and the rest is easy.

From these encounters, I have observed the following:

  1. I've not met a woman whose husband has made love to her properly in the past six months.

  2. Many of these women had never had a multiple orgasm. Two had never had orgasms until we went to bed.

  3. None of these women experienced any major guilt from these encounters.

  4. Most view they are neglected, and view our time as luxurious sin.

In the mean time, I've collected a casual harem. I'm never pushy, they call me.

Can you explain why so many men are such neglectful lovers?

Signed T.G.

That letter was not to illustrate that you should go out and pick up married women. Certainly not. It is simply to illustrate that there are a lot of men who are lousy thoughtless lover.

The sobering truth is that 30% of women have never had an orgasm. 70% of women have never had an orgasm in intercourse. Over half of all women have faked an orgasm.

Being A Masterful Lover

Being a masterful lover is about knowledge and beliefs.

Knowledge in that you seek to understand and appreciate women, that you know female anatomy, that you know how to give women orgasms, and that you are educated about human sexuality.

Beliefs in that you have healthy beliefs about sexuality, that you understand that women are highly sexual creatures that crave intimacy, that you are comfortable about your sexuality, and that you are comfortable with a woman’s sexuality.

Being a Masterful Lover is all about feeling alive, feeling like a man, enabling a woman to feel like a woman, and living life fully with meaning and purpose.

You love women. You are fascinated by women. You adore everything that defines a woman as woman. You derive no greater pleasure than pleasing a woman. You love nothing more than to give a woman the most powerful long lasting orgasm of her entire life.

Being a Masterful Lover is about being personally and sensually powerful.

Being personally powerful is about empowering beliefs, self reliance, a sense of deservedness, and Being The Man.

Being sensually powerful is about enabling her to enjoy everything that comes with being a woman, by expanding her envelop of sexual experiences, and bringing out in her that ruthlessly expressive natural woman.

Everything you need to completely fulfill a woman is already within her. You bring it all out in her because you command respect, you build trust, and you lead her.

But you also understand that a woman can only be as fulfilled as she believes she deserves to be. So you screen for the really worthy ones with the sense of deservedness enough to be capable of incredible pleasure.

Being Personally Powerful

Too many men seek power from outside themselves. They will part with great amounts of money in order to try to buy some magic bullet. There is no such thing as a magic bullet. Furthermore, they are not assuming responsibility for their own outcome.

Too many men are busy running around trying to get as many women to sleep with them as possible, thinking that it will prove something to themselves. But it won’t, and such men end up still having the same underlying problems. They need to fix their problems before they involve real people.

Too many men entirely base their self worth on how many women say yes. That puts all the power in the women. There is nothing personally powerful about that.

Too many men see women as an obstacle to get around to get to the sex. Such men are just masturbating inside an object.

So many men place power in a woman based solely on the woman’s looks. He does not even consider who she is as a person.

What you are seeking so relentlessly is nothing that comes from outside of you, it's something you already have.

There is only you. You have only you to rely on. You have only you that you can count on. And what better to work on than yourself?

But you have to believe that you deserve it.

People don’t necessarily get what they want. People don’t necessarily get what they need. Instead, people get what they honestly and truly believe that they deserve. In other words, people get what they expect to get.

The key to having what you want is not getting what you want, but being the person for whom getting what you want is a mere byproduct of the reality you create simply by the way you live life.

It builds a foundation of belief that is very real and a relationship with reality that is very empowering.

Get Real. Get in touch with reality. Respect reality.

Separate and differentiate a woman from her looks. All women are human beings. They just have female body parts. Appreciate the beauty of a woman, but don’t give her undue credit just for her looks. Base your opinion on who she is as a person.

You like being with a woman, but you don’t need her.

Do not base your self worth upon how many women agree to sleep with you. Base your self worth on what you think of yourself.

Get self validated. Believe in yourself, based entirely on what you think of yourself, not on what others think of you.

Self esteem is what you think of yourself. Ego is what you think other people think of you. To base your self image on what others think of you is to lack self esteem.

Be A Man. Stand up tall. Tell the truth. Live a life of integrity.

Assume responsibility for your own thoughts and actions.

And always, respect. Command respect. Demand respect. Treat others with respect. Associate only with those who treat you with respect. Be assertive when need be. It all begins with self respect. Self respect above everything else.

What does it mean to command respect? It means that other people do not dare violate you. Other people hold you in esteem. Other people take what you say seriously. But nobody is going to have respect for you unless you respect yourself.

What does it mean to have self respect? It means that you do not do anything that would violate your own morals and beliefs, meaning you never compromise yourself. It means that you never lie to yourself, you are never in self denial, you are always brutally honest with yourself. It means you have respect for others; only a person who holds themselves in esteem is capable of holding another in esteem.

When all of the above is true for you, you have everything it takes, and all that it takes, to obtain and enjoy the aspects of life that are so important to you.

When you rely on yourself, when you take responsibility for yourself and your outcome, when you believe in yourself, then you have everything you need; you have personal power.

And all of this is critically important to sexuality. Sexuality is controlled by the subconscious mind. If there is stress or conflict in beliefs and priorities, the subconscious mind will be in conflict and the sexuality will malfunction. Only when there is balance and harmony among all beliefs and all priorities can sexuality flourish.

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